Posted in breathe, DOUX, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

Retail Therapy Gratification

Retail therapy is one of the most gratifying ways to change how you feel. Feeling like a badass? Go buy some killer boots like these sexy thigh highs from BREATHE. You can find yours at Kinky. These are a must for any girl that likes a sexy power walk after making a bold decision. Wanna wraps the goods in something sexy, but sheer? Well, Oushk has the perfect little number at Whore Couture. They even offer up some color change panties for free, in case you’re not wanting to show off the hooha quite as much as the girls. *winks*

oushk breathe

wearing:
hair:  DOUX – Yuka hairstyle @ Level
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body:  [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.2)
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber
-7P-Ivy Tattoo Appliers @ TLC

SU!– Almond Nails @ Anthem
(Yummy) Zodiac Ring Set @ Uber
:oushk – Ivy Play Lingerie @ Whore Couture
[BREATHE]-Soji Heels @ Kinky

pose: Diversion – Affection Poses

Posted in Animals, Bueno, crate, Dahlia, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Lamb, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Linger

So, a few days ago or so, I did a post titled, Sady’s Soundtrack. In this post, I provided a link to a YouTube playlist of mine and offered my readers a chance to ask me about any of the songs and why they are so special to me. Well, I didn’t really figure anyone would ask, but my friend, Troy, did shoot me an IM on Facebook and asked about the song Linger by The Cranberries. I was immediately falling back into memories of days lying on my bed, staring out the window listening to this on my headphones. He would stand in the doorway and watch me singing.
You see, I was living in a Three Quarter House at the time, that’s kind of like a half way house, but with more independence and less rules. This house was also co-ed. His room was down the hall and naturally we were not supposed to be dating. There were hella good reasons for that, but I was in my twenties and you couldn’t tell me anything. *still can’t* He was such a bad boy. He was older by a couple of years and he looked just like Tupac. (Everyone said so.) He was smart and funny. He was also bad news…they all warned me, but again, I wouldn’t listen. The funny thing is when I first fell in love with that song, we had just met. Little did I know that was some serious foreshadowing come to life. For an entire year of my life, he had me wrapped around his finger and very much made a fool of me.

lamb asteroid box little fox crate

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Lover
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

AsteroidBox. Mya Bodysuit @ Whore Couture
Little Fox – Piper leather boots @ Kinky

pose: FOXCITY. Night Sassy Bento Pose Set

scene: 

Basement – Groove Night – The Bearded Guy

Di’Cor Handbag Clutter

BUENO-Journals Clutter-If Not Now When

crate Octagon Wall Shelf
crate Barclay Bed Aqua

Dahlia – Conjure – Candle – Black
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Vintage Clock – Copper .06
Dahlia – Conjure – Dried Herbs – Roses
Dahlia – Baby Robert – Antique Lamp – Silver – 1
Dahlia – Curious – Sparkle Bottle – Teal
Dahlia – Jardin – Roses in Brown Tin
Dahlia – Joanna’s – Macaroon Box
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Bundled Kitty – Brown – 03. RARE
Dahlia – Amore – Gem Chocolates – White
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Lashes Pillow – Blush 30
Dahlia – Lazy Days – Hot Water Bottle – Grey 14

dust bunny . areca palm plant

Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter White

MH Rosebud Dresser

18.erratic / lsm – clothing clutter – woman

Eudora3D Suitcase + Props Browns @ Uber
Eudora3D Vintage Trunk + Props Browns @ Uber

CELESTE – Glitter Square 4m – Static

Posted in Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Reign, Second Life, Uber SL

My favorite time of year

My favorite time of year is just around the corner. For some it is already showing its beautiful autumn head. Alas, for me, I am still battling 97°F/36°C temperatures and patiently waiting for the official end of Summer. Fall/Autumn is hands down my favorite season of the year. All my favorite things happen. My birthday and Halloween…so basically October! Thanksgiving…the holiday based on some lies, but has become a more positive holiday even as the truth is unveiled. Most of us find it a time to count our blessings and be grateful, so I like it. Plus its the absolute #1 most gluttonous holiday on the planet and anyone that knows me, knows how much I love good food! I know most people think of Christmas as Winter and technically it is, but its usually more like Fall where I live. It rarely drops into true Winter temps until January, for me.
Fall is the one time of year that I actually enjoy being outside…usually. I’m not much for leaving my house, but something about the smell of fireplaces and cool breezes….leaves changing colors and eventually falling. Well, I just love it, okay? It’s no different in Second Life, really. Some of my favorite sims like Scarlett Isle will most likely transition to a more Fall feeling and you will discover that I take a lot more photos outside. I am really looking forward to it this year more than I have in the last few years. So, raise whatever your favorite fall drink is and cheers to Fall…unless you’re drinking one of those pumpkin lattes…*laughs*

tv mie reign foxcity scarelett isle

Tableau Vivant // Belle hair
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Alexa Applier [ Catwa ] @ UBER
Ascendant – Classic Marble Nails
Miu – Alexa netting top @ Whore Couture
Miu – Alexa bike shorts @ Whore Couture
REIGN.- STORMIEZ SNEAKERS

FOXCITY. Bike Ride Bento Pose Set (includes bike)
location: Scarlett Isle

Posted in Events, Fashion, Jian, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Sexy Time

Its that time again…yep, you guessed it…Whore Couture is back. Prepare yourselves, because naughty pictures will be everywhere. You’re welcome. Y’all know how much I love taking sexy pictures. Well, they’re sexy in my mind and I hope that others enjoy them. Just try to remember that just because the bloggers and photographers of SL are posting dirty pics….or the fashionistas are running around scantly dressed…you are NOT to grab any of us inappropriately, not even in an emote. Well, unless we belong to you…and as of recently, I am officially off the market. So you guys can look and enjoy the view anyway you want..*grins*…but keep your hands and emotes to yourself. Let’s show some respect, yeah? Feel free to compliment each other, but please don’t assume that because we shed our inhibitions on the grid that the person behind the avatar is anything like that in the real world….unless you really know better…that does not mean your opinions are facts.

asteroid box whore couture

Tableau Vivant // Falling hair Gacha – Evenfall
AsteroidBox. Keres Jacket
AsteroidBox. Emilia Skirt & Shoes @ Whore Couture

JIAN Lively Labs :: Black Companion Pup

pose: Bauhaus Movement – Let The Beat Drop set

Posted in Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

Dancing to Demos

As more and more shopping events pop up on the grid, it is getting harder to decide where and how to spend our lindens. Plus there are so many outfits that look similar, sometimes we feel duped finding a similar look for less money at another event only a day or two after we just purchased one. So, I’m going to make a few recommendations over the coming days/weeks that will hopefully make your shopping life a little easier. I’ll write about these as they come to me. I’m going to start off by going over some pretty basic stuff that may seem rudimentary to some of you, but give me a chance to explain before you roll you completely roll your eyes at me. *looks at Dusty and laughs*

So, we will call the first tip, Dancing with Demos! First and foremost, know that demos are your friend. There’s nothing worse than buying something from a designer you’ve always trusted in the past to find that an outfit simply doesn’t work with your AO or your particularly shape. Double the shopping fun and grab those demos, go home, try them on, and make yourself a little list of what you like and immediately throw away what doesn’t work out. It never hurts to take that little bit of extra time to double check the fit.

There used to be a hair store that I never ever had to try demos, but then overnight they changed something and suddenly their hair simply did not fit me anymore. Their old hair did, but none of their new styles even fit. It wasn’t a matter or not looking good, they literally did not fit! Being rigged mesh, there was no way to resize them and I’m not going to complain to the creator when I didn’t bother to try the demo. Thus, I was out about 2k, as I always bought fatpacks, with nothing to show for it. So, no matter how much faith you have in a designer, I urge you to try on those demos. And for the love of other residents, please take your demos home to try on in the comfort of your own home…or to a friend’s place…or a sandbox…just not at the event, please!

Dorothy all grown up

wearing:
hair: MINA – Ariel (*new* @ Belle)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
.:: StunnerOriginals ::. Eyes Witty (*new* @ Unik)
IDTTY  Faces – Wild Eyeshadow (*new* @ TLC)
IDTTY Faces – Spicy Lipstick (*new* @ TLC)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Ichigo* – Saturn Earrings (*new* @ Belle)
Ascendant – Whore Deluxe Nails (*new* @ Whore Couture)
HORNTAIL Leika Maitreya Kawaii Swimsuit (*new* @ Belle)

pose created by me using AnyPose
MINIMAL – Illuminate Backdrop #5

 

 

Posted in Catwa, Eudora3D, Events, FaMESHed, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, Uber SL

Cold

“I never really wanted you to see
The screwed-up side of me
That I keep locked inside of me so deep,
It always seems to get to me
I never really wanted you to go
So many things you should have known
I guess for me there’s just no hope;
I never meant to be so cold”
~ Crossfade – Cold

Cold

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Jimi (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

Wicca’s Originals – Shannon (*new* @ Whore Couture)
Eudora3D Dakota Boots (*new* @ Uber)

pose: :: Focus Poses Sexy Pouf ::
MINIMAL – Futuristic Backdrop

 

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, United Colors

A Little Wicked

Since my friends thought that my sweet and innocent post was too far of a stretch for me…assholes…I thought I’d show them what they really want to see. I mean who doesn’t love to see a woman on her knees, bare breasted, right?  Well, they seem to prefer me a little wicked. It’s a good thing, cuz that’s my comfort zone, isn’t it? Just nod and smile, you know I just waked and baked. *blows smoke* I’m feeling a little wicked this morning, so I’m going to cut this short and go find some trouble. *grins*

on my knees
A little wicked,” that’s what he calls me
Cause that’s what I am, that’s what I am

wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant  \\ Silvana hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
[Atomic] Kitten Collar
LYBRA . LACY DRESS RARE (*new* @ Whore Couture)
LYBRA . LACY PANTIES WHITE (*new* @ Whore Couture)
UC_Luna_high_heel (*new* @ Kustom9)

**no pose or background information available, as this was a candid shot, using random ground sit in my personalized ao**

Posted in Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Pale Girl Productions, RunAway Hair, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping, Skin Fair, Tres Chic

Waiting For Paint To Dry

Regardless of whether you’re a DIY or Salon girl, getting your nails done is like waiting for paint to dry. I’m clearly profiling, but in my neck of the woods the best nail shops are run by Asians, mostly Vietnamese or Korean. Y’all know me, I ask questions. I’d rather sound ignorant for asking a question than be ignorant while assuming I know something I don’t. You’d think a salon full of people wouldn’t make you zone out, but when they’re chattering away in their native language and it all just sounds like high pitched noises to you…well, its easy to zone out. Painting your nails at home, you try to get everything situated before you start, because its going to take a while before you can move about freely. You nail polish is unforgiving! This is when I tend to slip down inside myself and get lost in thoughts. If good things are happening in my life, I can revel in my blessings. I can be grateful and wish good things, send love & light to others. It’s like a fairy tale room in my mind. However, if things are messed up or I’m going through a rough time, that’s when my demons come out to play. Its like getting locked in the attic with a room full of creepy dolls, each one whispering a secret in a creepy little doll voice.

Waiting For Paint to Dry

wearing:
hair:  [RA] Alana Hair (*new* @ ShinyShabby)
hairbase: Just Magnetized – Special Hairbase set 05 for CATWA Skin Fair (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: CURELESS[+] Dilated Eyes
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
lipstick & lashes: HUWE COSMETICS – PACK MATTE COLLECTION (Catwa) HUD APPLIER. (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
eyeshadow:  Wednesday[+] ~ Glitter Circles
nail polish: alme. Love Ombre – Matte (*new* @ TresChic)

top tattoo: Ambition – Black Tattoo [CAROL G] Maitreya ADD (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
bottom tattoo: .:AuricA:. Molly Leg Tattoo (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)

[CX] Hell’s Harbinger (Black Out)
Legal Insanity – Lily black tops (*new* @ TresChic)
:::insanya::: JennaShorts – Solid (*new* @ Whore Couture)

pose: FOXCITY. B A D Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – B A D (Black Tintable) (*new* @ Limit8)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Pale Girl Productions, Second Life, shopping, Skin Fair

It’s All About Avenge

This blog is focused almost solely on Avenge. This store not only does amazingly sexy clothes, but skins and shapes, too! Now, I worked closely with a dear friend to get my shape to where it is and I’ve never been happier, but I always appreciate good skins. Not only does Avenge deliver this gorgeous Heather Skin at the Skin Fair, but if you head over to Whore Couture, you can find some of their sexy outfits that I mentioned. Like this sparkling glitter number I’m wearing below. You can’t see it, but this literally sparkles. Do not confuse that with bling, this is sparkling. I’ve seen a few designers perform this sparkling magic and my love for shinies makes it impossible for me to pass up.

Avenge

wearing:
hair: TRUTH VIP February – Carla
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Avenge] Heather skin applier for Catwa – pale (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
[Avenge] Sparkling Glitter tank for Maitreya – silver (*new* @ Whore Couture)
[Avenge] Sparkling Glitter panties for Maitreya – silver  (*new* @ Whore Couture)

poses: FOXCITY. B A D Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)
background in above photo:  FOXCITY. Photo Booth – B A D Limited (*new* @ Limit8)

Below are examples of all the Avenge skin tones. From Ivy to Dark.

Avenge Heather

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Narcisse, Pale Girl Productions, Second Life, shopping, Skin Fair, [ATI] Addicted to Ink

Let’s Go Crazy

Sometimes the world just doesn’t make sense. I think it’s pretty clear that I’m not the picture of perfect mental health. I’m not sure there even is such a thing to be honest. Hell, mental health has been called all sorts of names throughout history.  Even the names of disorders change….what once was called manic depressive is not called bi-polar. Why? Why did they change the name? Manic depressive was spot on. I think everyone and anyone can catch that disorder on the right day or wrong day as the case might very well be.
Seriously, think about it for a minute.  You are having a great day. You slept great, you woke up right before your alarm went off. The weather is your favorite kind of day. Everything is going well. Catching all the green lights in traffic. Errands go great, you even saved some money unexpectedly. You come home, dinner is great….you slip into your favorite PJs…you’re set. You’re happy as you can be….then it happens. You get a tragic phone call. Something awful has happened to someone you love and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it. You’re alone with this awful news. That’s going to be a helluva a mood swing, don’t you think?  Say the reverse happens. Whole day has been shit. Slept like shit, overslept, bad hair day, pouring down rain, you get stuck in traffic…you get home, burn dinner…then unexpectedly your best friend calls. She’s coming over and she’s bringing pizza. Your whole day just got better in an instant. Mood swing. *shrugs* Must be bi-polar.
Ever just felt so damn lazy, you just didn’t even want to get out of bed? Ever just want to stay in bed all weekend, veg out with the remote and some junk food? Ever just do it, cuz you want to? Well, you must be depressed, you can’t even drag your ass out of bed. I’m in no way minimizing any diagnosis. I’m more than fully aware that there are varying degrees of each legitimate disorder. I’m not even suggesting to know what is and isn’t legitimate….I’m not a psych-anything….well, maybe psycho, but that’s about where my expertise ends. I’m sure not yelling at Matt Lauder about how mental health is a hoax, while clearly proving that it is very real.
I’m just saying, that the world doesn’t always make sense. So, if you’re a little crazy…so what? Be crazy. Be you. Love drama? Do it up. Hate drama? Stay away from it. Wanna dance? Crank up the music and dance. Who cares? We all have to get through this thing called life one way or another…so if you’re not crazy….why not? C’mon, let’s all go crazy.

melting
Are we gonna let the elevator
Bring us down, oh, no let’s go
Let’s go crazy, let’s get nuts
Look for the purple banana
‘Til they put us in the truck, let’s go
All excited but we don’t know why
Maybe it’s ’cause we’re all gonna die
And when we do, what’s it all for
Better live now before the grim reaper
Come knocking on your door

wearing:
hair: tram H0210 hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: LOTUS. Louise Skin Applier 04 (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
tattoo: [ATI] Simon.(*new* @ Elite)
EF: Springleaf Earrings (*new* @ FaMESHed)
EF: Springleaf Necklace (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Narcisse– Nelly Lace up Dress (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: [ Focus Poses ] Naughty Chair 2
[Bad Unicorn] 02 Hype-Beast Backdrop

LOTUS. Louise Skin (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
:::insanya::: JennaShorts – Solid (*new* @ Whore Couture)
pose by an lar
Lotus