The Foyer

The foyer of a home is like the catch all, when you come in the door and have to bolt for the bathroom. I don’t know about you, but it never fails that I’ve got my arms full and that’s the exact moment that I need to pee! I was so excited about these sets from Silence. Although they were designed for a hallway, I could not help myself. I had to use them to decorate the foyer in my new skybox. I added some clutter to reflect that moment right after I get home from a day of running errands and shopping. Drops my bags on the floor, except the tacos and coffee….those are precious and can’t be trusted on the floor with the cats around. *giggles* It might have a fancy name like the foyer, but I think mine should be called the rush in and catch it room.

the foyer

scene created in Onsu ~ “Maple” Skybox ~ w/ Environment

Silence. – Whittaker Hallway
-Silence. – Whittaker Rug
-Silence. – Whittaker Dresser
-Silence. – Whittaker Frame
-Silence. – Whittaker Gold Accessories
-Silence. – Whittaker Mirror

Silence. – Whittaker Accessory Set (*new* for Go by FaMESHed)
-Silence. – Whittake Bench w/Pillows
-Silence. – Whittaker Canvas Art
-Silence. – Whittaker End Table
-Silence. – Whittaker Table Lamp

{what next} Wall Hanging Plant #1
{what next} Wall Hanging Plant #2
{what next} Wall Hanging Plant #3

Ariskea & Unkindness [Solace] Romarin Plant
Ariskea & Unkindness [Solace] Candle 4

BAZAR – Stockholm-Paper bag (decor)

tres blah– Hodgepodge – What’s in My Bag RARE
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Catch All

DRD – RK – Free Bonus – Bag of Groceries

BUENO– Taco Bag Deco

MudHoney Larson Wreath

MudHoney Liza Heels – Black

(fd) Cat – 08 Stretching
(fd) Cat – 02 Sleeping Curled

Apple Fall Handbag & Scarf

dust bunny . coat rack

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Home Office

It’s getting unbelievably cold outside at night, but during the temperatures during day  fluctuate 10-20* from what they are at night. My poor desk is staying cleaner, but I’m getting farther and farther behind. So, today, I’m going to do everything I can to get caught up in SL…yes, this is how I shall spend my Saturday. Hell, I went to bed at 8pm last night with a handful of medication.
I’ve always dreamed of having a beautiful study much like this one. I see photos of other people’s desks on FB and I’m can’t help but wonder how the hell they keep them so clean. It’s definitely something I’m working on. In the meantime, if you’re like me and love office supplies and fun ways to decorate a home office or study area. Give some of the stores listed below a visit. They’ve all got super cute stuff and I’m lacking the words to be all touchy feely and wordy this morning. So, I wish you all a weekend filled with love & laughter & shopping♥

home office

scene created in Myrrine Greenhouse white

uk – Celestial Nook Cabinet & Acces Set
-uK – Celestial Nook Shelf Left White
-uK – Celestial Nook Trunk White
-uK – Celestial Nook Book Set 2
-uK – Celestial Nook Book Set 3
-uK – Celestial Nook Crescent Moon Silver

ACORN Writing Desk Set
-ACORN White Wood Desk
-ACORN White Wood Chair
-ACORN Perfume Art -Pink
-ACORN Perfume Art -Blue
-ACORN Desk Lamp -White/Metal
-ACORN Pencil Case
-ACORN Pencil Stand
-ACORN Letter Holder
-ACORN Vase of Tulips -Apricot
-ACORN Stationary Organiser -Blush
-ACORN World Globe
-ACORN Rug -Ashton

ACORN Book 3 Stack -Turtle
ACORN Shadow Box Butterfly Green
ACORN & Dahlia Shelly -Suede Cerice

{what next} Wall Hanging Plant #3
{what next} House Plant – Eucalyptus (stand)
{what next} House Plant – Rubber Tree

BUENO– Laptop Blessed

KraftWork 2018 Calendar . Fameshed November Gift 2017

{moss&mink} Dazzle Pumpkin (Cluster)
{moss&mink} Love Hideaway – Art Print GIFT
{moss&mink} Unicorn Party – Hanging Stars 1 GIFT

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Do I Wanna Know?

“Do you ever get the feeling that you can’t shift the tide
That sticks around like something’s in your teeth
And some aces up your sleeve
I had no idea that you’re in deep
I dreamt about you near me every night this week
How many secrets can you keep’
‘Cause there’s this tune I found that makes me think of you somehow
When I play it on repeat
Until I fall asleep”
~ Arctic Monkeys – Do I Wanna Know?

Do I Wanna Know

wearing:
hair:  TRUTH Aislin
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber
LYBRA . SIRIA SET (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)
JIAN Beagle Pup (Companion – Add me!)

pose: FOXCITY. Rain Bento Pose Set

scene created on the patio of  DaD DESIGN “Woodpecker Cottage”
ChicModa // Fresno Bench (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
LISP – Mesh – Newspaper and Coffee – Peach with steam
Fancy Decor: Rain Boots
{what next} Greenwich Rug
{what next} Floor Jar Lantern (stars)
{what next} Snake Plant
{what next} Pothos Plant (trailing)
{what next} Swiss Cheese Plant
{what next} Hanging Heart Decor – Love Grows Here

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Coffee House

“Wrap me in your arms
I can’t feel it but
Wrap me in your arms
I can’t feel it but…”
~Sylvan Esso – Coffee

I’ve always love quaint, comfy locally owned coffee shops. Long before Starbucks put itself in ever Target and strip mall they could fine, before Dunkin was better know for their coffee than their donuts, there were these amazing little coffee shops in my area. They made you feel at home. The coffee was great, the people were great, the atmosphere was great. Though each coffee house had its own energy and style, each one was equally welcoming. Sadly, when Starbucks and Dunkin popped up everywhere with their fancy little drive thru windows…and life got busier…and I pulled away from my friends…well, I don’t even remember the last time I was in one of those coffee houses.
I’m adding a little tagline/side note to end of each blog going forward, because my blog posts are being stolen for another site. ***So, please know if you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Coffee Shop

outside: BUENO-City Block-Regular

scene created in Room 143 – The [Den.]

uk – Autumn’s Hall Decorative Screen (GO by FaMESHed)
uk – Autumn’s Hall Console Table (GO by FaMESHed)
uk – Autumn’s Hall Table Lamp (GO by FaMESHed)
uk – Autumn’s Hall Deco Balls Bowl (GO by FaMESHed)
uk – Autumn’s Hall Hat Stand (GO by FaMESHed)

{what next} Colonna Hot Chocolate Station – Full Set
{what next} Colonna Hot Chocolate Bar Wall Decor (lit)

crate Repurposed Wall Cabinet ~ Cream (GO by FaMESHed)

SHADES – Tufted Sofa Adult (*new* @ ULTRA)
SHADES – Tufted Ottoman Adult (*new* @ Blueprint)
SHADES – Tufted Chair

JIAN Countryside Collies :: Family Rug

*PAN* Summer of Love Orb Curtain (Amber)

dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . pink medinilla plant
dust bunny . potted bromeliad
dust bunny . pilea peper plant
dust bunny . potted rubber tree

Apple Fall Althea Rug – Antique Dark
Apple Fall Coffee & Muffin
{af} Tied Books

*Second Spaces* 4across set
*Second Spaces* backgammon set

=EliBaily= Book Stack Decor

15.erratic / lsm – magazine & news
28.erratic / cwe – stack of books 1

{vespertine -used suitcase books}

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Stacked Magazines

Hidden Treasure

Have you ever played one of those hidden clue games? There’s several on Facebook, plenty of apps for phones, etc. You find the hidden objects and progress through the story. The picture with the hidden objects usually reflect that particular part of the story. Well, when I initially started setting up this scene….I ended up chasing squirrels all over the internet. What started out as a squirrel’s Halloween party quickly turned into a hidden object picture. Except, you don’t have to find them, they are all listed below with slurls so that you can go grab your own fun Halloween and Autumn decor! Happy shopping!♥

hidden halloween

wearing:
hair:  #Besom~Pesha
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alice Applier

!APHORISM! Ariana Hoody (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Addams // Millie Wool Socks // N*30

FOXCITY. Legs for Days Bento Pose Set

scene: 
*alirium* DwarfForest [OldGold]
*alirium* DwarfForest [Ember]

[ keke ] tree with mattress . all seasons (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[ keke ] willow leaves for ground – maxi

NOMAD // Scattered Leaves

Apple Fall Pinecones & Hazelnuts

JIAN Red Squirrel Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-JIAN Red Squirrel Feeder Tree
-JIAN Red Squirrel (Wanderer)

[Bad Unicorn] ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ (*new* @ Arcade)
-[Bad Unicorn] Ghost Stand ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Game Over Backpack ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’
-[Bad Unicorn] Tricked Treats Pumpkin (Arcade Exclusive)
-[Bad Unicorn] Dinosaur Mask ‘Cute Meets Evil Set’ RARE
-[Bad Unicorn] GRRReen Hands

crate Jack O’Lantern Decor ~ Ironwood Hills Gift
crate Nightshade Cloak Rack

.BIRCH Pentagram Torches (*new* @ TLC)

{what next} Fall Harvest Wheelbarrow
{what next} Autumn Bicycle Decor

Dahlia – Newport – Distressed Trinket Box  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Dahlia – Baby Robert – Antique Lamp – Copper ~ Ironwood Hills Gift

floorplan. vintage crate

hive // extra crates [dark]

SAYO – Vizcaya Garden Party Set – Candles & Leaves

Fall Into Autumn

Oh get your dirty minds out of the gutter, I am not talking about some hot girl named Autumn. Yeah, I know my readers. *laughs* I’ve been working on this room for over a week. I kept adding to it, taking away, moving this, replacing that.  Finally, I got it the way I want it. I look at the room and wish I could sink down in that couch with a good book. It sorta dawned on me, that I have a beautiful living room with furniture that is less than a year old and superbly comfortable. It needs to cool off first, that room is almost all windows and its too bright…too hot in there. *hisses at the sun*

Fall Into Autumn

I used Fancy Decor: Faline Wall Panels (gold) to create the room.

[Ds] Chesterfield Wingback Daddy’s Adult Chair

Polar Bear. Cat Frame – Brown Wood

dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . potted palm

{what next} Autumn Picture Shelf 2

Fancy Decor: Prescott Collection (*new* @ Uber)
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Coffee Table
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Vase with Branches
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Shelf
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Accent Chair
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Decorative Box
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Vases
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Petite Vases
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Honey Jug
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Leaning Books with Urn
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Photo Frame
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Book Stack with Box
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Books with Bookends
-Fancy Decor: Prescott 19th Century Painting
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Rug
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Sofa – cream leather
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Side Table
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Decorative Bowl
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Book Stack
-Fancy Decor: Prescott Basket

Fancy Decor (*new* @ Salem)
-Fancy Decor: Putnam Console
-Fancy Decor: Pumpkin Spice Quote
-Fancy Decor: Pumpkin Spice Candle
-Fancy Decor: Potted Succulent
-Fancy Decor: Cactus Pumpkin Planter
-Fancy Decor: Succulent Pumpkin Planter

Fancy Decor in the Gacha Gallows @ Salem)
11 Fancy Deccor: Opulent Pumpkin (Emerlad – plain)
06 Fancy Deccor: Opulent Pumpkin (Onyx – jeweled)
05 Fancy Deccor: Opulent Pumpkin (Midnight – plain)
03 Fancy Decor: Opulent Pumpkin Stand (medium)
02 Fancy Decor: Opulent Pumpkin Stand (tall)
01 Fancy Decor: Opulent Pumpkin Stand (short)

09 Fancy Decor: Gold Dots Pillow
13 Fancy Decor: Nope Pillow

uK – The Journey Leafy Planter (*new* @ FaMESHed)

tres blah– Hodgepodge – Snail Mail
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Globe (Classic)
[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’
.peaches. Bae’s Journal – Floral
ISPACHI – The Arrival – Between Two Squirrels

Cupid Threw Up

OMG! Cupid threw up all over the grid! Fuck it, he threw up all over the damn world. You can hardly go anywhere in SL or RL without being flooded in various shades of pink and red, not to mention all the hearts. Second Life will be no exception, especially considering how many people get married and partnered every other week. I’m not judging…I swear. >.>
I happen to love hearts. Just the shape of them and I have a huge heart with lots of love to share. However, I’m not an especially romantic person. I always knew there were different types of love, but it was only a recent discussion with a friend that taught me that these different types of loves have names. So, off I went seeking some knowledge on the four types of love: Eros, Agape, Phileo, and Storge. I actually found a really great blog on the subject that is aptly titled: Four Kinds of Love; Eros, Agape, Phileo, & Storge. So, if you’re like me and looking for a different way to celebrate a holiday with history as interesting as the different types of love, try some light reading on both subjects. I know I plan to do some more reading and who knows, I might even end up writing more about it.
If you are looking to decorate & celebrate, there’s no shortage of lovely Valentine themed items to be found. You can start at FaMESHed where you’ll find this lovely bedroom suit that offers both gray and pink versions of several items, as well as a lovely free gift to those in the FaMESHed Update group. Plus, Vinyl made the cutest little babydoll top with shorts and named it after me….I was so surprised and honored, as I have been a long time fan of the store. So, make sure you check that out…just think you can wear me! Sorta…lol.

vday

wearing:
hair:  pr!tty – Tory (*new* @ Gacha Garden)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
Vinyl – Sugar Sady Babydoll (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Me Time Bento Pose Set

scene:
uk – That’s Amore Bedroom Set (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-uK – That’s Amore Adult Bed
-uK – That’s Amore Grey Storage Ottoman
-uK – That’s Amore Nightstand
-uK – That’s Amore Dresser
-uK – That’s Amore Flower Basin
-uK – That’s Amore Ruffled Rug Pink

!gO! Be mine – Berti (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
!gO! Be mine – Liv & Lou RARE (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

Silence. – Flower Heart
Silence. – Heart with Arrow

{what next} Hearts Alarm Clock (ivory)

dust bunny . olive branch heart

Kalopsia – Dark Heart Lantern

 

Something There

It had been such a long day at work. All she could think about was going home, letting her hair down and getting in the pool. She loved nothing more than lounging around the pool in evenings and tonight would be no exception. She even had a new bikini, not that anyone was going to see it…well, unless her hot new neighbor happened to join her. She still wasn’t sure if her neighbor was even into girls, but the company would be nice either way. A few drinks might bring out the truth and she had plenty to choose from, there was something there…whether her neighbor felt it or not, she sure as hell did.

its been a long day

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Margarita (*new* @ Uber)
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Face Miriam”
eyeshadow: –SU!– Smokey Eyeshadow +CATWA APPLIER+
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara

[ kunst ] – Lucy choker (*new* @ Uber)
::SG:: RingQueen Nai MAITREYA (*new* @ MBA Fair)
Kaithleen’s Bikini (*new* @ MBA Fair)

pose by Foxcity edited with AnyPose
scene:
Trompe Loeil – Zohra Oasis
:CP: RollerDisco Slush
:CP: Natalie Patio Palm Plant
:CP: Natalie Table
{what next} Palisades Drinks Tray
:CP: S’mores Camp Lounger 1
Ariskea [ Porcelain] Tropical Plant 2

Don’t Do It! Just Don’t!

I’ve written before about how much I love bikinis in Second Life and one of the reasons is because you wouldn’t catch me dead in one in Real Life! *laughs* I’ll hardly put on a swimsuit at all these days. The last time I went swimming in RL I was stoned and in a friend’s backyard. Why? Because I’m ashamed of my body. I hate it. I am overweight and I have a lot of scars. All it took was one summer at the pool for me to overhear some women laughing and going on about how my fat, pale ass shouldn’t be allowed at the pool. I stayed in the water just kinda hiding in a corner of the pool until they left. I suffered a horrible sunburn, but I didn’t want to hear their ugly remarks again when I got out and I wasn’t going to let them see me cry.
I realize I shouldn’t let people have such power over me, but let it happen to you and let’s see how well you handle it. Good for you if you can handle it better than I did. I envy those that are not bothered by such things. So, in SL I choose to look how I wish I did in RL. Yes, I’d love to be fit…a little thick, I don’t want to be model thin and I’ve got more than enough fat to deal with in RL. Sadly, the fact that we can look however we want in SL, yet still people want to shame each other for how they CHOOSE to look. No one in SL just happens to look that way. No one’s avi is suffering from an eating disorder. The way our avatars look is purely our choice.
I admit that I’ve seen some avatars and just shook my head. I don’t get it. I don’t understand why people choose to look a certain way and yes, perhaps a few comments in IMs with friends, but certainly never anything out loud and to their face. I think that is incomprehensible. Its bullying at its finest. Body shaming in either world is terrible. Its one thing to laugh among your friends at the girl whose butt looks like it at Tokyo or the guy whose eyes are so far apart he looks like an alien, but its entirely different to go up to them and accuse them of mental illness, being sick, or any other degrading remark that makes you feel that your choices are better than theirs. Its actually wrong for us to even make little remarks in IMs, but we are human and its going to happen. You can do it tactfully with your friends quietly or you can keep your mouth shut entirely, but to call someone out for the choices they make about their avatar’s appearance is flat out wrong. Its no different from any other type of hate speech. Its bullying. Period. I cannot stress that enough.
We come here to live a life we can’t live in the real world, at least most of us do. Luckily there are incredible designers to assist us in looking our best, as well. Unlike the real world, where often times the plus size department looks more like someone threw out Grandma’s curtain collection. So, when you find yourself thinking, “WTF?” as you see an avatar that bewilders you, please for the love of humanity, do not approach that person with hatred. If you’ve got nothing nice to say to them, say nothing. Do NOT bully or body shame one another in a virtual world. Don’t Do It! Just Don’t! Think how you’d feel if someone said such things to you or someone you love. Please be kind to one another. There is far too much hate in this world already.

cynful bikini

wearing: 
hair
:  Exile: Fake Magic
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
skin: Glam Affair – Molly – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – America (*new* @ Arcade)
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Cynful Heat Bikini (June Luxe Box)

pose: Le Poppycock *Stay Cool* First Dip (*new* @ TLC)
scene:
Trompe Loeil – Geonna Patio + Pool PG
Vagabond – Sandy’s Towel Tote
{what next} Palisades Drinks Tray

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