Take Your Time

Why is everyone in such a hurry these days? I’m referring to SL relationships. We’ve all seen the people that jump in and out of relationships. Partnered to someone new every other week or month, then complain about why their relationships didn’t work. Seems like an awful lot of unnecessary drama and hurt feelings to me. I used to think I had a four month expiration date, because my average SL relationship was only lasting four months, but I didn’t rush into any of them. The last one I had, we dated quietly for months before telling anyone, much less becoming official. Now, I’ve been single for over 3 months and I simply can’t imagine rushing into anything with any of the men I’ve met. It can take weeks for me to even figure out whether or not I want to have sex with someone. Granted there are those that you know immediately that sex is definitely on the table, but in those instances I’m not expecting it to be anything but casual. I’m not an idiot. Sex does not equal love or even slove as my friend, Poppy, puts it. (I tend to agree with her on that.) I dunno, I guess we all have our pace. It just seems to me if you take your time and really get to know someone first, you might save yourself some heartache. Then again, what do I know….368 day of what I thought was magic turned out to be really disposable and I was easily replaced in no time at all. *shrugs* So, I have no idea who the hell I think I am giving relationship advice, but that’s what’s on my mind today. So, that’s what you get.

the wolf

Sady is wearing:
hair: #1 {Limerence} Nikol hair(Common1)-B&W
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
11. :BAMSE: Personal Choker – Bitch
SPIRIT – Peepa sweatshirt (*new* @ C88)
ChicModa // Piper skirt (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
.Shi : Caleb Boots . Black / Bento (*new* @ TMD)

Gotz is wearing:
hair: Unorthodox Manny Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
Stretched ears-Omimi- [MANDALA]
body: [Signature] Gianni – Body
Howl – CHEN bombers jacket
[Deadwool] Chase sneakers

pose: [ATI] Adore (*new* @ Suicide Dollz)

FOXCITY. K-POP Star 2 – As If (Rez) (1) RARE (*new* @ Arcade)


Howlin For You

The Black Keys – Howlin For You

I must admit
I can’t explain
Any of these thoughts racing
Through my brain
It’s true
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

There’s something wrong
With this plot
The actors here
Have not got
A clue
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

Can’t you see
Little girl’s
Got a hold on me
Like glue
Baby I’m howlin’ for you

Throw the ball
To the stick
Swing and miss and a
Catcher’s mitt
Strike two
Baby I’m howlin’ for you


hair: TRUTH Caralisa
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
[Cynful] Wish Necklace Set
[Cynful] Delrica’s Cozy Sweater (*new* @ C88)

pose w/window included:  [ Focus Poses ]  Frosty Morning

on the window sill:
Apple Fall  Crumpled Newspaper
Apple Fall Liberty Sketchbook
Apple Fall Coffee & Muffin

Soy.. Snow Covered Woods Set
Soy.. Snow covered cliff and rock Set
JIAN Grey Wolf :: Static Howl


The world is a strange place and Second Life is even stranger. I have yet to have one single day in SL that I didn’t at the very least ask myself, “WTF?!” It could be something crazy in my inventory and I’m questioning my sanity on the day I made that purchase. A lot of times I run into some pretty strange looking avatars and think it, as well. However, nothing makes me go, “WTF?!” more than how some people treat each other. I’m not talking about trolls and griefers. I’m talking about people that play with each other’s emotions. Or those people who genuinely think they are superior in a virtual world because of the clothes they wear or how their avatars look. I don’t personally understand a lot of the looks and lifestyles in SL, but one thing I will defend to the death is their right to enjoy the freedoms of consenting adults. With the mass diversity we have on the grid, I find it utterly disgusting at this time of year when someone says, “Happy Holidays” and is shot down for not saying, “Merry Christmas.” Or vice versa. Someone just wished me well…who cares why? I’m not a Christian, but if someone wishes me a Merry Christmas, I will wish them one back. Why? Because its their holiday and I’d love for them to enjoy it. So, everyone needs to chill out and wish each other well…not start world war 3 over politics and religion during what should be happy times. Afterall, WTF is wrong with wishing someone a little happiness?


hair: #Foxy – Milena Hair (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype (*new* @ Uber)

pose: Foxcity Formal Vol1 Set
Quasi – Joe’s Coffee Backdrop (*new* @ Hipster MEN’s)


I Need to See You

Natalia M. King – I Need to See You

A battered heart
is just another start
to a waiting
lay me down and die story.
long are the days
with my impulsive ways
I start to trouble
I start to worry
 God help me if I’m right
God help me if I’m wrong
don’t wanna put up a fight
but you’ve been gone away too long
 I need
I need to see
I need to see you
I need to see you again
 an hour’s like a day
a day is like a year
when we’re apart
and when you’re not here to please me
 I see your way
to foreplay
is to make me wait and hunger
while you tease me
 God help me if i’m right
God help me if i’m wrong
don’t wanna put up a fight
but you’ve been gone away too long
I need
I need to see
I need to see you
I need to see you again
I’m not saying
that I regret the past
and I’m not saying
that we are gonna last
I’m not saying
that this is a one time fling
and I’m definitely not saying
that this is gonna be forever thing
I’m just saying
I’m just saying
I need
I need to see
I need to see you
I need to see you again

what do you want from me

she is wearing:
hair: tram G1113 hair (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Astralia – Compatible mesh nails system
GingerFish -Nail Applier-Astralia-Sugar Baby
^^Swallow^^ Shiny Bento Rings (*new* @ Kustom9)
Scandalize. Zoom (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
_CandyDoll_Miko Collection Harness Top Maitreya SECRET RARE
_CandyDoll_ Sofia Lingerie White

he is wearing:
hair: Barber Shop / David
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
body: [SIGNATURE] Gianni – Mesh Body
[Deadwool] Genoa jacket – pearl blue (*new* @ District20)

her pose: Foxcity Night Owl Set
his pose:  XXY – Spike Pack (*new* @ Hipster MEN’s)

MINIMAL – Omnia Backdrop (*new* @ Kustom9)



“There’s nothing like eavesdropping to show you that the world outside your head is different from the world inside your head.” – Thornton Wilder

the weight of secrets
While listening at the door, she couldn’t believe what she heard!

hair:  pr!tty – Mary  (*new* @ TCF)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Akima (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)
erratic / eva – knee socks plain

pose: Foxcity Steamy Set
[ isuka ] back alley blue backdrop


Killing Strangers

Alright, this is most definitely a song post, as this song was going through my head the entire time I worked on this picture. I hope Marilyn Manson doesn’t offend you. If he does, well, you could just give the lyrics a read or skip to the credits. *blows you a kiss* ♥

Marilyn Manson – Killing Strangers

This world doesn’t need no opera, we need it for the operation
We don’t need a bigga knife (a bigga knife)
‘Cause we got guns, we got guns, we got guns (we got guns)
We got guns, you betta run (ya betta run, ya betta run, ya betta run)
We’re killin’ strangers, we’re killin’ strangers
We’re killin’ strangers, so we don’t kill the ones that we love
We’re killin’ strangers, we’re killin’ strangers
We’re killin’ strangers, so we don’t kill the ones that we love
Love, love
We pack demolition
We can’t pack emotion
Dynamite, we just might
So blow us a kiss, blow us a kiss
Blow us a kiss, and we’ll blow you to pieces
We’re killin’ strangers, we’re killin’ strangers
We’re killin’ strangers, so we don’t kill the ones that we love
Love, love, love
And we got guns, we got guns
Motherfuckers better, better better run
We got guns, we got guns
Motherfuckers better run
We got guns, we got guns
Motherfuckers better, better better run
We got guns, we got guns
Motherfuckers better run
We’re killin’ strangers, we’re killin’ strangers
We’re killin’ strangers, so we don’t kill the ones that we love
We’re killin’ strangers, we’re killin’ strangers
We’re killin’ strangers, so we don’t kill the ones that we love
Love, love, love, love, love, love
You better run
We got guns, we got guns, we got guns

You were saying

hair:  [RA] Stella Hair (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
[White~Widow] Charade – Black – RARE
[VALE KOER] DEADLY GRASP (*new* @ Kustom9)
Scandalize. Essence top (*new* @ AnyBody)
Scandalize. Karina.PANTS (*new* @ ULTRA)

pose: KlubWerK.poses – Josie set (includes guns)


Virtual Urban Legends

Even in a virtual world, there are Urban Legends. Some are true, some are not. For instance, did you know that when you see an actual Linden inworld, you can ask them for a bear? You will receive a unique bear designed by THAT Linden. This legend used to be true. I don’t know if they still do it, because I simply don’t have any desire for another useless object to sit in my inventory and take up space. Other less believable legends are like the notorious biker gangs on the grid that will find you in real life and mess you up if you ever cross them. I don’t know if that’s true or not. I’ve not heard of anyone that has actually experienced their wrath in RL, but I’m certainly not going out of my way to find out, either. In other several MMOs there are what’s know as Easter Eggs. Where if you do complete certain tasks you’ll receive a certain prize. There’s often hidden loot, that is rather obscure and not well known. Back to Second Life, I’ve heard that there are porn stars and famous people on the grid, but in what world they are stars or famous, I’m just not quite sure. I’ve even heard of Blogging Burnout. I never imagined that this could ring true for me, as I have this insufferable need to blog all the time. However, I’m starting to believe in it as I feel my well of creativity running dry. Please don’t misunderstand. I still love blogging and I absolute love being a Blogger Manager. And to be completely fair, I don’t know that my well is running dry, but I really want to do something more creative…more me and words have failed me far more often that I’d like to admit. So, in the coming weeks, I might be experimenting with some new photography techniques. As for my writing? Well, I don’t know. I’m sure I’ll come up with something. Perhaps more songs, poems, short stories, or just the ramblings of my own mind.

Wine is Fine

hair: MINA – Romy (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Maddict – Lea Belly Piercing – Babygirl
BUENO-Sweet Sweaters (*new* @ FaMESHed)
!Rebel Hope – Ellen Mesh Thigh High Boots (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Stairs (Sitting) Bento Pose Set


Extra! Extra!

Once upon a time, kids would stand on street corners selling newspapers while yelling, “EXTRA! EXTRA! Read all about it!” They might even go so far as to toss out the title of the story on the front page. These days we get our news from a variety of electronic devices. So, I figured my best bet was to sit pretty on the ATM machine…that should get your attention, right?
Its Friday and I think most of us are feeling pretty good about that! There’s been lots of events just waiting for us to get paid. There’s an endless array of retail therapy, so no matter how bad your week has been, relief is in sight! Its also the weekend that Cosmo switches things up, so if you want to grab this cute little number from Scandalize go on over and grab it tonight. It might be a few days before it makes it to the mainstore. In the meanwhile, you can hit up Kustom9 for that beautiful variety they continue to deliver. Bueno has surprised us with a diverse set of backdrops and phones!
I hope you all have a great weekend and Happy Shopping!♥

feeling sassy

hair: *Besom~ Claire (October  Luxe Box)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Sally. Maitreya (Cosmopolitan until Oct 21)
Scandalize. Sally WARMS. Maitreya (Cosmopolitan until Oct 21)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set (*new* @ ON9)
BUENO-Night Life-Street Build Scape (*new* @ Kustom9)



Litte Joey loved going through his grandfathers old pictures. As he pulled out a particularly old one he’d never seen before, he looked up at his grandfather, “Who is this, PapPaw?”
The old man’s shaky hands reached for the photo and smiled, “Oh, these two are legends. Josh and Sady were responsible for saving the entire grid from impending doom.”
Little Joey’s eyes got big, “Oh PapPaw, tell me more! Tell me all about Sosh and Jady!”
The old man chuckled and put the photo back in the box closing it up, “Another time, Joey, time for you to get to bed.” He tucked his grandson in for the night, kissing his forehead, “Sweet dreams, Joey.”
As he climbed into bed with his wife, he kissed her sweetly, “Little Joey found the picture of us from the Apocalypse party at ThereAfter. Hope you’re ready to be a hero,” he chuckles, “Telling him quite a story tomorrow.”
Sady giggled and kissed Josh, “You and your stories, my love.”
“I learned it from watching you, okay?”
They both laughed and slipped off to sleep.


Sady is wearing:
hair: no.match_ ~ NO_JEWEL (*new* @ Enchantment)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
Izzie’s – Face & Body Dirt

.{PSYCHO:Byts}. Apocalyptic Goggles
Vinyl – Twenty Turtleneck (*new* @ ThereAfter)
Vinyl – Matchbox Bustier (*new* @ ThereAfter)
Vinyl – Crowe Leggings

Josh is wearing:
hair: Modulus – Anwar Hair (*new* @ Man Cave)
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
body: Slink Physique Male Mesh Body
ears:  .:E.A.Studio:. Box Ears Falling Star
tattoo: { Speakeasy } Silent Flight Tattoo
piercing: 3.::GB:: Lip piercing (Catwa Daniel) Black (Studded)
Izzie’s – Face & Body Dirt

[The Forge] Reinforced Pyschotic, Chest Guard (*new* @ ThereAfter)

pose: Drunk Panda – ReadyForWar – Couple – (With Guns) (*new* @ ThereAfter)
***Sady’s pose edited with AnyPose

uK – Dystopia Ivy Sm (*new* @ ThereAfter)
[ isuka ] dead ahead backdrop (*new* @ ThereAfter)
floorplan. fire in a barrel / rusted (*new* @ ThereAfter)
DRD GG – Stadium Chair – Acid Rain



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