Ride or Die

This month my blog celebrates it 2yr anniversary and I can’t thank YOU the readers enough for your support. It continues to amaze me that anyone takes the time to read my words, look at my pictures, or comment. I am so humbled by it all. More than anything I’m grateful to my Ride or Die girls or as I usually refer to them, my cunts.
A strange twist of fate, some rock music, and a barn brought us together in the most unexpected ways, but the formula works. Four of the five of us have been inseparable. Let me explain the mega-important role that each of these girls plays in our little Cunt Cult (that’s what we call ourself and Tracy even made us a logo! No, you can’t join. #sorrynotsorry) We are not the mean girls, but we’ve tried bringing people into our group in the past. It has always backfired and when the cunts turn on you, well, its not pretty.
We do not have a leader, but I suppose some would assume its Kess or me. No, but believe or not, Kess is often our sound of reason. The one that grounds us in reality, points out the reasons one of our latest and greatest ideas is a BAD idea. For those of you that know Kess, please stop laughing. She’s really far smarter than people give her credit for….no, wait, that’s Tracy. Everyone knows that Kess, while being a daft bint, is an amazing and incredible woman that sets a fairly good example for the rest of us. She tends to give us that kick in the ass when we need it. While she’s all of that and a bag of chips….we don’t listen to her for romantic advice, cuz when it comes to men….well, I think she’s finally got a good one, but good lord. She has gone through enough toads, that’s for sure. Its about high time she found some happiness.
Then there’s Tracy….and Rom. Rom is an honorary member, because he’s sorta of been along for the ride with us since the very beginning. Sadly, this post isn’t about Rom, but if you love some artistic photography, please check out Rom’s flickr. Now, back to Tracy, she’s the owner of GingerFish poses. I’m sure you’re all familiar with her store. If not, you should be. She was one of the first pose makes to do bento poses. Her prices are great and she’s an amazing individual. She’s probably the smartest of all the cunts, but you’d never know it to talk to her. *giggles* She’s a crazy ginger that eats the souls of children for breakfast. *grins*
Then there’s Grace! This girl is like my twin. We agree on almost everything, except her choice in men. Tally? Really? *bursts into giggles* Grace and I go back and forth picking at one another. She never judges me ever. No matter what stupid shit I do, she’s probably done the same or something close. If these cunts were angels and demons on my shoulder, Grace would definitely be wearing red…with cow print. I don’t even know how to explain Grace….she’s Irish…wait, North Ireland Irish (that seems to make a difference). Between her shitty internet service and her crazy accent, she can be difficult to understand on voice. However, I love this woman like no one’s business….she’s my twinkie♥There’s another cunt, Ava, but she’s off in the real world being all in love & pregnant. I love her, but I honestly didn’t get to know her that well before she left us for that other platform called Real Life. I love them more than words can express and I refuse to even think of my life without them. They all have Flickrs, so click their names where highlighted to check them out, if you’d like.
These are the first circle of my Ride or Die bitches. I have a 2nd circle and they are the MF’n bomb. Perhaps I’ll talk about them another time, but they are not bloggers and kinda prefer to keep their lives a bit more private.

Ride or Die
I’ll never let you down, I can’t let you down
Because when I couldn’t get my feet on the ground
You’d do anything to help me out
You never let me down
What goes around comes around
I’m just sitting here on my front porch singing
This one’s for my ride or die

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Peggy hair  (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Saska (Catwa Applier) honey
holding: DRD – Scrappy Helmet – White Check – Loaded (*new* @ Uber)
{le fil casse} Donna Dress (*new* @ Uber)
#EMPIRE – Coreopsis

her pose: Animosity – Cruisin’ set (*new* @ MOM)

Cruel is wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Haunting
hairbase: Stealthic – Male Hairbase
head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
beard: Volkstone Toni Facial Hair
ears: .:E.A.Studio:. Box Ears Falling Star
body: [SIGNATURE] Geralt – Mesh Body  *NEW*
tattoo: [ATI] Nightmare…
holding: DRD – Scrappy Helmet – Rusted Black (*new* @ Uber)
5.::GB:: Color denib pants / Black

his pose:  PM . Bronx (*new* @ MOM)

uK – Modern Serenity Home (*new* Feb Builder’s Box)
:Fanatik Architecture: Roads of LISBON
DRD – Scrappy Scooter – White Check (*new* @ Uber)
DRD – Scrappy Scooter – Rusted Black – Loaded (*new* @ Uber)


Farewell, Decor

Since the day I started my blog, I had decided that I will blog whatever I want and I have stood by that for two years now. However, there comes a time in every blogger’s journey that they have to make some pretty big decisions about the direction of their blog. I want to do what truly makes me the happiest and while I absolutely adore home decor, I’ve found it to be extremely challenging as a blogger. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve loved every minute of it and you will still decor pieces from time to time in my blog.
For now, I’m focusing on fashion and I’d like to progress into close ups, perhaps accessories. Its not been a strong suit of mine, but its something I’d really like to work on. With that said, I can now say that I am a fashion blogger. I have a niche! *faints*
Sadly, this means letting go of some of my oldest and talented sponsors. There maybe some confusion along the way as some fashion designers do a bit of everything and I’ve got a couple of those on my list. So, like I said, there will still be decor, but it will most likely be something an avatar interacts with or part of the background. So, this is to be my final official home decor only post (the puppies don’t count.)
This is by far my last ever home decor post, but it is my last official as a Fancy Decor and unKindess blogger. *sigh* This is such a bittersweet moment. I’m excited about the future, but moving so far from my foundation is frightening.  It has truly been an honor to work with stores like Fancy Decor and unKindness, two of the mainstores featured here. Without fail, you will see their work in my photos in the future. ♥

Farewell Decor

scene created in: uK – Modern Serenity Home (*new* Feb Builder’s Box)

JIAN Kitty Sauce Shelf (*new* @ Uber)
JIAN Glam Greyhounds (*new* @ MARCH ARCADE)

Fancy Decor: Silver hors d’oeuvres (*new* @ MARCH ARCADE)
01 Fancy Decor: Buffet – Black RARE (not shown)
02 Fancy Decor: Buffet – White RARE
03 Fancy Decor: Three Tiered Snack Tray RARE
04 Fancy Decor: Two Tiered Dessert Tray
05 Fancy Decor: Cake
06 Fancy Decor: Wine Decanter
07 Fancy Decor: Elegant Candle
08 Fancy Decor: Wine Glasses
09 Fancy Decor: Water Pitcher
10 Fancy Decor: Glasses
11 Fancy Decor: Silverware
12 Fancy Decor: Salt & Pepper Shakers
13 Fancy Decor: Napkins
14 Fancy Decor: Plate Stack
15 Fancy Decor: Plate with Snacks

FD & Commoner: The Modine Collection Fatpack
FD & Commoner: Modine Side Table
FD & Commoner: Modine Vase of Daisies
FD & Commoner: Modine Accent Chair
FD & Commoner: Modine Coffee Table
FD & Commoner: Modine Cloud Sofa
FD & Commoner: Modine Nut Dish

Fancy Decor: Dover Collection
-11 Fancy Decor: Art Group
12 Fancy Decor: Dover Rug

uK – My Zen Planter White

uk – La confiserie Set
-uK – La confiserie Lollipop Cake
-uK – La confiserie Donut Display w/Goodies RARE
-uK – La confiserie Donut Plate Coconut

Refuge – Spark Lamp Shimmer Silver Larger
Refuge – Spark Lamp Shimmer Silver Smaller

+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Spilled Black Coffee
+Half-Deer+ Unicorn Story – Fauxidermy Duo

hive // celebration balloons
Exposeur – Dunnette Standing Record Player – Teal
LISP – Fairy Alice Wall Plates
[ kunst ] – Ashtray v3 / Marble #4
The Horror!~ A Horrorable Christmas – Giftboxes – Mixed

O.M.E.N – Christmas Morning – Gift Box – Silver
O.M.E.N – Christmas Morning – Gift Box – Silver/ Blue Paper

I Need Noise

So, if there’s one thing I hate in life…its a fucking liar. I understand that we all tell white lies…”You look great!”…”No, those pants don’t make your ass look huge.”…”Sure, I’d love to help you clean the house.” I’m not talking about that little shit. I’m talking about the big shit. Naturally, I’ve talked about how if someone lies about the little stuff, they’re bound to lie about the big stuff. The real rub is when you find out the truth. If you’re going to tell a big ass lie…then lie til you die, muthafucka! Cuz I’ve had enough lies to last me a fucking lifetime and I don’t need anymore. So, if you’re one of those perpetual liars that doesn’t “mean” to lie or things tend to “just happen” to you frequently….then not only are you lying to those around you…you’re lying to yourself. So, take your lies and shove them up your ass….oh and do it way the fuck over there, cuz I’m not having it. Trust issues? Nah, I don’t have trust issues. I’ve just finally figured out that trust is as big a lie as love.
When I realize that I’ve been lied to by someone I thought I could trust? Wow, yeah, I need noise, because if I crawl too deep into my head with the ammunition, my demons are going to have a field day. Don’t worry, I won’t believe anything anyone tells me for a long while to come….so once I get through this shit, I won’t worry about being lied to, cuz I’ve finally seen the light.

bitch in chains
I don’t have an agenda
All I do is pretend to be ok so my friends
Can’t see my heart in the blender
Lately, I’ve been killing all my time
Reading through your messages my favorite way to die
Take my head and kick it in
Break some bread for all my sins
Say a word, do it soon
It’s too quiet in this room
I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need noise
I need the buzz of a sub
Need the crack of a whip
Need some blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut
I need blood in the cut

hair:  DOUX – Kimiko (*new* @ Tres Chic)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Saska (Catwa Applier) honey (*new* @ REWIND)
lipstick: –SU!– Jezebel Lip Gloss
tattoo: [ATI] Helen…
11. :BAMSE: Personal Choker – Bitch (*new* @ Whimsical)
_CandyDoll_ Nina Top (*new* Mainstore)
_CandyDoll_ Nina Pants (*new* Mainstore)

pose: FOXCITY. Lolita Bento Pose Set

uK – With These Chains Photobox
E.V.E {Chained to You} Chains Silver (T)


Wired & Wireless

Everything today seems to revolved around technology. From the way we socialize to the way we play and work. So, as I put together the wired look for this photo I was reminded of a series of songs by Watsky. Now whether you like rap or not, this kid has serious talent and even if you don’t want to listen to a Jewish white guy rap some of the most intelligent rapping you’ve ever heard, I suggest you at least take a gander at the lyrics. As there’s more than one song and part to all of this, I’m giving you the links to the songs and the lyrics…together. So, this is a post for you to really step away and look at something else.

Tiny Glowing Screens
Part 1 SONG | Lyrics
Part 2 SONG | Lyrics
Part 3 SONG | Lyrics



hair:  #Foxy – Kels Hair  (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Saska (Catwa Applier) honey (*new* @ REWIND)
lipstick: –SU!– Agatha Lipstick Essentials
tattoo: [ATI] Helen…
**CC** – Infinite Halo
ERSCH & .Oppa. – TV Angel Gacha Crown (*new* @ REWIND)
ERSCH & .Oppa. – TV Angel Gacha Earrings (*new* @ REWIND)
ERSCH & .Oppa. – TV Angel Gacha Necklace (*new* @ REWIND)
ERSCH & .Oppa. – TV Angel Gacha WINGS RARE (*new* @ REWIND)
The Annex – Heidi Lingerie (*new* Mainstore)

pose: FOXCITY. Lolita Bento Pose Set

uK – With These Chains Photobox
NOMAD // Lick Chair // Red



Black Widow

“Love me ‘till you’re dead, you will not forget
You’ll still love me, dead or alive”
~InThis Moment – Black Widow

So, I just woke up after a real strange night and as I sometimes do, I shared the photo with a few friends and asked for suggestions on what to write. Well, Grace said, “You look like some sort of cyber black widow.” Well, that took me straight to one of my favorite bands. So, I’ve paired the photo with some In This Moment and I’ll leave you with that.

I’ll wake and bake for the next post. *grins* That should prove interesting, right?

Yes, the dangerous black widow is to be approached with caution, as the black widow’s bite can cause death
The black widow is easily recognized by her coal black body and red hourglass marking
She encases her victims with silk, and then kills with poison from her fangs


hair: Doe: Crinkle Fries (*new* @ REWIND)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Karina – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Asia (*new* @ Kustom9)
eyeshadow: Veechi – Moon Shadow (*new* @ REWIND)
lipstick: Wednesday[+] ~ Juliet Lip INK-(*new* @ REWIND)
UC_Agony_vest (*new* @ TLC)
//Naberius// The Manticore Nipple Piercings (Black) Maitreya
[CX] Sentinel Tentacles (*new* @ REWIND)
Vinyl – Kito True-Booty Shorts Pak Black

pose: FOXCITY. Me Time Bento Pose Set

FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Linear (Limited) (*new* @ Limit8)
uK – Vintage Truck Bar Red



Clear The Haze

I don’t even remember taking this picture or editing it. I know I took it last week…day one of being sick, I believe. As, today is Day 7 of the flu, I have to say this is the best I’ve felt in a week. I’m still not back to myself yet, I’m certainly glad to be on the mend.  What I can tell you about the last seven days is that they’ve been a complete blur. I remember talking on skype to a friend of mine and trying to explain that each day had many days inside it. That made complete sense to me at the time and sadly, I am still sick enough to get exactly what I was trying to say. Well, yes, I have been heavily medicated and you’d think that would have made it a bit more enjoyable, but no. The best part was being asleep. I got lots of sleep and the waking moments were often surreal. This morning has been a complete whirlwind already…wish this lil kitten luck as I clear the haze of this past week and get caught up.♥

smoke & magic

hair:  pr!tty – Demy – :rigged: (*new* @ Coven)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica

[ kunst ] – Cigarette & holder #1 (mouth)
=Zenith=Cosy long Gloves – Maitreya

ChicModa // Ara Dress // Lara
Pure Poison – Love Pumps(*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose:  Bauhaus Movement – Hearts Burst Into Fire Poses (*new* @ TLC)
uK – Kitten- Black Bed (*new* @ Kinky)


Cupid Threw Up

OMG! Cupid threw up all over the grid! Fuck it, he threw up all over the damn world. You can hardly go anywhere in SL or RL without being flooded in various shades of pink and red, not to mention all the hearts. Second Life will be no exception, especially considering how many people get married and partnered every other week. I’m not judging…I swear. >.>
I happen to love hearts. Just the shape of them and I have a huge heart with lots of love to share. However, I’m not an especially romantic person. I always knew there were different types of love, but it was only a recent discussion with a friend that taught me that these different types of loves have names. So, off I went seeking some knowledge on the four types of love: Eros, Agape, Phileo, and Storge. I actually found a really great blog on the subject that is aptly titled: Four Kinds of Love; Eros, Agape, Phileo, & Storge. So, if you’re like me and looking for a different way to celebrate a holiday with history as interesting as the different types of love, try some light reading on both subjects. I know I plan to do some more reading and who knows, I might even end up writing more about it.
If you are looking to decorate & celebrate, there’s no shortage of lovely Valentine themed items to be found. You can start at FaMESHed where you’ll find this lovely bedroom suit that offers both gray and pink versions of several items, as well as a lovely free gift to those in the FaMESHed Update group. Plus, Vinyl made the cutest little babydoll top with shorts and named it after me….I was so surprised and honored, as I have been a long time fan of the store. So, make sure you check that out…just think you can wear me! Sorta…lol.


hair:  pr!tty – Tory (*new* @ Gacha Garden)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
Vinyl – Sugar Sady Babydoll (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Me Time Bento Pose Set

uk – That’s Amore Bedroom Set (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-uK – That’s Amore Adult Bed
-uK – That’s Amore Grey Storage Ottoman
-uK – That’s Amore Nightstand
-uK – That’s Amore Dresser
-uK – That’s Amore Flower Basin
-uK – That’s Amore Ruffled Rug Pink

!gO! Be mine – Berti (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
!gO! Be mine – Liv & Lou RARE (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

Silence. – Flower Heart
Silence. – Heart with Arrow

{what next} Hearts Alarm Clock (ivory)

dust bunny . olive branch heart

Kalopsia – Dark Heart Lantern



City Lights

Sometimes a song just embodies a feeling, but combine it with just one picture and both come together to create something amazing. That’s really what I hoped to do here.

Palastic – City Lights

City lights, the urban landscape,
Stands before our eyes.
City lights, our lives are caught up,
In these neon lights

Oh, so very frightened the park will seem.
Yet, we do our best to cherish one another,
City lights, although I love you,
Sometimes hate with doubt.

Oh, so very frightened to be alone,
Yet we do our best to keep a civil distance
City lights, although I love you,
Sometimes hate with doubt.

I cannot solve the mystery
Of what is fake and what is real,
I cannot solve the mystery,
Of who we are and who we’ll be!

City lights, the urban landscape,

Stands before our eyes.
City lights, our lives are caught up,
In these neon lights

Oh, so very frightened the park will seem.
Yet, we do our best to cherish one another,
City lights, I’ll always hate you,
‘Till the end of time.

I’m pretending to,
Be surprised at you lying.
You pretend not to,
See the passion inside.

We are trying to,
Understand everything.
You’ve decided to,
Let the light of me in.

We are trying to,
Understand everything.
You’ve decided to,
Let the light of me in.


BUENO-Mulder Loft Building-Gray (*new* @ Uber)
DRD – Spiritualists Shoppe – Storefront

scene designed in: BUENO-Mulder Loft Building-Regular (*new* @ Uber)
BUENO-Deco Bag

Fancy Decor: Fulton Collection (*new* @ Uber)
-Fancy Decor: Capsule Book Stack
-Fancy Decor: Fulton Chandelier
-Fancy Decor: Merlot Wine Glass
-Fancy Decor: Buble Lamp (solid)
-Fancy Decor: Clipped Art
-Fancy Decor: Fulton Armchair
-Fancy Decor: Fulton Coffee Table
-Fancy Decor: Fulton Rug
-Fancy Decor: Fulton Side Table
-Fancy Decor: Fulton Sofa (white cotton)
-Fancy Decor: Merlot Wine Glass

Fancy Decor: Dover Collection
-01 Fancy Decor: Designer Computer RARE
-02 Fancy Decor: Dover Desk Chair RARE
-03 Fancy Decor: Dover Desk
-05 Fancy Decor: Dover Shelf
-14 Fancy Decor: Books and Trinkets

uK – Chic Wall Clock (Metal)
uK- Canvas Hope Footstool
Ariskea & Unkindness [Solace] Candle 4
Ariskea & Unkindness [Solace] Romarin Plant
Ariskea[Hustler] Babybreath Pot
Ariskea[Hustler] Gold Flower
Ariskea[Hustler] Hustle Word

tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Cat Face Pillow
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Hot Lips Phone (Pink)
-tres blah- Jolie – Golden Hand
-tres blah- Workspace – Tablet
-tres blah- Golden Cage – Coffee Run
-tres blah- Golden Cage – Tablet
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Agenda RARE
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Paper Pile
-tres blah- Pampered – Bouquet
-tres blah- Pampered – Treat Yourself
-tb- Bon Voyage – Vintage Camera
-tb- Bon Voyage – Books

dust bunny . areca palm plant
dust bunny . fiddle leaf tree
dust bunny . pilea peper plant
dust bunny . pink medinilla plant
dust bunny . potted bromeliad
dust bunny . potted cheese plant
dust bunny . potted palm
dust bunny . potted rubber tree
dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . sunday newspaper

JIAN ‘dorable Danes 3. Adult Wanderer RARE

[Black Bantam] Busy Westie On Fours Rez (*new* @ Kustom9)

(fd) Cat – 02 Sleeping Curled
(fd) Cat – 03 Sitting Lazy
(fd) Cat – 11 Sitting

Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Emotional Baggage’ Handbag Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)

!gO! Be mine – Liv & Lou RARE (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

NOMAD // Sepia Peonies 01
NOMAD // Hookah // Fuschia

{Petite Maison} Work Pretty Royal Pencils: Turquoise

:HAIKEI: End of the day Gahca {3}

Sway’s Piggy Bank [Oink] white – C

=Zenith=Little Groot touch/dance only ( REZ)

The Loft – Lotus Holder
The Loft – Yoga Tray

DYNASTY – Antique Abacus – Dark
RARE. DYNASTY – Calligraphy Corner – Backdrop

{-MK-} My bottle_Close cat(wear/2Li)

*HEXtraordinary* Flying Monkey Incense Burner – Silver

Second Spaces – Cluttered House – charging station

[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Ashtray’
[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’

.10 [ kunst ] – Magazines

Granola. Waverly’s Incense.

Apt B // Raw Materials Gacha – Plate Sculpture

tarte. flask (mustache) RARE

Pewpew! Balloon Hotdog – Black (Decor) (*new* @ Uber)

Apple Fall Plan Chest


Checking Out

Sometimes I really surprise myself at how stupid I can be. (Stop growling, Troy!) Regardless of all my experiences, I can still be so ridiculously naive, that it takes a close friend to point out something that should be blatantly obvious to me. Okay, short story, even shorter, I let someone I had just met disrespect me and essentially assault me. Yet, somehow, my shock exceeded all logic.
Not so long ago, I would have read that person like a book. I would’ve come so unglued on his ass that there would be no question about how I felt about it all. My reaction would have been instantaneous and rightfully so. Then I would have blasted his ass on Facebook and warned every girl I know!
It’s as if my common sense has begun to decay, like this shanty town in the photo. I’m starting to feel like a spectator of my own life. Rarely playing an active role in what happens to me. The last month and a half have been absolutely insane. My heart got ripped out of my chest and shoved through a meat grinder. I had two separate leaks happening in my RL home at the same time. All of this has led me to make a series of bad decisions one after another.  I am NOT a doormat. I need to remember this, because even two years ago I stood up for myself and demanded more respect. This cannot continue. As appealing as it sounds, I can’t just check out. Mine is a life worth living and that means treating myself as good, if not better, than I want to be treated by others.
I realize I’m rambling and this probably makes little to no sense to anyone really.  Yet, there is it…a raw look at my stupidity, my emotions, and my thoughts. With that said, I’m going to sleep…I wish you all the sweetest of dreams when you next go. ♥


Everything you see here is from unKindness
*except the rocks which are: :Fanatik Architecture: CLIFF COVERS Beach

Below is a list of everything by order of the sets they belong to:
uk – Shanty Church House Gacha – (*new* @ Gacha Guardians)
-uK – Shanty Church House Pray Billboard GoG
-uK – Shanty Church House Building RARE
-uK – Shanty Church House Hymn Board

uK -In the Bayou Gacha
-uK- In the Bayou Swamp Shack RARE

uk – End Times Photo Prop I&II – (*new* @ ManCave)
uK – End Times Billboard Photo Prop
uK – End Times II Billboard Photo Prop

uk – Shanty Repair Shop Gacha
-uK-SRS Ice Freezer
-uK-SRS Barrel Mess 1
-uK-SRS Shanty Repair Shop RARE
uK-SRS Always Open RARE
uK-SRS Barrel Mess 2

uK -In the Bayou Gacha
-uK- In the Bayou Junk Pile1
-uK- In the Bayou Common Shack
-uK- In the Bayou Junk Pile 3
uK- In the Bayou Junk Pile 2



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