Would you?

Would you knowingly eat food that you knew was going to make you sick? I think its safe to say that most of us would not. So, why are we so quick to surround ourselves with poisonous people? Why are we so slow to escape unhealthy relationships? Neither are good for our soul and they prevent us from finding joy and true happiness. Why do we waste so much energy and time on such things? We all need to stop with the stupid shit, like arguing over things that aren’t going to matter next month, much less five  years from now. The sooner we all let go of the toxic crap in our lives, the sooner we’ll all discover that we are capable of enjoying a better life. I’ll be over here enjoying my virtual churros pretending they are good for me, while you mull that over.

snacks

wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Glam (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: -SU!- Astrid Eyes
-SU!- Poison Sunglasses
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Emmy (*new* @ C88)

:::ChicChica::: Churros & Chocolate caliente (*new* @ Equal10)
.miss chelsea. Adel Cardi (*new* @ Equal10)
Blueberry – Evie – High Waist Jeans

pose is really from the churros…I was just wearing my ao by a window…lol

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I don’t understand

I’m really curious if there are girls in Second Life that actually fall for the lines that some of these men throw at us. I’ve heard of some pretty outrageous things that girls have said to men, as well. From dick pics to lame ass pick up lines to sexual assault, I’d like to say I’ve seen it all, but these ridiculous men cease to amaze me. I’m not talking about the plain ole, “Hi” or “Hello”…or even the “Nice avatar.”
I’m talking about those really far out and inappropriate intros. For instance, I had a guy emote that he grabbed me by the hair and bent me over a table. I didn’t know him from Adam’s housecat! Ironically, he’s IMd me two more times since then, each time at a different club. He never seems to remember me, but I sure af remember him. I mean, that kind of unsolicited emote is like a sexual assault, right? Or the guys that IM every girl in the club with the same opening line. Uhm, dude, we’re all dancing in a row on the same hud, we’re not talking in local, which should indicate we’re probably in a conference. Did you really think we wouldn’t tell each other about the rando in our IMs?
I’m really curious if this tactic works. How many girls do they have to copy/paste that message to in order to get a hit? Does anyone fall for that? If so….WHY???

blueberry foxy

wearing:
hair: Lamb. Mirror Kisses (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: -SU!- Astrid Eyes
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Emmy (*new* @ C88)

-SU!- Celestria Earrings
Blueberry – Alma – Ruffled Top
Vinyl – Hart Wide Legs

pose by Del May
.Florix. Zebra Backdrop – PINK (*new* @ Equal10)

 

No time to hate

“I got no time to hate people who hate me. I’m too busy loving the people who love me.” ~RuPaul

I have to admit that I’ve been binging on RuPaul’s DragRace All Stars and I swear those ladies are the fiercest of the fierce! They make me wish I could be a drag queen! Alas, I cannot, for I’m not only a woman, but I’ve got the grace of a crack head in a porcelain factory. Just another reason for me to love the outlet that Second Life provides me. Here I can dress up or dress down. I can be as sexy as I want to be and despite those that call this platform a game, those emotions…those feelings…they flow through me from this virtual world into the real world. I heard RuPaul say the quote above the other night and the very next day, someone special to me that I thought hated me came to me. We confronted the issues we’ve been having and we’ve decided to start clean. We need each other, because we both fight a lot of the same demons. I’m taking this gift (quote) from RuPaul and I’m going to apply it to my life. I will remember it and stop letting the negative energies of others enter my bubble.

jealous sea

wearing:
hair: #Besom~Josie
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: -SU!- Astrid Eyes
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Emmy (*new* @ C88)

(Yummy) Comfy Cozy Ring Set (*new* @ C88)
Ascendant – Midnight Call Nails (*new* @ Vanity)
_CandyDoll_ Zoey Bra
_CandyDoll_ Zoey Panties
_CandyDoll_ Zoey Socks

pose by BauHaus Movement
[Dollmart]Empress Chair

 

Don’t Leave

“There’s nothing wrong with a little space
But not right now, don’t leave
There’s nothing wrong with a little time, a little space
For the memories, for the good things
Turn around now, turn around
Don’t leave me now”
~ The Paper Kites – Don’t Keep Driving

lost in thought

wearing:
hair: #Foxy – Cuddle Hair (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: –SU!- Astrid Eyes
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Emmy (*new* @ C88)

Rebel Gal – Cuddle Hoodie (*new* @ Kustom9)
[Cynful] A Girl’s Thing Jeggings Set (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose was in a bench at Achill Island

The Five Year Rule

Quite some time ago, I saw a Cher interview in which she said that he mother gave her some advice that she now calls the five year rule, “If its not going to matter in five years, then its doesn’t matter.”

Clearly, this is easier done than said, but when you really think about it, its good sensible advice. I’ve applied this as often as I can and it certainly helps with the little stuff. Oddly enough all that little stuff adds up and once you let go of the anger over all that little stuff, its like a giant weight off your shoulders. Like you got rid of a huge problem, but really you just let go of the little ones. It really can make a big difference in your daily life. So, the next time you find yourself getting upset over something, ask yourself if it will matter in five years.

princess

wearing:
hair: #Foxy – Latte Hair (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
eyes: –SU!- Astrid Eyes
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Emmy (*new* @ C88)

(Yummy) Comfy Cozy Ring Set (*new* @ C88)
[Cynful] Pajama Silk Set (*new* @ C88)
REIGN.- UNICORN SLIPPERS

pose: FOXCITY. Partition Bento Pose Set
[Merak] – Leather Loveseat (White)

Starlight and Saucepans

So, my good friend, Deva Westland, finally answered my Challenge to Challenge post and she challenged me to starlight and saucepans. I only had to think about this for a brief moment, before I realized that describes almost every camping trip I went on as a kid. We camped a lot when I was little, because my father raced motorcycles (dirt bikes). We would go all over Europe for these races and as most people did back then, we camped. It was often a temporary weekend community. You would see the same people again and again. There were parties and bonfires. All sorts of cooking over the fire pits and little camp fires. Naturally that meant doing dishes and most of us kids really thought it was pretty cool to wash dishes the old fashioned way. So, starlight and saucepans, well, just takes me back. So, thanks for the flashback of pleasant memories, Deva. You always know the right thing to say. ♥

cotton candy

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Mitzi
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

.LeLutka Woolly Mammoth
-SU!- Piercing Set 07
MIWAS / Never jacket (*new* @ Equal10)
BUENO-NYC Dress (*new* @ Kustom9)

**pose mostly from the cotton candy, just a candid capture

 

Tiffany’s Challenge

Alright, so the other day, I challenged my readers to challenge me in a post so adequately titled: Challenge to Challenge. The first to offer up a challenge was my ever so sweet girl, Tiffany Parkin. She wants me to compare a sextant and a football. Well, I had to look up sextant, because I had no clue what it was. I must admit, I was quite disappointed to find out that it actually has nothing at all to do with sex. *sighs* That Tiffany is such a tease!
So, to start off, these two things have one thing in common right off the bat. I know nothing about either one. I now know that one is used for celestial navigation or something like that…the other, well, is the ball with which American football is played and looks nothing like a ball in my opinion. I guess the next thing they have in common is stars. Although one deals with the stars in the sky, the other often produces the celebrity type.  Pretty sure you could bore me to death talking about either one of them, as well. So, there you have it….I did my best. *shakes her head and mutters about Tiffany being a sadist*

You call that a challenge

wearing:
hair:  Clawtooth: Merry and Bright (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: –Belleza– Freya
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

Dahlia – Orion – Sunglasses (*new* @ FaMESHed)
SU!– Piercing Set 07
(Yummy) Ouija Ring Set
Ascendant – Million Bento Nails (*new* @ Vanity)

[Cynful] Snuggle Cardigan (*new* @ FaMESHed)
VINYL – Trapt Neon / Leather Dress (*new* @ LeveL)
[Gos] Frenchie Knit Boots (*new* @ Arcade)

pose: FOXCITY. The Journey Bento Set

scene:
.:Joplino:. Backdrop Comfy Place

JIAN Kringle’s Kittens *EPP* Gift Box Kitten (*new* @ Epiphany)

JIAN Poinsettia Garland Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-JIAN Poinsettia Garland :: Wreathe
-JIAN Poinsettia Garland :: Basket

I Don’t Exist

I know I said I’d try not to do the lyrics thing and I’ve done well not to, but I’m dealing with some stuff in the real world right now that I’m not sure I even want to write about or share with the general public…so, the lyrics will speak for me today.

Olivia O’Brien – I Don’t Exist

I’ve been doomed from the start
Everything around me falls apart
So quickly always end up with a broken heart
Even Tylenol can’t fix me
Unless it’s mixed with whiskey

I ain’t even sad, I’m just bored
Nothing can excite me anymore like you used to
Hollywood has lost all its allure
Used to be so pretty
Now it’s just a city

All of these people and all of their friends
Look so good together and I don’t fit in
‘Cause they’re picture perfect
And I’m on the end
Crop me out the photo so they can pretend
Like I don’t exist
Like I don’t exist
Don’t exist
Like I don’t exist (no)
Like I don’t exist
No

When I feel good it never lasts
That’s why you can find me living in a past if you need me
Everybody says this shit will pass
I say it won’t, they don’t believe me
Just tell me to deep breathe

Falling apart
Don’t know what to do, what to do
Looking for someone to save me, I don’t know who
I don’t know who

All of these people and all of their friends
Look so good together and I don’t fit in
‘Cause they’re picture perfect
And I’m on the end
Crop me out the photo so they can pretend
Like I don’t exist
Like I don’t exist
Don’t exist
Like I don’t exist (no)
Like I don’t exist
No

Am I even real?
Am I even real?
Am I even real?
Am I even real?
Am I even real?
Am I even real?
It’s hard to tell when I can’t feel a fucking thing

All of these people and all of their friends
Look so good together and I don’t fit in
‘Cause they’re picture perfect
And I’m on the end
Crop me out the photo so they can pretend
Like I don’t exist (no)
Like I don’t exist
Don’t exist
Like I don’t exist (no)
Like I don’t exist
No

Am I even real?

I don't exist

wearing:
hair: Stealthic – Ivy (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber

^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
^^Swallow^^ Princess Bento Rings
SU!– Basic Scarf
!APHORISM! Thyme Winter Sweater (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[Cynful] Groovy Tweed Pants (*new* @ C88)

pose: FOXCITY. Power Bento Pose Set
[Bad Unicorn] Budget Bachelor Backdrop – The Arcade Gacha Prize

 

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

Bloggies!

So, this is just super exciting news that I’m dying to share. I really try not to boast or brag ever, because I just think its tacky. However, I just won an award for Best Narrative Blogger by BVN!! This was such a huge deal to me, especially considering who the runners up were. I mean, Strawberry Singh and Skippy Beresford? Seriously? I don’t know how I won over either of them, because they are two of the most talented photographers and bloggers I’ve ever seen. All I can say is that I have some seriously good friends and readers. Upon receiving my award, I knew that I owe it to my readers to be better than song lyrics and quick quotes. So, I’m going to do my absolute best to actually write more. I’m not saying I won’t still use song lyrics here and there, but I’m going to try not to rely so heavily on them going forward. You are the ones that voted for me and I appreciate it soooooo much. The best way I can show you how grateful I am

Bloggies 2018

wearing:
hair:  Lamb. Garden (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)

: CULT : Dark Side Rings
[ kunst ] – Lucy choker
(Yummy) Cleopatra Nose Ring – Silver
Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing
-SU!- Medusa Piercing Silver

*T.Whore* – Sexy Fur Stole White MESH
Kaithleen’s Kala Set

pose: FOXCITY. Rain Bento Pose Set (*new* @ C88)
location: BVN Bloggie Awards

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