Christmas Collab with Chickadee

I’ve been wanting to do more collaborations with other bloggers for ages. As a blog manager, I have access to dozens of truly talented bloggers that represent similar if not the same brands as myself. When United Colors released his last two gowns, Chickadee and I knew instantly that this was our collaboration waiting to happen. I just so happened to have a party scene already set up from a previous post (you’ll find the link for that in the details below the photo), so we just needed a few friends for a the background. We were fortunate that Ty and Dusty were will to step in to model for us rather last minute.  Tis the season for all sorts of parties from casual to formal. Don’t struggle too hard on the formal, because UC has truly outdone himself with the details and the fit on these two gowns. Click here for Chickadee’s post   and see her view on our little gathering.
Happy Holidays to all and more importantly…Happy shopping!♥


Chickadee is wearing:
hair:  Tableau Vivant // Vanessa (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
body: –Belleza– Isis
UC_Eclipse_dress (*new* @ Equal10)

Sady is wearing:
hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Jasmine
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
UC_Elly_dress (*new* @ Kustom9)

Both of the male suits are from Deadwool

women’s poses: GingerFish Poses – Not So Basic (*new* @ eBENTO)

for scene details: Please see my earlier post, “Life of the Party



She Knew

She sneered as descended the stairs and saw him whispering into his phone. She knew he was whispering to his whore, scolding her for calling him when she knew damn well he was at home. She wanted to rip the phone from his hands and scream at both of them. The truth of the matter was, she didn’t care that he had found someone else to accept his pathetic three minutes of sweaty grunting. She was disgusted by his cowardice and her disrespect. She had done her homework and knew exactly who he was fucking. She knew that his whore was betraying her partner as well. She relished the idea that the one of them would deliver the karma due to both of them.
As he hung up the phone and turned to see her coming down the stairs, he stared at her like a deer in the headlights. She smiled knowingly at him and asked the question that she knew would make him squirm, “Who was on the phone, Darling?”


hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Gigi (*new* @ Collabor88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Paola

EF: Sequoia Necklace – Medium
[Aleutia] Naomi Set (*new* @ Equal10)
fri. – Cozy.Socks
REIGN.- FRINGED BOOTIES (*new* @ Collabor88)

pose: FOXCITY. Stairs (Standing) Bento Pose Set
in (Milk Motion) elegant penthouse

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.


Cat Herder

“It checks you in and kicks you down,
And chews you up and spits you out.
It messes with your sanity by twisting all your thoughts around.
They say it’s blind they say it waits but every time it seals your fate.
And now it’s got you by the balls it won’t let go until you fall.
I was down and out, got up I said “Hey love I’ve had enough!”
I’ve felt pleasure without pain.
My soul you’ll never tame!
Love bites, but so do I.”
Halestorm – Love Bites (So Do I)
I think this is the longest I’ve ever been single in Second Life, aside from when I was married in RL. I’ve dated a bit here and there, but nothing has stuck for more than a week. God forbid I have a life aside from sitting around waiting for someone to complete me. The last two men I’ve dated felt that me not answering within a 30-120 second window was disrespectful. Well, I got news for ya, fellas. I have a life. I’m complete all by myself and while I am naturally submissive, I will NOT roll over and play dead just because you’re online. I’ve been in Second Life for 12 years. I’ve made a few friends. I’ve got a few jobs. I have a lot of interests AND I chase squirrels/shinies. Apparently, that’s too much for some people.
I do know that it can be annoying, but most people either get it and embrace it or they move on. I play Guild Wars 2 with one of my best friends and he has told me that he feels like he’s herding cats when he plays with me. *laughs* I’m always running off in the wrong direction to look at something new or chasing materials for crafting. See? He embraces my inner cat and so do my other close friends. I do know it can be aggravating, because believe it or not, one of my friends is worse than me. I won’t call any names today, but if she’s not paying attention I know she’s been captured Facebook.
So, despite being very lonely at times, especially with the holiday season quickly approaching…I’m just going to enjoy myself with whoever I want, whenever I want. Anyone that has an issue with that can file a report with my keeper. Oh, wait, that’s right, I don’t have one. *giggles* That’s right, I do what I want! Remember that.
I wish you a day filled with love & laughter. ♥

feeling catty

hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Sheba
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [theSkinnery] Amber (*new* @ C88)

*Vanilla Bae* Annie Sweater (*new* @ Equal10)
{vincue} Mely+Undie
Eudora3D Domina Boots (*new* @ X by FaMESHed)

FOXCITY. Late Night Bento Pose Set

SAYO Sin – Crimson Dreams Backdrop
::GB::Black Panther D

***If you are reading this on any site that suggests this post was originally published anywhere but SadyStyle by anyone other than Sadystika Sabretooth, you are reading a stolen post.

…just some words i wrote

He called in sick, when I needed him most
He only saw a piece of the aftermath
And he called in sick
What could I do?
He wasn’t to mine to be true.
Be mad? Nah.
Is that what you would do?

zk & noir kinky event

hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Xia
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee

:::NOIR::: Marie Bracelets (*new* @ Kinky)
Ascendant – Nude Bento Nails (*new* @ Kinky)
-:zk:- Tania Top (*new* @ Kinky)
-:zk:- Tania Shorts (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: FOXCITY. What Gives Bento Pose Set
Paparazzi – Pose Hallway – AMBER

Maybe this time…

“Maybe this time I can be strong
But since I know who I am
I’m probably wrong
Maybe this time I can go far
But thinking about where I’ve been
Ain’t helping me start”
Michael Kiwanuka – Cold Little Heart

Cold Little Heart

hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Amara (*new* @ Hair Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee

[Cynful] Fuzzy Cardigan
{le fil casse} Lauren Dress (*new* @ Uber)
Eudora3D Ada Heels&Socks (*new* @ Uber)

pose: [Black Tulip] Poses – The Darkness in Me (*new* @ Pose Fair)
location: Black Kite

MY Pain

I rarely talk to anyone about my fibromyalgia, because the day I was diagnosed I told a friend of mine and she made a snide remark about how I would probably complain about it all over Facebook, because that’s what people with fibromyalgia do. I’m pretty sure she was joking, but it struck a nerve and I’ve kept pretty quiet about it ever since. I get it, no one wants to hear someone complain about being in constant pain. We all come to SL to escape our worries in the real world and I certainly don’t want to bring anyone down. Besides, complaining about it isn’t going to make it better and there’s certainly nothing my friends in a virtual world could do to lessen the pain.
The thing is, because of her response that day…I’ve hardly talked about it at all…to anyone, except to say I have it, along with a list of other health issues that no one really wants to hear about. So, why am I bringing it up now? Well, its been really bad lately and unless you have it…you cannot possibly begin to understand it. I was actually somewhat relieved when I received my diagnosis, because I thought I was going crazy. It fucks with me on every level. It makes me so tired at times, but I can’t get comfortable…so I can’t sleep…so I get grouchy…so I isolate, because I don’t want to lash out at others. The best way I can explain the pain, is to compare it to the flu….the actual flu, not a common fucking cold that people call the flu to make it sound more legit. Or waking up the day after a car accident. It affects everything from sleep, mobility, moods, and memory. Stress and weather are major triggers. That’s why I’ve been writing about letting go of toxic people and toxic situations, because I simply can’t handle the stress.
As many times as I’ve tried, it is impossible to describe all of the ways it hurts. However, I did find a great website that listed some metaphors that might help someone without it gain just a teensy bit of insight. As I read through the list my inner voice was screaming, “Yes, EXACTLY!” Of course, I linked to the work metaphors for anyone who cares. I really don’t expect anyone to really read it.
I’m not writing this for sympathy. In fact, I’d rather not talk about it other than to get it out right here and now. It is what it is, but maybe just maybe the people close to me will understand why I say some of the things I say. Why I go days without really talking to anyone…why there are days that its all I can do to drag my ass out of bed. The older I get the worse it gets, too. Fun fact: There’s no cure. There are a variety of things that they recommend for treatment, but nothing works completely. Meh, no wonder no one wants to hear about this crap…I’m getting on my own nerves just writing about it. Thank God for retail therapy.

MY Pain

hair:   Sintiklia – Hair Xia
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
lipstick: Ascendant – Cotton Candy Lipstick
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Willow – Jamaica (*new* @ Uber)

.BF. Harness Jewellery Silver (*new* @ FaMESHed)
.BF. Lary Romper Red Metalic (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: ~X.T.C~ Have a Break-3 (*new* @ Pose Fair)
MINIMAL – Bionic Building *4*

I’m a Bad Girl

So, word has it that there’s a certain person out there roaming the grid with her panties all in a twist, riding up her crack simply because I exist. Once upon a time, someone did me wrong and this little birdy was unfortunate enough to hear me say a bad word. Lo and behold, this little birdy has decided that I should be released from all my SL jobs…blah blah blah….she’s been whining all over Facebook and to anyone that will listen. Unfortunately for her, I guess most people are all under some grand delusions about me. Was calling someone a bitch that serious? Does she even have a clue what happened to me to cause me to say such a thing? Well, no, of course not. However, I cleaned my side of the street and apologized to both the person I called the name and the upset little birdy for having to hear it and THAT was months ago. I’m big enough to admit my mistakes. I’m not perfect. Lord, someone smack me down right now, if I ever said I was…nope, more often than not I hate myself more than this silly little birdy ever could. Kinda sad she’s given me so much power over her life, I never asked for all that space in her empty little head. I mean, I’m guessing its pretty empty if she got all that room in there for me. Oh well, I suppose she can attend meetings with all my other haters, maybe she’ll meet some new friends that will take her mind off me. I think they’d get along quite nicely.
Well, what are you waiting for? Clearly I’m a bad girl, who is going to give me my spanking?


hair: #10 – Sintiklia – Baby girl – Hair Elin colors&pastels roots
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Kailee (*new* @ C88)

=Zenith=Vintage Tighten Gloves
_CandyDoll_ Doll Outfit (*new* @ Kinky)
_CandyDoll_ Candy Heels (*new* @ Kinky)

pose by Del May

#selfie_RAMA – Faux Fur Bed ‘Pink’ (*new* @ equal10)

Snack & Other Terms

So, I recently learned a new term on Facebook. Apparently, women are snacks now. I’m not quite sure how that started or why we’re not a full meal or dessert, but its nice to know that men are thinking about eating us. *grins* Okay, so apparently according to the Urban Dictionary, it can go both ways. I just can’t imagine myself or any girls I’m close to ever referring to a man as a snack.
We’ve all heard the word “Bae” and its on that disturbs me to no end, especially now that I’ve done a minute bit of research. According to the Urban Dictionary (clearly a viable source for information) the word Bae is a Danish word for poop. Considering how many Danes are in SL, I can’t help but wonder how amused they must be when someone refers to their romantic partner as poop.
Turns out that ratchet is a mispronunciation of the word wretched. Between you and me, I like wretched much better. However, apparently this started in Louisiana and I’m guessing it was a Cajun accent that made it sound like ratchet and so it spread to various parts of the world.
I’m learning so much!!! In fact, I discovered a whole list of terms used for women that are not so favorable. Some of them are just hate speech, but you can look for yourself…as it came from the most reputable site of all *snickers* the ever knowing and never wrong, Wikipedia!
I think I’m neither ratchet nor bae, but I suppose one might find me appealing as a snack at least in the photo below

sleeping beauty

hair: Sintiklia – Hair Isla
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

.::Nanika::. Leah Necklace White (*new* @ The Liaison Collaborative)
[Cynful] Stripper Body Dust

{le fil casse} Gabriela Dress (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Phedora ~ Hypnotic heels

pose by Bauhaus Movement


My Cup

I have been on my death bed for…well, today is day 6 and I swear this has to end soon or I’m going insane for sure. I was gonna try to write about how blessed I am and how my cup runneth over, but I’m not feeling so blessed right now. At the moment, I’m feeling like fresh road kill that’s still twitching. So, the only thing in my cup right now is cold meds, juice, soup, more cold meds, tea…DEATH.
So, yeah, I don’t have a lot to say except, “KMN!”

my cup

hair:  [RA]  Shelby Hair (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane
#17 Sintiklia  – Sweet berry – Choker white
(Yummy) Bohemia Ring Set
[Cynful] Lucid Dream – Bra + Panty set (*new* @ FrouFrou)

I can’t tell you what Leric was wearing, because he’s a butthead and won’t answer questions. I really appreciate his company and his help with this shot.

pose: FOXCITY.. You’re My Cuppa Tea (*new* @ Shop Your Heart Out By Linden Labs)

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