Dear Bloggers…pt 2

Dear Bloggers,

Please stop treating what we do as a competition. It’s not a sport. There’s room for everyone.
Stop stabbing other bloggers in the back or trying to throw them under the bus. It rarely works out the way you hope it does and in the end, karma finds it’s way back to you.
Remember that none of us are perfect. Learn to forgive one another for misunderstandings and work together as a community.
Don’t bad mouth each other in front of their best friends.
Remember who helped you when you first started, know that as much as you run your mouths, so do the people you run and talk to.
Don’t bash a brand or even hint at bashing a brand in a public forum. You’re only making yourself look bad and you’re burning more than one bridge when you do that.
Stop taking everything so personally. The world doesn’t revolve around you.
Don’t be afraid to try new things.
There’s no need to suck up to designers and lie to them about the people that work for them. Designers are not idiots and you can damn well bet they know what they’re doing and who is who on their teams.
Accept feedback for what it is, constructive criticism, remember that it’s not your brand.
And last but not least, if YOU think this post is aimed at you….well, you might want to think about why you think that and just for the record, this isn’t actually aimed at one person specifically. This is just a list of what I thought was common sense behaviors, but apparently isn’t. Not sure why I bother doing these little schpeils, but I suppose I hope its going to make a difference. *shrugs* If you found anything useful, take it and use it. If not, leave it here and forget it. I really just want people to stop wasting their precious time on hate and negativity. So…happy shopping…happy blogging…happy living. ❤

Iconic

Sady is wearing:
hair: MINA – Sigrid (*new* @ FaMESHed)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER

_CandyDoll_ Selina Jump (*new* @ C88)
_CandyDoll_ Selina Heels (*new* @ C88)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Kiss My Sass stand (*new* @ eBento)

scene:
JIAN Ragdoll Cat Snoozing Chair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 05 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 19 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Poster (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Messy Mondays Bed (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Rock Star Sign (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 08 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 13 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Smokers Stool ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
[Bad Unicorn] Leaning Lamp ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Guitar (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Night Stand (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha RARE (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 14 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Un-Starry Night ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 15 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 07 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 04 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Dresser (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 02 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 11 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Railed Grail ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
[Bad Unicorn] Messy Mondays Rug *FATPACK EXLCUSIVE* (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Rug (*new* @ 6Republic)

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Selfish Love

Once again, I’m going to let the music speak for me, because as many ideas that I have for what to write…well…*grins*…I’m not telling you. Thanks again to my dear friend, Aaron for modeling with me. ❤

Jessie Ware – Selfish Love

Baby let’s be honest about this
There’s only room for one in your heart
So tell me darlin’, why are we like this?
I must admit that I kind of like it

Oh, you’re acting sweet
I know what that means
All these games we play
Always end the same

Selfish love, why do I do these things?
I break you down, just to get my way
Selfish love, darlin’ you do it too
You tell me lies and I bend the truth
And I, I know
That I can’t get enough
Selfish love

Baby now it feels like we’re dancing
Dodging bullets, now ain’t that romantic?
Take what I want, but you want me to take it
I only give love when I want to make it

Oh, you’re acting sweet
I know what that means
All these games we play
Always end the same

Selfish love, why do I do these things?
I break you down, just to get my way
Selfish love, darlin’ you do it too
You tell me lies and I bend the truth
And I, I know
That I can’t get enough
Selfish love
Selfish love
Selfish love

Oh, you’re acting sweet
And I know what that means
Selfish love
Oh, you’re acting sweet
And I know what means

Selfish love

choke me

Aaron is wearing:
Hair: Stealthic – Haunting
Head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
Ears: Stretched ears-Omimi- [MANDALA]
Body: [Signature] Gianni Body – Body

[Deadwool] Broberry jeans
GizzA – Sports Shoes

Sady is wearing:
hair: MINA – Yelena (*new* @ C88)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
S&P lingerie Elle (*new* Bound Box May)
Mosquito’s Way – Rohnda boots  (*new* Bound Box May)

pose: PURPLE POSES – Couple 784 (*new* @ C88)
posters: Quasi – Downtown Gacha 20 (*new* @ 6Republic)

Posting on Sundays

So, Grace has stated that whenever she post photos on Sundays they don’t tend to do that well on Flickr. I wonder if that’s true or if perhaps its the photos she’s choosing for Sundays. In order to prove my point, I figured two naked girls is bound to get some favs and definitely some views. *giggles* We’ll just post it and see if this does the trick, if not, then Grace wins the bet. What did we bet? Oh, that’s for us to know and you to watch our blogs for….*grins*

getting ready

Grace is wearing:
hair: #Besom~ Moonlight (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] – Monique

Sady is wearing:
hair: Navy+Copper – Risretto (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy

pose: FOXCITY. Lip Service

scene:
Quasi – Worship
JIAN Ragdoll Cat Collection :: Companion (*new* @ FaMESHed)

 

Kindergarten Tired

I use the term kindergarten tired all the time, but most people don’t always know what I mean. Think back to when you were like 4 or 5 yrs old. As if we were trained at birth, we did not want to go to sleep. We wanted to say up as late as the grown ups! There’s a story my mother loves to tell about me when I was in kindergarten and that’s where I coined the term. My bedtime was at like 7pm. Around 5pm, I started asking if it was “sebin otock” yet. I asked the question so many times that they asked me if I was tired. Of course, I denied being tired. Bedtimes are for babies, afterall. By 6pm, my parents were done and decided to lie, “Yes, its seven o’clock, you better get to bed.” I was so tired I cried as my mom made me wait until I had pajamas on.

kinder tired

wearing:
hair: :::Phoenix::: Brittany Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
Narcisse– Dahlia Bra & Panties (*new* @ Blush)
Narcisse– Dahlia Pelerine & Garter (*new* @ Blush)
Phedora ~ Sisley boots (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: double take: down and out 4 set (*new* @ Pose Fair)

Quasi – Risque Bed
anxiety %generation skybox

Do You Know Me?

Keeping this one short and sweet…leaning on a song & lyrics. It’s a message and if you don’t get it, then it wasn’t meant for you. I just want to know if you’re really reading. *winks*

John Mayer – Do You Know Me?

It’s just the strangest thing
I’ve seen your face somewhere
An early evening dream,
A past life love affair
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?
In all my reverie
I thought I felt us there
A feather in my hand,
A flower in your hair
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?
Do you know me, at all?

do you know me

wearing:
hair: DOUX – Coco hairstyle (*new* @ TresChic)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Avenge] Heather skin applier for Catwa – pale

lashes: [POUT!] Pretty Lashes – CATWA applier
eyes: –SU!- [HUD] Isolabella Eyes
eyeshadow: –SU!- Monochrome Eyeshadow +CATWA APPLIER+
lipstick: –SU!- Leandra Lipstick 02 +CATWA APPLIER+

CURELESS [+] Sterile Face Bandages
[Atomic] Kitten Collar
**RE** Kitty Pearls Necklace
Birdy – Backstage – Lace – Lara – White

Quasi – 6 Ulysses Painting (*new* @ Imaginarium)
Quasi – 9 Sparta Motherfucker Painting (*new* @ Imaginarium)

Selfies

I’m often quite grateful that smartphones were not a thing when I was a teenager or in my 20s. As stupid as I was in my 20s, LAWD, I can’t even think about too much without blushing. Selfies became such a big deal, they had to introduce the word into the dictionary. The best selfies will always be the ones where we’re drunk, feeling good, and thinking we’re cute when we’re actually a hot damn mess. I personally take very few selfies. I prefer to take pictures of things I find interesting or beautiful.

prom night

wearing:
hair: #2{Limerence} Astarta hair (*new* @ LootBox)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
Izzie’s – Insomnia (Catwa Applier)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
Bauhaus Movement – Delicate Headband&Earrings (*new* @ The Clique)
Bauhaus Movement – Delicate Necklace (*new* @ The Clique)
(Yummy) Minimalist Rings – Maitreya (*new* @N21)
[Cynful] City Life Set – Top + Skirt (*new* @ Uber)
tarte. flask (mustache) RARE

pose: FUSSY x FOXCITY. Selfie Set comes with phone

ninety – antisocial [ backdrop ] + resize
Quasi – 8. Carless Painting (*new* @ Imaginarium)

 

Spank Me

Alright, calm down, I’m not literally asking all of you to come spank me. As much as I do love a good spanking…*blushes*…its just that this dress from Lybra really makes you want to drop something in front of that person you have a crush on, so you gotta bend over and hope that they like what they see. Ok, yeah, maybe I sound like a cat in heat, but whatever you want to call it, we know its going to get someone’s attention. Oh don’t act so coy, you know you know what I’m talking about. I’ve been wanting to do a pose like this with a belt in my mouth and had a hard time finding anything quite like I wanted. Low and behold, ask and ye shall be granted goodness in thy name as called upon the great designer, Lybra Rage, the designer behind Quasi. Not only did he love my request but he made the belt and named it after me. It even comes with a hud. So, with all the Valentine’s stuff going around, the KinkyEvent, the Fetish Fair, not to mention all our favorite regular events like FaMESHed….well, there’s never been no shortage on flirty, sexy, and fun items on the grid. So, when you get done staring at my ass…yeah, I see you….go shopping and get yourself all dolled up for the upcoming day of lovers!♥
As for me? Some couple have Netflix and chill? I have tumblr and toys. *grins*

spank me
How’s that for a hump day post? <eg>

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Audrie  (*new* @ Fetish Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
Quasi – Sadystika Belt
LYBRA . ELVIRA (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[Gos] Lady G Platform Pumps  (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set

scene:
:CP: Dove Bench
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
Dutchie maledom chair 2.0

Forgotten Road Trip

Remember that road trip that Sady & Grace took? Well, they eventually landed in Vegas, broke and tired of traveling. They were fortunate enough to get jobs as back up dancers for one of the biggest show on the strip. Man, did those feathers itch. They simply haven’t had time to reach and keep us posted about their adventures, so I’m going to assume they’re hiding something. Here’s a rare shot of them relaxing between shows. Don’t judge them for the mess, they practically live in that room.
dressing room

Sady is wearing:
hair:  *Besom Hair~ Vega V1 *Blondes* #20 (*new* @ Epiphany)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Polly – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Corset – Black – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Black – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Epiphany “Classy & Sassy” By Phedora (*new* @ Epiphany)

pose: FOXCITY. Detached Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)

Grace is wearing:
hair:  [RA] Lana Hair – (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: YS&YS – Rose Tone 2
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Corset – Green – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Green – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
Gos – Bianca Pumps

pose: FOXCITY. Red Hot Bento Pose Set

SCENE:
REIGN.- BABE CAVE #1 RARE (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BOSS BABE DESK 2 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- MISC. SUPPLIES (WHITE)- # 10 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE SOFA- #15 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE OTTOMAN (SILVER)- # 16 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE RUG- # 18 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BOOKS AND HEELS- # 22 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE VANITY- # 27 (*new* @ Epiphany)

Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Kiss & Makeup’ Makeup Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)
Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Emotional Baggage’ Handbag Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)
Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Planet Of the Vapes’ Electric Vape (*new* @ Epiphany)

Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter White

18.erratic / lsm – clothing clutter – woman

Dead Dollz – Vacanze Romane – Suitcase
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Smokey Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Nude Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Colors Palette

-tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Round Cloche
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Makeup Bag
-tres blah- Jolie – Makeup Organizer
-tres blah- Jolie – Vintage Bottle
-tb- Vanity – Brushes
-tb- Vanity – Nail Polishes
-tb- Vanity – Platter of Treasures
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Morning Start
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – What’s in My Bag RARE

1. [ dynasty ] – The Oxford Effect – Comb/Cologne

Quasi – Standing Jewelry Box
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box

Fancy Decor: Serpentine Candlestick (silver & black) *new*
Fancy Decor: Plastic Side Table (pink)

[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE

+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Hair Accessories (Pastel)

05.[Sallie x Body Language] Undressed : Bra A
08.[Sallie x Body Language] Undressed : Socks B

[ zerkalo ] Backstreet Hideout – Bra

* SORGO – Pain Killers

NOMAD // Allergy Medicine (Rez)
NOMAD // Bright Headed Mannequin A

The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Bustle RARE (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Bodice – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Purple – MAITREYA(Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Train – Purple – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Headdress RARE (Jan Pocket Gacha)

{-MK-} mannequin_Cloth (Black/1Li)

not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . art work . edition 3
not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . art work . edition 4

A N E Decor – Skull Vase Makeup (1Li) Pink

 

 

Like Lovers Do

Hey Violet – Like Lovers Do

I see you watching me
Eyes on your target
Mix drinks and smoke rings
It’s already started
It won’t be too long before me and you
Are doing what lovers do
Clothes on the floor
We’re exploring our bodies
Getting you off is my new favorite hobby
Lipstick on your neck brands like a tattoo
Cause that just how lovers do
Oh, love is just another four letter word
But that never stopped nobody
Oh, either way we lose
Just like lovers, just like lovers do
His and hers closets are perfect for skeletons
Hiding resentment and shared infedelities
Cheers to regret, wash it down with some booze
Drinking like lovers do
Oh, love is just another four letter word
But that never stopped nobody
Oh, either way we lose
Just like lovers, just like lovers do
That’s how it goes
So take care like a grown-up
Life’s not a fairytale, it’s hard to own up
Hire a hitman to take care of you
And end it like lovers do
Oh, love is just another four letter word
But that never stopped nobody
Oh, either way we lose
Just like lovers, just like lovers do
I see you watching me
Eyes on your target
Mix drinks and smoke rings,
It’s already started
Let’s roll the dice and we’ll both make our moves
Playing like lovers do

playroom

wearing:
hair: TRUTH Halona (*new* @ Uber)
head: CATWA HEAD Uma
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
_CandyDoll_ Paula Dress

pose: Foxcity Beach Bunny Set

scene:
:CP: Dove Rug (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Callot Cabinet (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Annular Clock (silver)
Fancy Decor: Stack of Books II (*new* @ Uber)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Catch All
Fancy Decor: Pinecone Candle (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Callot Mirror (*new* @ Uber)
Refuge – Spark Lamp Shimmer Silver Larger
Dutchie maledom chair 2.0
Dutchie mesh leather poof chocolat
:CP: Dove Book & Tea (*new* @ Uber)
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Paper Pile
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Agenda RARE
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
tres blah– Hodgepodge – Snail Mail
:CP: Dove Bench (*new* @ Uber)
Ariskea[Sage] Succulent 2
Ariskea[Sage] Succulent 1
Kinky Cat Decoration (Black)
Qausi – Pleasure Box
Quasi – Kink Toy Shelf V.2
JIAN Wall-Mounted Betta Tank (*new* @ Uber)
uK – Pony Girl Rocker Wood (*new* @ Kinky)

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