Posted in Artisan Fantasy, Events, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Legacy, Lelutka, Second Life

Calling all my Cool Cats & Kittens

As soon as I saw the Triggered Tagged Kitty headband at Belle, I knew this was a must have. I mean, c’mon…I’m practically a cat. How could I resist? As I dug around in my inventory for “toys” to add to the photo, I came across the perfect addition to my kitty look. I discovered I had Noir’s Meow Gacha – Plug Tail. I quickly added that, as I was already wearing their Nala necklace…also at Belle! So, I’m calling to all you cool cats and kittens…*giggles*…yeah, I said it. C’mon, how can you not love her? I mean, I don’t love what she does exactly, but if you know who I’m talking about and you know me….you know I’m fascinated! Oh yeah, calling all my cool cats and kitten readers…there’s some cute lil cat goodies waiting for you at Belle…including the sexy lingerie I’m wearing!

diversion lyrium belle muse

Sady is wearing:
hair: Opale . Adeena Hair @ Access
head: LeLUTKA Lake Head 1.1
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) Perky Edition (1.2.1)
skin: [theSkinnery] Signe

headband/ears: – TRIGGERED – Tagged Kitty @ Belle
:::NOIR::: Nala Necklace @ Belle
Moon Elixir x MUSE – Beautiful Stranger – Fur – Onyx @ Belle
Moon Elixir x MUSE – Beautiful Stranger – Lingerie – Onyx @ Belle
Moon Elixir x MUSE – Beautiful Stranger – Garter – Onyx @ Belle
:::NOIR::: Meow Gacha – Plug Tail Black

pose: Diversion – Spring Joy

Lyrium Through Glass Pastels Set 2 @ Welcome Back

Fancy Decor: Fuck Throw Pillow

*AF* Capturado Feather Ticklers
*AF* Capturado Rope Set

hive // hanging devil’s ivy plant . pink variegated

MudHoney Liza Adult Toy Box

Bellucci. Lover Buttplug

05. Lagom – Babygirl [ Messy Condoms ]

.peaches. Singles Awareness Clutter – Vibe


Posted in Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL, vinyl

I Need a Plan

Its no secret that I have a ton of health problems, but one problem I rarely have is getting sick with a cold or a flu. Yet, here I am…writing this from my death bed. Okay, yes, I’m being dramatic, but it feels horrible. And its just beginning. Ugh. It’s especially hard right now, because I have inworld obligations that require my attention. No, I can’t pass this off to anyone else. It has definitely made me realize I need a back up plan. I can force myself to work while absolutely miserable, but if this was worse…if I was in the hospital or something…what would become of my obligations. I am definitely going to need to develop a safe guard strategy to cover my basis in an emergency and maybe even a way to enlist some help in the event I am actually too far gone to even sit at my desk for a day.

tableau vivant little fox vinyl

Sady is wearing:
hair: Tableau Vivant // Abigail hair @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

Cae :: Eternal :: Collar
:::NOIR::: Kate Necklace
Little Fox – Ribbed crop top
VINYL – Luna Jean Shorts/Hoodie @ Uber

pose by Le Poppycock

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL


Yes, I have been playing in Photoshop again. I learned some new tricks, got a new add on…so I shall be experimenting quite a bit. I’ve been told I need to find my style and establish some consistency. I’m going to try, but I’m not sure consistency IS my style. I’ve always been the kind of person that just goes with how I’m feeling. I’m a complex woman with a colorful past, more demons than any one person should have, and my mind goes a gazillion miles a minute in all directions. But it has been said that if I want to be taken more seriously as a blogger I will need to calm my little ass down. *laughs* I’m not sure what’s going to happen yet, but being tamed isn’t really something I’ve ever really longed for in the past. We’ll see…

magika cx spirit


Sady is wearing:
hair:  Magika – Sage
^^Swallow^^ Charm Ears
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

Cae :: Eternal :: Collar
:::NOIR::: Kate Necklace
[CX] x Ichigo – Yoni’s Passion @ Hentai Fair
SPIRIT – Chloe jeans

pose: FOXCITY. Angels Bento Pose Set

Posted in Blueberry, Kustom9, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL, [BREATHE]

Bad Habits

Close the door
Take it off of me
Take it off for me
Clothes on the floor
This misery
Loves company

Compulsive indulgence
We’re making love out of focus
You’ll always be my white rabbit
My favorite bad habit

A rush of blood to my head
My heart beats out of my chest
Bad habits
Bad habits
I said never again
But here you are in my bed
Bad habits
Bad habits
~ Delaney Jane – Bad Habits

tram blueberry breathe

Sady is wearing:
hair:  [monso] My Hair – Brida @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

:::NOIR::: Kate Necklace
Blueberry – Reachless – Dress
[BREATHE]-Asumi Heels @ Uber

pose made with AnyPose

for information about the scene see upcoming post: Middy’s Room

Posted in Bueno, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Lelutka, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Be Clear

Making your intentions and expectations clear to other people can save you an incredible amount of heartache down the line. Don’t wait for someone to push you into a corner for an explanation. If you feel that person isn’t worthy of an explanation, go ahead and tell them that. Don’t be a coward. Don’t shy away from confrontation because its uncomfortable, because the unspoken expectations will soon turn to resentments and do far more damage than an awkward conversation about the truth. You can save each other a lot of wasted time and energy by making your desires clear right up front. Tell each other what you want by being open and honest. No one has time for the guessing games, just be clear.

monso bueno

Sady is wearing:
hair:  [monso] My Hair – Brida @ Kustom9
head: LeLUTKA Nova Head 1.0
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [the Skinnery] Ashley (Lelutka) @ Uber

Cae :: Eternal :: Collar
:::NOIR::: Kate Necklace
BUENO-Vasti Outfit @ Uber

pose by oOo Studio

Posted in Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Phedora, Second Life, shoes, shopping, vinyl

Happy Halloween

I really wanted to do an homage to Bewitched, but things don’t always go as planned. So, here I am sitting on a broom stick flying casually past the moon just fast enough to whip my long lustrous mane of hair into a beautiful frenzy of curls. *laughs* Seriously, I just want to wish everyone a Happy Halloween, at least those that celebrate, and to those that don’t…uhm, Happy October 31st! Yeah, that’s it!

Happy Halloween

hair:  Tableau Vivant \\ Witch way – Esbat
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin @ TresChic
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1

:::NOIR::: Elvi Necklace @ Belle
VINYL – Helpless Dress @ Belle
Phedora ~ Eris Heels @ Belle

Birdy – Hocus Pocus – Broom – Ebony


Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life

I’ll say what I don’t mean

“And you don’t know how to let go
Who said this must be all or nothing?
But I’m, still caught below
And I’ll never let you know
No, I can’t tell you nothing
‘Cause I’m a fucking mess sometimes
But still, I could always be
Whatever you wanted, but not what you needed
Especially when you been needing me
‘Cause I’m a fucking mess sometimes
And I’ll say what I don’t mean
Just ’cause I wanted, or maybe I need it
Swear, lying’s the only rush I need, yeah
‘Cause all I needed was some words to say
That all these feelings don’t mean shit to me, yeah
‘Cause it’s all just chemicals anyway?”


hair:  MINA – Isabella @ Belle
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

[ rD ] Ibiza Sunglasses @ Belle
:::NOIR::: Nati Necklaces @ Belle
.SALT – ELLA TOP @ Belle

pose: Diversion – Up Close Poses

MINIMAL – Vege Background RARE

Posted in Animals, Blueberry, Bondi, Catwa, Fashion, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping, Uber SL

Spoiler Satire

Spoilers suck! However, sometimes I think those that are behind on the most popular shows are the ones that should walk around with alerts. They need a tee shirt or a pin that reads, “Don’t talk to me about TV!” or “Spoiler alert, I haven’t seen it!” Why should the rest of us be denied to ability to openly discuss a show that has been around for years? We’ve dedicated our time in a timely fashion to keep up with this program and now because some slacker hasn’t figured out how amazing the show is, we gotta stay quiet? NO MORE! I say you’ve got 3 days to get caught up. We will politely concede to a three day grace period, but after that? Fuck you! Go catch up or don’t listen!
I’m kidding, but the amount of people screaming about spoilers on social media has had me giggling.
Seriously, if you plan to watch and haven’t, you probably need to avoid social media until you get caught up. Odds are, if it was a huge episode, your friends aren’t going to be the only ones discussing it. There will be photos and articles and memes all lurking around every corner of the interwebs just waiting to jump out and stab you just like BLEEP did in that show last night when BLEEP grabbed BLEEP and BLEEPED BLEEP just as BLEEP BLEEPED BLEEP.


hair:  TRUTH  Surrender @ Uber
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

*[Black Bantam] Fluffy Kitty V1 Blue Eyes RARE @ Kustom9
[Aleutia] Ingrid Earrings
:::NOIR::: Ira Necklaces @ Shiny Shabby
BONDI . The Extrovert Sunglasses @ Black Fair
Blueberry – Alicia – Hooked Tank Tops @ Uber
Blueberry -Sunny – Unzipped Shorts

can’t tell you a pose cuz I was just sitting on my house holding the kitten

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life

Days Long Gone

It is 4:30am and I’m sitting here quietly typing in a room lit only be two computer screens and the occasional bout of lightening. The sound of the rain pitter-pattering faster, then slower against my windows, accompanied by the wind creeping through cracks in the glass, all remind me of some random scene in some scary movie. My mind begins to travel to different times in my life as I check the weather website to make sure this is just a thunderstorm and nothing more serious. That’s what I do now. I’m all grown up and now I worry about things like whether or not a thunderstorm is going to turn into some demonic creation of Gaia sent to remind us whose home we live upon. Do I need to trick my animals into the bathroom along with my purse and medications? Dancing in the deluge no longer an option. Oh but once upon a time….and my mind begins to roam through the remnants of days long gone.


hair:  #Besom~Mae
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
.:I ProFect I:. Neriza Mesh Eyes  @ Unik
CAZIMI: Yun Eyeshadow  @ Unik
PUNCH / Heart Tear  @ Flourish
IDTTY Faces – Naoki Lipstick  @ TLC
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

SU!– Trash Doll Gacha -Earrings 02 Silver- #02 COMMON
amias – VIDA necklace @ Belle
:::NOIR:::Zara Watch & Bracelet  @ Belle
CAZIMI: Yun Nails @ Unik
ChicModa // Charlene Dress @ FaMESHed
::OOPS:: Efelios Legs Straps @ Unik
N-core VERA

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Ground Sits VOL2
*cm*MESH – Where’s the revolution – Backdrop @ Flourish


Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Second Life

…just some words i wrote

He called in sick, when I needed him most
He only saw a piece of the aftermath
And he called in sick
What could I do?
He wasn’t to mine to be true.
Be mad? Nah.
Is that what you would do?

zk & noir kinky event

hair:  Sintiklia – Hair Xia
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee

:::NOIR::: Marie Bracelets (*new* @ Kinky)
Ascendant – Nude Bento Nails (*new* @ Kinky)
-:zk:- Tania Top (*new* @ Kinky)
-:zk:- Tania Shorts (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: FOXCITY. What Gives Bento Pose Set
Paparazzi – Pose Hallway – AMBER