3 A.M.

It’s 3AM and I’m sitting in front of my computer taking pictures of an avatar in a virtual world. Thoughts racing through the matrix of my mind, as quickly as the light travels from my screen to my eyes. Ideas…memories…chores…emotions…zooming past me faster than I can type or even catch. When I do catch a thought long enough to look at it…there goes another one and over there is a squirrel…or wait, that just another blur of light.

just a girl
All I need is to be struck
By your electric love
Baby, you’re electric love
Electric love

hair:  [RA] Grace Hair (*new* @ ShinyShabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier
^^Swallow^^ Cuff Bracelet
Narcisse– Caged Valentine Dress (*new* @ Fetish Fair)

pose: FOXCITY. Sass Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – No Doubt (Limit8)


How Bad

I recently saw a meme that read, “Show me how bad you want it” and I thought to myself. Exactly how do you show how bad you want IT. Shouldn’t a grope be sufficient? The P.O.T.U.S. has stated that its ok to just grab a woman by her pussy. Now surely in doing that, he’s performing some sort of mating ritual. I assume, he’s not greeting Rosie O’Donnell or someone’s 90yr old grandmother like that. So, clearly the grabbing of one’s pussy is a signal of some sort. Probably something crass like, “I want some of that!” However, surely if a girl walks up to a man and cups his balls over his pants he is almost certain at that moment that she wants it. Should she drop to her knees in the middle of the lobby, open her mouth and beg to suck his dick in front of the entire world to show how BAD she wants it? Or should she just conveniently forget to wear panties with that very short skirt…that for some reason whenever she wears it, people drop things at her feet constantly? How does one express that they feel like a cat in heat and just want to fuck? Why is that so bad anyway?  I tell you what….I’ll show you how bad I want it when you show me how bad I need it.


hair:  RAMA.SALON – Jennie Hair (*new* @ REWIND)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Saska (Catwa Applier) honey (*new* @ REWIND)
=Zenith=Leather Belt Gloves
.:E.A.Studio:.Obsess Claw
UC_Nina_panties (*new* @ FetishFair)
UC_Nina_skirt (*new* @ FetishFair)

pose: FOXCITY. Beach Bunny Bento Set


Spank Me

Alright, calm down, I’m not literally asking all of you to come spank me. As much as I do love a good spanking…*blushes*…its just that this dress from Lybra really makes you want to drop something in front of that person you have a crush on, so you gotta bend over and hope that they like what they see. Ok, yeah, maybe I sound like a cat in heat, but whatever you want to call it, we know its going to get someone’s attention. Oh don’t act so coy, you know you know what I’m talking about. I’ve been wanting to do a pose like this with a belt in my mouth and had a hard time finding anything quite like I wanted. Low and behold, ask and ye shall be granted goodness in thy name as called upon the great designer, Lybra Rage, the designer behind Quasi. Not only did he love my request but he made the belt and named it after me. It even comes with a hud. So, with all the Valentine’s stuff going around, the KinkyEvent, the Fetish Fair, not to mention all our favorite regular events like FaMESHed….well, there’s never been no shortage on flirty, sexy, and fun items on the grid. So, when you get done staring at my ass…yeah, I see you….go shopping and get yourself all dolled up for the upcoming day of lovers!♥
As for me? Some couple have Netflix and chill? I have tumblr and toys. *grins*

spank me
How’s that for a hump day post? <eg>

hair:  MINA – Audrie  (*new* @ Fetish Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
Quasi – Sadystika Belt
LYBRA . ELVIRA (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[Gos] Lady G Platform Pumps  (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set

:CP: Dove Bench
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
Dutchie maledom chair 2.0


Stone Cold

I’ve talked about how I protect my heart by choosing the people I know will break my heart, because I know what to expect. Here’s the thing though. It almost sounds like I don’t love these people, but I do. I just have serious trust issues. I don’t even trust my own mother and I know that no one on this planet loves me more than she does. It’s better when they leave me in the end, because I know what a mess I am. I know that I’m impossible to completely love. I don’t say that for pity or for people to argue with me. I know its an automatic inclination for people to say, “Oh, Sady, that’s not true.” Here’s the thing. It IS true. None of you really know me. You only know bits and pieces. I think its not so hard for my friends to love me, because our time together is limited. Plus, I am pretty awesome, I’ll admit that. However, romantic love? I’m not so sure that’s really in the cards for me. I let myself believe it from time to time, but I know in the end they all leave….even the good ones. So, it is from experience that I protect my heart by keeping it stone cold. I’m truly happy when someone I love finds happiness, even when its not with me, as much as it hurts. Please don’t make that face of pity or sadness, I’ll be fine. This is my life and I know it well. I’m not an unhappy person. I accept my fate and I make the most of it.

stone cold
Stone cold, baby
God knows I tried to feel
Happy for you
Know that I am, even if I
Can’t understand, I’ll take the pain
Give me the truth, me and my heart
We’ll make it through
If happy is her, I’m happy for you

hair:  :::Phoenix::: Kathleen Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
[Cynful] Alvena’s Leather Strap Dress (*new* @ Fetish Fair)

pose: KlubWerK.poses – Madison set


Snake Charmer

I think we all are pretty familiar with the story about the girl and the snake, right? Or at least some version of it. Sometimes she finds him on a sidewalk, sometimes its a little boy, sometimes it an adult. The gist is always the same. Just in case, I’ve provided a commonly found internet version below. The moral of the story is was tickles me, because most of us will still pick up that damn snake believing that somehow overnight we’ve become a snake charmer and we get bit every single time. I was talking to a close friend of mine the other day and we were talking about life lessons we learned as children. My friend learned by watching family members and being smart enough to figure out who was making the right choices and who was making the wrong choices. Then there’s me…I have had to learn most of my lessons the hardest way possible. I feel like I need some kind of implant to remind me, “Don’t touch the snake!”

Girl and The Snake
A young girl walking along a mountain path to her grandmother’s house heard a rustle at her feet. Looking down, she saw a snake, but before she could react, the snake spoke to her. 
“I am about to die,” he said. “It’s too cold for me up here, and I am freezing. There is no food in these mountains, and I am starving. Please put me under your coat and take me with you.”

“No,” the girl replied. “I know your kind. You are a rattlesnake. And if I pick you up, you will bite me and your bite is poisonous.”
“No, no,” the snake said. “If you help me, you will be my best friend. I will treat you differently.”
The young girl sat down on a rock for a moment to rest and think things over. She looked at the beautiful markings on the snake and she had to admit he was the most beautiful snake she had ever seen. Suddenly, she said, “I believe you. I will save you. All living things deserve to be treated with kindness.”
She then reached over, put the snake gently under her coat and continued toward her grandmother’s house. Within a moment, she felt a sharp pain in her side. The snake had bitten her!
“How could you do this to me?” she cried. “You promised that you would not bite me, and I trusted you!”
“You knew what I was when you picked me up,” he hissed as he slithered away.

snake charmer


hair:  MINA – Sanne (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Shiny Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair –- MaryJane – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
Scandalize. Selena. (*new* @ Fetish Fair)
Scandalize. SelenaBoots (*new* @ Fetish Fair)

pose: Klubwerk.poses -warrior set

JIAN Ball Python Collection (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-JIAN Ball Python Wanderer
-JIAN Ball Python Plop Static
-JIAN Ball Python Plop Animated
-JIAN Ball Python Habitat (empty)
-JIAN Ball Python Companion


Thinking Bout You

Yes, I know…another music post, Sady? Really? Yes, cuz its my blog and sometimes that’s where my mind is. Its times like these, photos like these…the music says it so much better than I can. I can only hope you’ll relate, appreciate the tunes, the photo, and above all the gorgeous creations from some incredibly talents designers. As always, lyrics and YouTube link provided below.

Thinking Bout You by Ariana Grande

I’ve been thinkin’ bout you
Yeah, I’ve been missing you
Where the hell are you, oh, when I need you?
I could still hear your voice
I ain’t got no choice
‘Cause I’m here all alone
I know I can’t wait ’til you get home

Oh, I don’t have you here with me
But at least I have the memory
I try to make it through the night
But I can’t control my mind

I’m just thinkin’ bout you
I’m thinkin’ bout you, I’m thinkin’ bout you
I’m just thinkin’ bout you
I’m thinkin’ bout you, I’m thinkin’ bout you

Got these thoughts in my head
Ain’t no way to forget
Got me losing my breath
Nobody got me the way that you did
Had my eyes rolling back
Had me arching my back
Now you love me so good
I wish you would hurry up and come back


hair:  Stealthic – Sensual (*new* @ C88)
skinDeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Face Miriam”
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
tattoo.Identity. Body Shop – Reborn Wild

Schadenfreude Tear Dermal Piercing,la passionnee(cheekbone)
-SU!- Bento Piercing Set 03
EF: Janus Choker
Amala – The Daddy’s Necklace

{le fil casse} Siouxsie Dress (*new* @ Rewind)
Phedora ~ Jessica boots ~ 28 C (*new* @ Fetish Fair)

pose by Foxcity
SAYO SCENES – Moderna Courtyard – COMMON
+Half-Deer+ Sakura Petals


Kindergarten Tired

She wasn’t sure how much more she could take or how long she could hang on. The weight of it all was simply too much sometimes. The day had simply consumed her and she was feeling kindergarten tired. You know, when you’re so tired, you’d just lie right down wherever you are and gladly take a nap? Yeah, she was feeling that way, but she had much to do and could only take the time to lace up her amazing new shoes. Naturally while she was bent down to do so she took a little rest on her knee. In the meantime, check out those shoes! *giggles*

too much

hairSintiklia – Hair Zoella (*new* @ Fetish Fair)
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
tattoo.Identity. Body Shop – Last War (*new* @ MBA Fair)

Scandalize. Aqua. (*new* @ Aqua)
_CandyDoll_ Adela Heels (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose by Del May
scene: uK – Uptown Fountains Set


Be Still

Be Still

Detached sparks and raining blue beams,
Piercing my head again.
Boundless escapades, expressions and abbreviations,
Unable to escape it, I let it all in.

It’s too early, but my mind won’t be still,
Playing tricks on me.
It’s too late, but my heart won’t be still,
Playing tricks on me.

I’ve changed my mind, I don’t want to sleep,
Distract me with your beautiful mind.
Give me purpose, assign me a position
Let’s run from the hands of time.

Come find me when I hide,
Wake me when I play dead.
Push your way inside,
Shine a light in my head

It’s too late, I can’t think
It’s too early, I think

I’ve changed my mind, I need some sleep
Leave me alone with this war
With my battle, my current situation
That’s what the pills are for

written by Sadystika Sabretooth August 10, 2017

in my head

-DRD- Wasteland Helmet – Metal Mohawk (*new* @ N21)
hair:  .Shi Hair : Hearken / Unisex . E-Nordic
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
.:E.A.Studio:. BOX Moray Nails -Gloves-Ring Set  (*new* @ Fetish Fair)

pose by Del May


A Bit of Real Talk

Alright, its been a while since I did one of these, but I’m going to take a minute and get real with some of y’all. If you’re one of my best friends, you can skip this read, cuz you’ve heard it and agreed before. So, lets just dive right in while I’m in the mood. I’m pretty active on Facebook and while I don’t necessarily comment on most of the crap I see, I do try to like the things my close friends post and occasionally random things that make me chuckle or raise my atheist little hands in an amen!
Today we’re talking about designers. Nope, I’m not going to bitch about them, there’s plenty of y’all doing that all over Facebook. I’m here to defend them. As a blogger, blog manager, and working for events, I’ve gotten to know quite a few designers and I’ve been blessed to get really close to a few. Here’s what shoppers need to know. They set their own prices and they have a reason for whatever price they set. So, if you dare to accost a designer and suggest their prices are too high and that you’re doing them a favor by suggesting a lower price, you need to check yourself. You have absolutely no idea the amount of time and energy and money they spend to bring their creations to the grid. They don’t just sign in, wave a magic wand, and provide you with gorgeous creations. If their prices are too high? Well, BooBoo, no one is forcing you to shop there, are they?
Oh, I’m not done! If you have an issue with something you buy…its got a glitch, it doesn’t fit right…don’t you dare IM the designer and attack them. Take the time to think how you would want to be approached. Trust me, what you’re wearing and how it fits is NOT an emergency and you will survive until the situation is sorted. So, just take a minute and breathe, maybe type it up in a notecard and have a friend give it a read to make sure you don’t come off sounding like a little bitch, because c’mon…these designers aren’t major corporations with warehouses and thousands of employees. You’re not talking to some random person in a call center that might not give a shit about your complaint. Even if you’re having to go through a CSR vs the designer themselves, treat them with the same respect you want shown to you as a customer. Its not nearly as hard to be polite as some of you make it out to be. Here’s a suggestion, start your note with a compliment and end it with one, too. Remind that designer why you bought their item in the first place…uhm, you liked it and had to have it, right? Sometimes you will be disappointed, but if you didn’t try a demo first, that’s on you, Boo!
Just be nice, okay? Cuz these designers work hard and if you’re seeing them in events, you can bet your ass they are dealing with all sorts of deadlines and rules that they didn’t set for themselves. Oh and stop using those huds to get into events, did you know they actually cause drastic lag to the land where the event is located? Its dreadful. C’mon, you can do it the old fashioned way or simply wait…oh and leave your pets and scripted babies at home, too!


hairpr!tty – Sunny  (*new* @ Gacha Garden)
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Face Miriam”
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
tattoo(( Cheeky Ink )) My Immortal Tattoo
piercings-SU!- Bento Piercing Set 03

pr!tty – Rose Kitty Headband SUPER RARE (*new* @ Gacha Garden)
EF: Adoration Choker (*new* @ FaMESHed)
.:E.A.Studio:. BOX Moray Nails -Gloves-Ring Set  (*new* @ Fetish Fair)
_CandyDoll_ Adela Jumpsuit (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose by Foxcity
background: FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Neon City VOL2 Limited (With lights)REZ



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