Posted in Dahlia, Events, Fashion, GenusProject, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life


Tis the season to dress up in all sorts of festive outfits and the recent annual BVN Holiday Party was no exception. They had a themed formal of white and gold. Yes, I had to wear another formal. Lucky for me, I have a weakness for the gowns at Just Because, so I had a few to choose from…even if they make me itch. *laughs* Okay, not really…well, not in Second Life, but I’m not big on formals. That’s just a bit froofroo for my tastes. However, I was a good sport and went to the party in a beautiful golden gown. In fact, my friend and fellow blogger, Caitlin Mirabella, took a picture of us in our gowns and she did a fantastic job. Though none of that is what is being showcased here.
You see, there were lots of fabulous blogger prizes being given away at random and I was the lucky winner of a three month blogger gig with Avi Glam. To be honest, I wasn’t all that familiar with the brand before hand. That has certainly changed and just in time for my adventure with close ups! You see, Avi Glam is best known for their amazing eyes. I’m a sucker for some pretty eyes, so I leaped at the chance to scoop up some new peepers! Be on the look out, because I will be showing off plenty of beautiful eyes in all my close ups.


hair:  [monso] My Hair – Mili @ Kustom9
Beusy: Lunar Cat Ears @ Kustom9
RichB. Trust FaceChain
head: GENUS Project – Genus Head – Baby Face
AG. Enlightened Eyes – Lagoon
lipstick: IDTTY FACES – GENUS NUDE SWINGS 8 @ Access
skin: L’Etre – Lana Skin
Dahlia – Leyla – Kitten Collar @ FaMESHedX

Posted in Eudora3D, Events, Exploration, Fashion, GenusProject, Kustom9, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative, Uber SL

Fire Away

You’re a real tough cookie
With a long history
Of breaking little hearts like the one in me
That’s okay, lets see how you do it
Put up your dukes, let’s get down to it

Hit me with your best shot
Why don’t you hit me with your best shot
Hit me with your best shot
Fire away
~ Pat Benatar – Hit Me With Your Best Shot

belle beusy osmia eudora gingerfish

hair: Beusy: Diabla Style @ Kustom9
head: Genus Head – Baby Face
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.1)
skin:  — PUMEC #RARE 2 – KATE – MAY   @ Kustom9
lipstick: alaskametro<3 “Holly” lipstick @ Uber

LUXE. Bailey Choker Onyx
KUNGLERS – Halime necklace @ Belle
VOBE– Buddha Rings Silver @ Belle
OSMIA – Bianca.Leather Jumpsuit @ Kustom9
[Glitzz] Ballerina Stocking @ Belle
Eudora3D Adele Boots @ Belle
^^^^these are maitreya only, but I used Loose fit with the Legacy body & it was fine^^^^

pose:  GingerFish – Cold Little Heart @ The Liaison Collaborative
location: Somewhere else BKLYN

Posted in CandyDoll, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, Uber SL

Spicy Disaster

Yeah, so I’m writing again and I’m guessing some people wish I’d kept my damn mouth shut. Then again, its all about perspective, isn’t it? I dunno why anyone would want to read the ramblings of my mental mind, but some of you for some weird ass reason. By the way, I’m glad you do…*smiles*

So, today, I’m just gonna touch on perspectives because CandyDoll did this awesome little tee shirt dress for Uber and the graphics options are epic! This one just screamed Sady, so naturally I had to blog it…and not just with a photo…with my wonderous words, too. You’re welcome. *laughs* If you can’t make it out, it says, “I’m not a hot mess. I’m a spicy disaster.” I swear I’m so close to changing my display name to Spicy Mf’n Disaster, its not even funny…well…it IS funny and that’s why I’d do it. Anyway, this rambling mess is just an example of what a disaster I am. However, through someone else’s eyes, I’m perfect. And looking through these very masculine legs, I’m pretty damn cute!

beusy candydoll uber

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: ItGirls – Luccia @ Uber
tattoo: WR – Call Of The Wild Tattoo

Beusy: Vendetta Hairstyle
^^Swallow^^ Crusties Ears 2.0
_CandyDoll_ Alegai Dress @ Uber

pose by Ana Poses

Posted in Catwa, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Scandalize, Second Life, shopping

Beyond Her Mask

“A charm invests a face
Imperfectly beheld,—
The lady dare not lift her veil
For fear it be dispelled.

But peers beyond her mesh,
And wishes, and denies,—
Lest interview annul a want
That image satisfies.”
― Emily Dickinson, The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson

Behind the Mask

hair:  Beusy: Olivia Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Loly

Cae :: Pluma :: Earrings (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Cae :: Pluma :: Necklace (*new* @ FaMESHed)
[Cynful]  Stripper Body Dust
Scandalize.SEDUCTION.Mask Black (*new* @ Arcade)
Scandalize.SEDUCTION.Body Black. RARE. (*new* @ Arcade)
Scandalize.SEDUCTION.Outfit Black.SKIRT (*new* @ Arcade)

pose: Bauhaus Movement – Aesthetic Perfection set (*new* @ TLC)
location: Elysion

Posted in Bad Unicorn, Bueno, CandyDoll, Catwa, crate, Events, FaMESHed, Fancy Decor, Fashion, Home Decor, Maitreya, Pose Fair, Scandalize, Second Life, shopping, Tres Chic

Moving On Up

I could hardly do a post about moving and not get the Jefferson’s theme song stuck in my head. I don’t have a whole lot to say about moving except that I’m glad I don’t have to do it anymore. I imagine I’ll spend the rest of my life in this condo. It’s paid for…in full. I remember moving quite a bit as a kid and all through my 20s and my favorite part of moving was unpacking in the new place. That’s the one thing I’ll miss about moving, but otherwise, I’m glad to have a place that is genuinely my home and know that I don’t have to pack up and leave again.

moving day

hair:  Beusy: Autumn Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Myra”

tattoo: [White~Widow] Soorma (*new* @ Dubai Event)

Scandalize.Niah.TOP. (*new* @ TresChic)
_CandyDoll_ Nynfa Jeans (*new* Go by FaMESHed)

pose: [..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion – Moving Day set (*new* @ PoseFair)
[..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion – New Beginnings Backdrop (*new* @ PoseFair)
[..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion-Tender Moments Bed incl phone (*new* @ PoseFair)
[..::CuCa Designs::..] & Illuzion – Box Pile 1 (*new* @ PoseFair)
17 Fancy Decor: Yas Pillow
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Bra
+Half-Deer+ Carefree Bikini Clutter – ALL – Floor Thong
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Edge
dust bunny . fiddle leaf tree
BUENO-Pizza Boxes
[Bad Unicorn x Birch] Mary Janes ‘Noel’s Cookies’
:::ChicChica::: TakeAway
09 Fancy Decor: Gold Dots Pillow
+Half-Deer+ Neatly Folded Blankets – Leaves
crate Filament Floorlamp Steel
Posted in Bound Box, Catwa, Collabor88, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Home Decor, Pale Girl Productions, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Tonight @ FMD

If you’re like me, you couldn’t care less about the royal wedding and you’re more concerned about how you’re going to spend your Saturday night. Well, my favorite place to hang out in SL on a Saturday night is at FMD. I know this must come as a huge shock to you all, considering how conservatively I dress…*giggles* So, let me tell you just  a little bit about FMD. I’m not going to pretend to be an expert or any type of authority on the club, but what I do know is that there are loads of beautiful people there. While it is a pay to join group, the owner, Lance Pyara, is kind enough to allow open access on weekends. Every Saturday night is a themed party and you can dress up or down for the said events.
Tonight, the theme is Speakeasy Vintage Fashion and this party starts at 2pm slt and doesn’t stop until midnight. They’ve got as many time zones covered as they can. So, whip up your version of Speakeasy Fashion and head on over to check it out. I personally feel it’s well worth joining, but not everyone can afford to do that. So, regardless of you ability to join…the club is open tonight and ready for the party!! OOOH and did I mention there are prizes sponsored by Cynful, Prey, and United Colors tonight??? Yeah, so get ready to shake those tail feathers and come party with us tonight!
What’s that? Oh, no, I won’t be wearing this tonight, but FMD is a great place to wear those naughty clothes that show your private parts on any other day. Am I partial to this place? You’re damn right. I found my way there through a couple of friends, but I keep going back because I love it so much. So, don’t give me the bored speech, when this is just one of the many fantastic places waiting for you to explore.

Here’s your direct tp to FMD.

sitting pretty

Sady is wearing:
hair: Beusy: Mija Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)

SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
-SU!- Lovesick Lip Gloss

CODE-5 [ Pamerale ] FEMALE V0.04 (*new* @ ROMP)
toksik – Bloom Choker (Group Gift)
(Yummy) Free Spirit Rings (*new* @ C88)

Narcisse– Bailey Mini Tutu & Pasties (*new* Bound Box May)
[MODA] MADISON PLATFORMS (*new* Bound Box May)

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Ground Sits VOL2

Ariskea[Cocoli] Banana Plant (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Granola. Violette’s Fatpack (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-Violette’s Hourglass Side Table. Old Copper.
-Violette’s Vases. Brass.
-Violette’s Cage Pendants. Brass.
-Violette’s Cocktail Chair. Grey

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Events, Exploration, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Maitreya, Pose Fair, Second Life, shopping, United Colors

Love & Laughter

I know some of my readers are on Facebook and some of you may have even received a birthday message from me (when FB reminds me). I have a tendency to say, “Happy Birthday! I hope this year bring all the love & laughter you deserve.” Or something along those lines. I always wish the love & laughter thing, because to me there are no two greater gifts we could receive. To have people truly love you and to laugh at the world around you. Without those two things, I just don’t think life would be nearly as tolerable.
Life is hard sometimes, but those moments filled with love and/or laughter? Those are the moments worth remembering. Those are the moments we should cherish the most. So, whether you’re having a birthday or not, I wish you love & laughter today and all the days that follow.


hair: Beusy: Cream Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)

hairbase: Just Magnetized – Special Hairbase set 05
lipstick: –SU!- Agatha Lipstick Nudes

SU!- Bento Piercing Set 03
ChicModa // Plastic Heart Earrings and Necklace Set (*new* @ The DollHouse)
Bel Aire Plt Womens WeddingBand by Chop Zuey
::SG:: RingQueen Mesh Nails

UC_Pure_shirt (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Birthday Suit Bento Pose *includes cupcakes* (*new* @ Pose Fair)
location: Black Kite

Posted in Bueno, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Lybra, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Annex, Uber SL

Dear Santa

Dear Santa,

I’ve been a very good girl this year. I’ve conserved water by showering with others. By not wearing panties and bras, I used less water, electricity, and detergent doing laundry. I conserved electricity on cold nights by snuggling up close to someone. Our bodies kept each other warm instead of using the heat. As I am so very concerned about your health, I’ve not laid out any milk and cookies for you this year. Instead, I’ll be waiting in the red chair with something organic and naturally sweet just for you. I think you can probably guess what I want for Christmas this year. I’ll see YOU on Christmas Eve.

tenderly yours,

good girls

hair: Beusy: Vexing Hairstyle
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype (*new* @ Uber)
EF: Tidings Bento Rings – LARA (*new* @ FaMESHed)
The Annex – Mrs Claus Gacha – Naughty – MAITREYA RARE BLACK (Dec Pocket Gacha)
N-core BIANCA (*new* @ Winter Trend)

pose: Foxcity Bad Kitty Vol2 Set
BUENO– Proper Chair-Red
{anc} ChainLamps”SODA”

Posted in Bueno, CandyDoll, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Second Life, shopping

Between the Lines

When doing this picture, I had this song in my head the whole time, so here we go again…I give you a link to the video and the lyrics are below. I hope you enjoy it. ♥

Stone Temple Pilots – Between the Lines

Lovely disguise, read between the lines
You rock the magic plane with no abbreviation
Three, four you sell what you bought
And there ain’t no magic pen to get back what you lost

I like it when we talk about love

I like it when we talk about love
You always were my favorite drug
Even when we used to take drugs

Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take

Penguins don’t fly
Crocodile Sunday smile
Really like to fish but don’t like superficial people
Shoe store heard it all before
From pearly whites to pearly gates
What do we have to argue ’bout

I like it when we talk about love
I like it when we talk about love
You always were my favorite drug
Even when we used to take drugs

Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take

Leave me all alone before
(Get out the way)
Never did what she was told
(Get out the way)
Seems to play at time of war
(Get out the way)
Less is big and listens more?

Lovely disguise, read between the lines
You rock the magic plane with no abbreviation
Three, four you sell what you bought
And there ain’t no magic pen to get back what you lost

I like it when we talk about love

I like it when we talk about love
You always were my favorite drug
Even when we used to take drugs

Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take
Even when we used to take

between the lines

hair:  Beusy: Tauri Hair / Becrux Gacha (November PocketGacha)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
**RE** Deah Gloves
_CandyDoll_ Rania Pants (*new* @ C88)

pose: Foxcity Made Up Set
BUENO-Night Life-Beams Neutral

Posted in 4Mesh, Chic Moda, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Second Life, shopping

A New Place

Today we’re taking a teensy little field trip! C’mon, let’s go to Picturerotica! That’s right, you read that correctly and if you click the name below, you’ll get the slurl! This is a brand new sim that just had their grand opening on November 17! Here’s the land description: An adult play sim dedicated to providing a picture perfect setting for all of your romantic and erotic experiences. 18+ 

Now, I warn you to use caution when sitting on anything, because as Nakari has said, ” If you can sit on it you can cum on it.” Now, don’t get your pretty little mesh panties twisted, unless you’re into that. Yes, you can have sex in the open here. Yes, you can get naked. But let me tell you, this place has been landscaped to the nines. It is gorgeous! They have events like Furry night (no its not specifically a furry sim, all are welcome) and live music, as well as DJs.  There is also a group fee, so if you’re aiming to take photos and need to rez a stand or anything, you’ll need to join the group for L$150, just make sure you pick up after yourself, yeah?

new places

hair:  Beusy: Antares Hair / Becrux Gacha / (November PocketGacha)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Slipper – Laura Bento Rings (*new* @ 4Mesh)
ChicModa // Kim // Full Set (*new* @ Whimsical)

pose: Foxcity Hightlights Vol2 Set
location: Picturerotica