Adulting Is Overrated

To be more childlike, you don’t have to give up being an adult. The fully integrated person is capable of being both an adult and a child simultaneously. Recapture the childlike feelings of wide-eyed excitement, spontaneous appreciation, cutting loose, and being full of awe and wonder at this magnificent universe. ~Wayne Dyer

adulting

wearing:
hair: #Besom~Andy (*new* @ Kustom9)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy
Pseudo- Weeknd Hoodie Gray
.::Dead Dollz::. Basic Underwear
{Luxuria} Fall/Winter 16 Thigh High Socks
REIGN.- JUNE SNEAKERS
e.marie // Tea Mug – Tears

pose: FOXCITY. Spot On Bento Pose Set (*new* @ EQUAL10)

scene:
JIAN Sugar Glider Habitat (UBER until April 23rd)

[Bad Unicorn] Sleepover Set (*new* @ FaMESHed)
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Retro-Brick Lamp’ Sleepover Set
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Retro Robot’ Sleepover Set (6 Texture Options)
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Bunkbed (Light)’ Sleep Over Set
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Cube Chair (complete)’ Sleepover Set
-[Bad Unicorn] ‘Cube Chair (incomplete)’ Sleepover Set

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Let’s Take Another Selfie!

I have to say that while the duck faces and bathroom mirror selfies are really amusing and tacky. I am grateful for the fact that our smart phones have helped us perfect those self portrait photos. I remember holding cameras up to take pics with friends and hoping for the best, only to find us headless when the photos were finally developed. I remember waiting a week for photos to get developed. It’s amazing how such a simple thing has changed our lives so dramatically. Just think, there are people alive today that know nothing about having to rewind film and dropping it off to have it developed into 4×6 prints…doubles if you were willing to pay extra! Now not only can we take accurate selfies, but we can take pictures of ourselves taking selfies! *giggles*

Vacation Selfies

wearing:
hair: #Besom~Flower child (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy
[Z O O M] Clymena Glasses
EF: Siren Bento Rings (*new* @ FaMESHed)
ChicModa // Debbie Swimsuit (*new* @ Spring Flair)

pose: FOXCITY. Selfie VOL3 Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Kustom9)
location: Pandora Resort ~ Namaste

E2V-I’m No Expert, but…

So, there’s been a lot of posts on Facebook (and other social media, I’m sure) as well as notices being sent out in SL about the E2V system shutting down. I’m no expert, but let let me try to explain what’s happening. I’ve been watching designers scramble for solutions and suggestions to their customers. It truly breaks my heart. I’ve heard a lot of bitching from others about being forced to use or lose their credits. So, I wanted to take a minute and explain what I know about the situation, regarding both sides.
I’m going to start with the designers. I’m hoping that customers will read this and perhaps have a bit more empathy for the designers and their predicament. The way the system works is that they drop a script into their vendors and they have a server in which they drop the actual product. This system stores the purchase history of each customer, the products, maintains the credits, and re-deliveries. These designers were given a very short notice to come up with an alternative system and change over all of their vendors. Some of these stores have thousands of vendors. Think about each single color, plus fatpacks. They have to manually go through all of those vendors to set up said new system or go back to the old days when you simply bought the contents of the box, there were no credit systems or gifting options. This is going to be a tremendous amount of tedious work, regardless of which direction they go with their vendors. There are options out there, but each designer has to figure out what is best for them. I know that if I were a designer, I’d probably go back to the old way of doing things to prevent myself from ever being in this situation again.
From the customer’s perspective, some of them have been saving their credits so they can eventually afford a fatpack, or they’ve got so much credit they can’t possibly spend it all right away. As one of my friends stated, “I have everything I want from that store and there’s nothing new at the moment.” Fortunately, we all have until the end of May to use those gift cards and credits. Something else to remember, in the real world gift cards expire after one year and sometimes you get a gift card for a store that goes out of business before you ever get a chance to use it. I understand that it’s going to suck if you lose your store credits in this process, but its not the end of the world. I promise. I know that most stores are honestly trying to find an alternative for you all, but some stores are simply too big and their database is too massive to manually reach out to each and every customer while changing their vendors at the same time.
This is a lose lose for everyone. I’m asking that everyone remember that this does not affect just one or two people….one or two stores…this is a grid wide disaster. Please be kind to one another. Be patient, put yourself in the other person’s shoes. To customers, I beg you to please be kind to the designers. Do not yell at them, this is NOT their fault, no more than it is yours. Designers, I know you are all trying so hard and most of you have probably broken down into tears at some point. Try to remember that so many of your customers are simply confused and absolutely unaware of the details of this situation. I ask that everyone please refrain from attacking one another. I trust that designers will go out of their way to assist as many people as they can, but you will need to be patient as these designers have more on their plates at the moment than they’ve had in a very long time. Remember we’re all here to have fun…so please please please be kind to one another and try to understand…no one wanted this, but it is what it is.

starry night

wearing:
hair: #Besom~Gypsy Love (*new* @ EQUAL10)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy
(Yummy) Leave A Mark Set (*new* @ C88)
[Avenge] Libra necklace (*new* @ OMGacha)
LYBRA . HOLLY (*new* @ TLC)
[Avenge] Sparkling black pants (*new* @ Black Fair)
Scandalize. LeslyHEELS (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)

pose: FOXCITY. Spot On Bento Pose Set (*new* @ EQUAL10)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Cosmos (*new* @ EQUAL10)
DRD – Hodgepodge Corner – Chair – Faded Mono

Feeling Peachy

At my last job, there was a woman that was having an inner office affair. She had trusted a few of us with her secret, but when she told us that he had used a can of peaches to enhance their…uhm…oral pleasures. Well, from that day forward anytime someone said, “How are you today?” and someone answered, “I’m just peachy.” My best friend and I would burst into giggles, because feeling peachy has forever taken on a new meaning to us. Perhaps now that I’ve shared that little story with you, it will make you giggles the next time someone says they’re feeling peachy. It’s been years since that happened and it still makes me laugh. As I’ve said many times before, laughter is one of those wonderful parts of life that makes it all worth it sometimes. ♥

waterfalls

wearing:
hair: #Besom~Beautiful Maids (*new* @ C88)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
ears: ^^Swallow^^ Darkness Ears
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica
(Yummy) Layered Chain Choker – Gold
(Yummy) Leave A Mark Set (*new* @ C88)
SPIRIT – Mina shirt (*new* @ C88)
SPIRIT – Mina shorts (*new* @ C88)

pose: GLITTER Poses GP Estere Set (*new* @ Pose Fair)
uK – Contemporary Garden Fountain White (*new* @ FaMESHed)

Forgotten Road Trip

Remember that road trip that Sady & Grace took? Well, they eventually landed in Vegas, broke and tired of traveling. They were fortunate enough to get jobs as back up dancers for one of the biggest show on the strip. Man, did those feathers itch. They simply haven’t had time to reach and keep us posted about their adventures, so I’m going to assume they’re hiding something. Here’s a rare shot of them relaxing between shows. Don’t judge them for the mess, they practically live in that room.
dressing room

Sady is wearing:
hair:  *Besom Hair~ Vega V1 *Blondes* #20 (*new* @ Epiphany)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Polly – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Corset – Black – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Black – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Epiphany “Classy & Sassy” By Phedora (*new* @ Epiphany)

pose: FOXCITY. Detached Bento Pose Set (*new* @ Limit8)

Grace is wearing:
hair:  [RA] Lana Hair – (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: YS&YS – Rose Tone 2
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Corset – Green – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Green – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
Gos – Bianca Pumps

pose: FOXCITY. Red Hot Bento Pose Set

SCENE:
REIGN.- BABE CAVE #1 RARE (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BOSS BABE DESK 2 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- MISC. SUPPLIES (WHITE)- # 10 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE SOFA- #15 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE OTTOMAN (SILVER)- # 16 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE RUG- # 18 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BOOKS AND HEELS- # 22 (*new* @ Epiphany)
REIGN.- BABE CAVE VANITY- # 27 (*new* @ Epiphany)

Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Kiss & Makeup’ Makeup Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)
Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Emotional Baggage’ Handbag Clutter (*new* @ Epiphany)
Peaches ‘N Cream – ‘Planet Of the Vapes’ Electric Vape (*new* @ Epiphany)

Garbaggio // Shoe Clutter White

18.erratic / lsm – clothing clutter – woman

Dead Dollz – Vacanze Romane – Suitcase
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Smokey Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Nude Palette
Dead Dollz – Natural Diva – Colors Palette

-tres blah– Eclectic Collection – Round Cloche
-tres blah- Eclectic Collection – Makeup Bag
-tres blah- Jolie – Makeup Organizer
-tres blah- Jolie – Vintage Bottle
-tb- Vanity – Brushes
-tb- Vanity – Nail Polishes
-tb- Vanity – Platter of Treasures
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Tossed Clothes
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Wine Duet
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – Morning Start
-tres blah- Hodgepodge – What’s in My Bag RARE

1. [ dynasty ] – The Oxford Effect – Comb/Cologne

Quasi – Standing Jewelry Box
Quasi – Opened Jewelry Box

Fancy Decor: Serpentine Candlestick (silver & black) *new*
Fancy Decor: Plastic Side Table (pink)

[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE

+Half-Deer+ Cutie Clutter – Hair Accessories (Pastel)

05.[Sallie x Body Language] Undressed : Bra A
08.[Sallie x Body Language] Undressed : Socks B

[ zerkalo ] Backstreet Hideout – Bra

* SORGO – Pain Killers

NOMAD // Allergy Medicine (Rez)
NOMAD // Bright Headed Mannequin A

The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Bustle RARE (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Bodice – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Skirt – Purple – MAITREYA(Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Train – Purple – MAITREYA (Jan Pocket Gacha)
The Annex – SYTF Gacha – Peacock Headdress RARE (Jan Pocket Gacha)

{-MK-} mannequin_Cloth (Black/1Li)

not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . art work . edition 3
not so bad . NEW YORK gacha . art work . edition 4

A N E Decor – Skull Vase Makeup (1Li) Pink

 

 

Guarantees

There aren’t many guarantees in life, even the stuff sold with “satisfaction guaranteed” can’t really hold true. However, there’s one thing that never fails a woman with large breasts. Tanks tops! Sleep in a tank top or some slinky little nightie with spaghetti straps and you are guaranteed to wake up with one if not both of your titties out.

guarantees

wearing:
hair:  *Besom~Peach (*new* @ N21)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
[White~Widow] Charade – Black – RARE
Pretty Mess – Caasi (*new* @ N21)
_CandyDoll_ Nina Shorts (*new* @ N21)

pose: Foxcity Hair Days Set

scene:
:CP: Mimi’s Bakery Bed
:CP: Mimi’s Framed Cutter Art
uK – Betty’s Boudoir Lamp Table Zebra (*new* @ REWIND)
uK – Betty’s Boudoir Mirror Zebra (*new* @ REWIND)

Extra! Extra!

Once upon a time, kids would stand on street corners selling newspapers while yelling, “EXTRA! EXTRA! Read all about it!” They might even go so far as to toss out the title of the story on the front page. These days we get our news from a variety of electronic devices. So, I figured my best bet was to sit pretty on the ATM machine…that should get your attention, right?
Its Friday and I think most of us are feeling pretty good about that! There’s been lots of events just waiting for us to get paid. There’s an endless array of retail therapy, so no matter how bad your week has been, relief is in sight! Its also the weekend that Cosmo switches things up, so if you want to grab this cute little number from Scandalize go on over and grab it tonight. It might be a few days before it makes it to the mainstore. In the meanwhile, you can hit up Kustom9 for that beautiful variety they continue to deliver. Bueno has surprised us with a diverse set of backdrops and phones!
I hope you all have a great weekend and Happy Shopping!♥

feeling sassy

wearing:
hair: *Besom~ Claire (October  Luxe Box)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Sally. Maitreya (Cosmopolitan until Oct 21)
Scandalize. Sally WARMS. Maitreya (Cosmopolitan until Oct 21)
[VALE KOER] HERMES KICKS

pose: FOXCITY. Bad Kitty VOL2 Bento Pose Set (*new* @ ON9)
BUENO-Night Life-Street Build Scape (*new* @ Kustom9)

F*ck Yeah

Some people say I cuss too much and that cussing shows a lack of a better vocabulary or that it’s a lazy way of expressing yourself. I say, “Fuck off!” I like cussing. I especially like the fact that so many people allow a word to offend them.  A word! Not a racial slur, not a hate filled word, just a word…that is one of the most versatile words in the ever so eloquent English language. Yes, it is a legitimate word. It has earned its place in the dictionary with all sorts of examples and you can even find its origin if you look. Seriously, Google your favorite online dictionary, it’s in there!
I’m an adult, I cuss. I’m a responsible adult that knows there’s a time and place for everything. So, no, I’m not going to scream FUUUCKKK when I stub my toe in the middle of a mall, but when I’m talking to my dog in my yard I will certainly encourage her to hurry the fuck up. *laughs* So, have a good fucking day! (You can take that whichever way you like.)

fuck yeah

wearing:
hair: *Besom Hair~ Pixie *Blondes* #6 (*new* @ PocketGacha)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

[ kunst ] – Vintage Cigarette Holder
*T.Whore* – Sexy Fur Stole Black MESH (store closed)
LYBRA . REESE BLOGGERS (*new* @ ROMP)
_CandyDoll_ Raku Heels (*new* @ REWIND)

pose by Foxcity
Pseudo– F-Yeah Room Scene

You Don’t Know Me

“You don’t know me when I don’t know you
you don’t know me when I don’t know you”
Pleasantville Wentworth (You Don’t Know Me)

I have to admit when I first heard this song it was while watching Wentworth on Netflix and while I highly recommend the show, I have to admit that this song is just as mesmerizing. I had to find it. This proved easier said than done, because the apparently it is simply the theme song. At least that’s the only version I could find. It reminds me of how guarded I can be. How people only know what I want them to know about me and while I’m pretty much an open book, I have my secrets. Despite how well some know me, they will never really know me, just as I can never really know another.
I was going to write about being stoned and how great being high can feel, but the truth is that getting high for me is more than a recreation…its an escape. It allows me to escape pain and all the crap that clouds my truest self. When I smoke marijuana (or partake in edibles) I am lifted above the facades and masks that I put on to pretend I’m normal. Deep down I’m anything but normal and I have some pretty strange views of the world around me. There’s another line in the song that I really connect with that reminds me of time that I spent behind bars. That’s right, I’ve been to jail and almost went to prison. Perhaps I’ll tell my readers that story some day.

“one two three four never tell them what you saw
five six seven eight stay in line don’t be late
nine ten eleven twive now i know a place called hell”

stoned af

wearing:
hair
: *Besom~Sandy (*new* @ Uber)
headCATWA HEAD Kathy
bodyMaitreya Mesh Body – Lara
!Rebel Hope – Cheri Mesh Top
!Rebel Hope – Roxy Mesh Leggings

pose: FOXCITY. Bento Sits VOL1
scene: DRD CS – The Joint Coffee Shop

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