Posted in Catwa, Exploration, Fashion, Glam Affair, Phoenix, Pose Fair, Second Life, shopping

The ideal life

“Good friends, good books, and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life.”
― Mark Twain

lunar diversion

hair: :::Phoenix::: Sophie Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Catya v4.0
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria Applier [ Catwa ]
ears: ^^Swallow ^^ Crusties
body: [LEGACY] Meshbody (f) (1.1)
tattoo: Tattoo “Maneki Neko”_by GoK

Lunar – Chanty Jacket @ Equal10
Lunar – Chanty Top @ Equal10
Lunar – Chanty Shorts @ Equal10

Diversion – Autumn Reading Poses @ Pose Fair

location: Scarlett Isle

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

I’ll watch

Have you ever met someone that is so full of negative opinions about everyone, but themselves? I recently met such a person in Second Life. I know its not the first time I’ve met someone like him, but its been a really long time. Even then, I’m not sure I’ve met someone to this extreme. He seemed like a nice enough person in the beginning. Though I have to wonder why he was where he was when we met, considering his opinion of the owners and those that make the place their second home. This man genuinely seems to believe that he KNOWS things that are nothing more than opinions. He has opinions about the U.S. and the U.K. that are surprising considering that he’s from Australia.
Most Australians I have met have been super nice and just like anyone else. There’s good and bad, but never met someone so displeased with the rest of the world as this guy. He makes wild assumptions and then insists they are facts, even when told that he’s mistaken. Apparently, he doesn’t find himself capable of mistakes.
Why haven’t I blocked him and deleted him? Well, come on now. Would you expect me not to have a little fun with this fellow? Since he’s so prone to negative assumptions, I really do enjoy throwing him tidbits of information and watching him make a complete ass of himself. I’m not sure what his goal is, but I do so enjoy the show. *grins*

phoenix chicmoda fameshed

:::Phoenix::: Jess Hair @ FaMESHed
CATWA HEAD Catya v3.2
[Glam Affair] Alexa Applier [ Catwa ] @ UBER
^^Swallow^^ Princess Ears
Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara V4.1
.::Supernatural::. Aika Earrings Gold #3 @ Arcade
.::Supernatural::. Aika Necklace Gold @ Arcade
ChicModa // Elvi Top & Shorts @ FaMESHed

FOXCITY. Bebe Bento Pose Set

Posted in Bueno, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping

Don’t be that guy

The other day, a friend of mine said hello via IMs. No big deal, right? Okay, I should also probably add that he’s not a friend friend, he’s more like a friend of a friend. Seemingly nice guy that I don’t really have an issue with. However, something strange happened after he said hello that day. He offered me a hug which was nice…I accepted, but afterwards, he patted my ass. *sighs*

me: I’m not one of those girls.
him: I know 😉
me: Then why did you do it?
him: I thought I was being cute. I’m sorry.

I forgave him and moved on about my day. Unfortunately, I can’t stop thinking about it. I had a guy hit on me via Facebook recently who had a rather unusual approach. I assumed he was being creepy and asked him to not be that guy. He responded quite defensively and suggested that I was asking for creeps to approach me, because of the sexy photos I post. Now, I know that’s bullshit. I don’t care what kind of pictures I post. No one deserves to be spoken with anything less than respect. Here’s the thing though, people use Second Life as an excuse, but honestly…would these same men approach a Playboy model or porn star by smacking them on the ass or grabbing at them? I’m sure they get an array of bullshit online like we do. However, I need people out there to understand that just because the POTUS grabs women by the pussy and gets away with it, doesn’t mean everyone else will!

phoenix bueno

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
ears: ^^Swallow ^^ Crusties
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Kleo @ Access

:::Phoenix:::  Alison Hair @ Hair Fair
Ascendant – Gianni Nails @ Access
BUENO-Denim Jumper @ Kustom9

pose in swing

locaiton: Scarlett Isle

Posted in Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life

Chickadee is a brat!

Once upon a time, Sady adopted the most wonderful young woman as her daughter in Second Life. This beautiful young lady was very quick to point out all the adult toy boxes that Sady was putting in her photos. Then one day out of the blue, Sady logged in to receive her very own vending machine full of adult toys. This was an amazing gift from her naughty daughter who said, “Now you have a real toy box!” *laughs* Well, like mother like daughter, my sweet Chickadee is a brat!! I know, shocking! God, I love that girl!

phoenix asteroid box violetity

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Kleo @ Access

:::Phoenix::: Alexa Hair @ Hair Fair
e.marie // Kat Necklace – Sterling Silver
AsteroidBox. Tethys Set @ Kustom9

pose: BellePoses – Alena

[ isuka ] back alley blue backdrop
Violetility – Happy Ending Vending Machine [Dark] @ ROMP

Posted in Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping

Careful there

As people in a world that seems to revolve a great deal around social media, I think it’s important that we choose our words carefully. I’ve seen it so many good people virtually destroyed because of a rant on social media. We’ve all seen it. Then there are those that go back and forth, arguing with one another on a very public social forum. Even more reckless are those that jump into those arguments not really knowing the entire story. We must be careful jumping on these bandwagons, because we really don’t know who is watching. Nor do we know what their perception of the situation is. I think its important that we take a step back and ask ourselves if its really important. Is the rant worth a public audience? Does this argument really need to take place and if so, is it truly necessary that it occurs in public? Do we know the facts of both sides? Have we asked any questions or are we surfing straight into a tsunami? They lied to us when we were kids…they told us that words can never hurt us. As adults, we all know better. So, please, take care when participating in this social media dramas.

phoenix ghoul eclipse ascendant

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Kleo @ Access

:::Phoenix::: Sophie Hair @ Hair Fair
Ghoul – Avaron Top @ Eclipse
Ascendant – Lady Danger Nails @ Fetish Fair
[CX] Pantsu Codex
#EMPIRE – Freesia – Latex Black

pose by Focus Poses

Posted in Chic Moda, Cosmopolitan, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Fat Farms

Alright, so this has absolutely nothing to do with the picture. Its just one of those weird things that crossed my mind earlier. I was thinking about how they made soap in Fight Club. Ya know, using the fat that had been sucked out of fat people at the liposuction clinics? I suppose you could say my mind wandered a bit far and went into some pretty dark territories, because I thought about how humans might one day be farmed for the use of their body fat. It certainly would give a whole new meaning to fat farms.
I mean, the U.S.A. is well known for its overweight population. We are a very spoiled, young nation. Our government has made no qualms about showing how little they actually care about the 99% of us that are not filthy rich. Regardless of who is in the White House, the poor in this country are treated quite badly. So, its not so far removed to think that our civilization could turn on some apocalyptic dime…turn so far in desperate times that the poor are no longer useful as consumers or workers, but simply for our bodies. The obese farmed for their fat, while those more fit might be used for something equally sinister. I have imagined all sorts of scenarios. Amusement for the rich, like they do in the Purge movies. Sex trafficking…well, that’s as old as time. Perhaps they’ll develop leather from our skin and jewelry from our bones. Its not impossible to imagine as ancient civilizations have done just that. Well, let’s hope that none of that happens outside the imaginations of writers and actors.

chic moda cosmo

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Rose   @ Uber

:::Phoenix::: Pia Hair @ FaMESHed
ChicModa // Cora Knotted Dress @ Cosmopolitan
AZOURY – Legende Ballet Shoe

pose: FOXCITY. Show Time Bento Pose Set

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Big Bad Wolf

“You see I am the wolf,
And this dirty, little piggy lives inside of me.
You see every now and then,
I forget which one that I want and which one that I need.
I have come to realize
That both of them have become a necessity
I now have come to realize
That I become which animal I choose to feed”
~ In This Moment – Big Bad Wolf

big bad wolf

head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier

:::Phoenix::: Sandy Hair @ FaMESHed
(Yummy) Grace Ring Set @ Uber
Ascendant – Savage Nails @ LeVeL
adorsy – Tatjana Set @ FaMESHed

pose: [..::CuCa Designs::..] Thrills 04

Paparazzi – Bleak Street BACKDROP

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

I am not your fault

“So I am not a broken heart.
I am not the weight I lost or miles I ran and I am not the way I slept on my doorstep under the bare sky in smell of tears and whiskey because my apartment was empty and if I were to be this empty I wanted something solid to sleep on. Like concrete.
I am not this year and I am not your fault.
I am muscles building cells, a little every day, because they broke that day,
but bones are stronger once they heal and I am smiling to the bus driver and replacing my groceries once a week and I am not sitting for hours in the shower anymore.
I am the way a life unfolds and bloom and seasons come and go and I am the way the spring always finds a way to turn even the coldest winter into a field of green and flowers and new life.
I am not your fault.”
~ Charlotte Eriksson – I am not a broken heart. 

picture perfect

head: CATWA HEAD Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Dee Applier

:::Phoenix::: Sandy Hair @ FaMESHed
*LODE* Head Accessory – Tulips & Cherries [white pink]
(Yummy) Grace Ring Set @ Uber
Ascendant – Savage Nails @ LeVeL
Dead Dollz – Raja Dress @ FaMESHed

pose & props: Le Poppycock *Just Alice* The Big Picture

Posted in CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shopping

Your Heart is as Black as Night

“Your eyes may be whole
But the story I’m told
Is that your heart is as black as night
Your lips may be sweet
Such that I can’t compete
But your heart is as black as night
I don’t know why you came along
At such a perfect time
But if I let you hang around
I’m bound to lose my mind
‘Cause your hands may be strong
But the feeling’s all wrong
Your heart is as black a night
Your heart is as black
Oh, your heart is as black as night
Ah-ah ooo”


hair:  :::Phoenix::: Cherry Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
_CandyDoll_ Nikki Lingerie @ Kinky

pose: GingerFish Pose Sea Jewel @ Flourish

Trompe Loeil – Roanna Bed Velvet
08. Lagom – PinkKink [PlugShelf]
11. Lagom – PinkKink [Rope]
12. Lagom – PinkKink [Paddle]

Posted in Catwa, Events, FaMESHed, Fashion, Gos, Maitreya, Phoenix, Second Life, shoes, shopping, The Liaison Collaborative

Recycle Me

I think I’ve written about my knee replacements in the past. Honestly, I’m not sure. So, there you have it, both of my knees have been replaced. So, there’s plastic and metal in both my knees now. No, I haven’t set off any metal detectors as of yet, but I do have a card for each knee to carry with me in the event that I do. With that said, I was thinking to myself the other day, “I wonder if they have considered using recycled plastic or metal for these parts.” I’m going to guess they don’t, but can you imagine? I mean, the way we’re tapping the resources of our planet as if she’s going to provide for us for eternity….it might be some day that replaceable body parts are made from recyclables. Then when we die, they reclaim those parts to recycle again! Jussayin! It could happen! I’m pretty sure my grandmother would never have dreamed of the day that people were having sex with robots, but that day is here!

recycle me

So, my futuristic look is rather complex and I wanted to make sure you got a good view of it all….so there’s more photos than normal, but I’m not that hard to look at….am I?


hair: :::Phoenix::: Beth Hair @ FaMESHed
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
.:: StunnerOriginals ::.Eyes Cybernetic – Pack One @ Unik
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

[ rD ] – Jaanvi Set @ TLC
-[ rD ] Jaanvi Earrings
-[ rD ] Jaanvi Necklace
Ghoul – Hannya Demon Arms – Tsurara Onna
Dead Dollz – Selene Dress @ FaMESHed
[Gos] Star Boots @ FaMESHed

pose: [InDiGo] Marta Pose Set  @ Unik

Trash it – Technologic Vol 2 – The Bearded Guy @ TLC