Hiding From the World

I recently acquired a homestead and its perfect for me, because though I do share a good bit about myself in my blog. I also enjoy my privacy and I’m quite content spending several days in a row alone. I like having complete control of my land and I love that no one can see who is on my land. I don’t have to worry about seeing someone I don’t care for on my radar because they are somewhere else on the sim. I finally feel truly free to hide away from the world. I can create whatever scenes I like wherever I want and never have to worry about a neighbor putting up some atrocious house with prim trees from 2007. I love my new home, because its the best place to be when I’m hiding from the world.

Dear People

wearing:
hair: MINA – Alison (*new* @ Enchantment)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER

*LODE* Head Accessory – Juliet [iceberg]
Cae :: Gianna :: Necklace
Cae :: Gianna :: Earrings
Dahlia – Sady Cat Eye Sunglasses (May FaMESHed Go)
[Cynful] Heidi Summer Maxi Dress (*new* @ C88)

pose: an lar [poses] The Yearning Series (*new* @ ROMP)

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Dear Bloggers…pt 2

Dear Bloggers,

Please stop treating what we do as a competition. It’s not a sport. There’s room for everyone.
Stop stabbing other bloggers in the back or trying to throw them under the bus. It rarely works out the way you hope it does and in the end, karma finds it’s way back to you.
Remember that none of us are perfect. Learn to forgive one another for misunderstandings and work together as a community.
Don’t bad mouth each other in front of their best friends.
Remember who helped you when you first started, know that as much as you run your mouths, so do the people you run and talk to.
Don’t bash a brand or even hint at bashing a brand in a public forum. You’re only making yourself look bad and you’re burning more than one bridge when you do that.
Stop taking everything so personally. The world doesn’t revolve around you.
Don’t be afraid to try new things.
There’s no need to suck up to designers and lie to them about the people that work for them. Designers are not idiots and you can damn well bet they know what they’re doing and who is who on their teams.
Accept feedback for what it is, constructive criticism, remember that it’s not your brand.
And last but not least, if YOU think this post is aimed at you….well, you might want to think about why you think that and just for the record, this isn’t actually aimed at one person specifically. This is just a list of what I thought was common sense behaviors, but apparently isn’t. Not sure why I bother doing these little schpeils, but I suppose I hope its going to make a difference. *shrugs* If you found anything useful, take it and use it. If not, leave it here and forget it. I really just want people to stop wasting their precious time on hate and negativity. So…happy shopping…happy blogging…happy living. ❤

Iconic

Sady is wearing:
hair: MINA – Sigrid (*new* @ FaMESHed)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER

_CandyDoll_ Selina Jump (*new* @ C88)
_CandyDoll_ Selina Heels (*new* @ C88)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Kiss My Sass stand (*new* @ eBento)

scene:
JIAN Ragdoll Cat Snoozing Chair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 05 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 19 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Poster (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Messy Mondays Bed (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Rock Star Sign (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 08 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 13 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Smokers Stool ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
[Bad Unicorn] Leaning Lamp ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Guitar (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Night Stand (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha RARE (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 14 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Un-Starry Night ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 15 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 07 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 04 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Grind City Dresser (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 02 (*new* @ 6Republic)
Quasi – Downtown Gacha – 11 (*new* @ 6Republic)
[Bad Unicorn] Railed Grail ‘Messy Mondays’ (*new* @ TMD)
[Bad Unicorn] Messy Mondays Rug *FATPACK EXLCUSIVE* (*new* @ TMD)
Quasi – Grind City Rug (*new* @ 6Republic)

Selfish Love

Once again, I’m going to let the music speak for me, because as many ideas that I have for what to write…well…*grins*…I’m not telling you. Thanks again to my dear friend, Aaron for modeling with me. ❤

Jessie Ware – Selfish Love

Baby let’s be honest about this
There’s only room for one in your heart
So tell me darlin’, why are we like this?
I must admit that I kind of like it

Oh, you’re acting sweet
I know what that means
All these games we play
Always end the same

Selfish love, why do I do these things?
I break you down, just to get my way
Selfish love, darlin’ you do it too
You tell me lies and I bend the truth
And I, I know
That I can’t get enough
Selfish love

Baby now it feels like we’re dancing
Dodging bullets, now ain’t that romantic?
Take what I want, but you want me to take it
I only give love when I want to make it

Oh, you’re acting sweet
I know what that means
All these games we play
Always end the same

Selfish love, why do I do these things?
I break you down, just to get my way
Selfish love, darlin’ you do it too
You tell me lies and I bend the truth
And I, I know
That I can’t get enough
Selfish love
Selfish love
Selfish love

Oh, you’re acting sweet
And I know what that means
Selfish love
Oh, you’re acting sweet
And I know what means

Selfish love

choke me

Aaron is wearing:
Hair: Stealthic – Haunting
Head: CATWA HEAD Daniel
Ears: Stretched ears-Omimi- [MANDALA]
Body: [Signature] Gianni Body – Body

[Deadwool] Broberry jeans
GizzA – Sports Shoes

Sady is wearing:
hair: MINA – Yelena (*new* @ C88)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery] Katy (Catwa Applier) toffee (*new* @ C88)
brows: –SU!- Blair Eyebrows +CATWA APPLIER
S&P lingerie Elle (*new* Bound Box May)
Mosquito’s Way – Rohnda boots  (*new* Bound Box May)

pose: PURPLE POSES – Couple 784 (*new* @ C88)
posters: Quasi – Downtown Gacha 20 (*new* @ 6Republic)

Play With Your Food

When we were babies our parents pretend our food was on a train, a plane, a roller coaster, whatever thing they found amusing enough to trick us into eating liquid peas and other disgusting mush, right? Then as we learned to use utensils for ourselves, we tried to construct mountains with mashed potatoes and river of gravy, and dog treats from some of the yuckiest vegetables and we were told, “DON’T PLAY WITH YOUR FOOD!” Now we’re adults and we can do whatever we want. Plus there are all these bizarre cooking shows and gourmet meals out there that are definitely nothing like the food we grew up with. The chefs have definitely had a field day creating some pretty interesting dishes. I say its time we rise up and say it once and for all, “I DO WHAT I WANT!” So, if you want to make a french fry mustache or walrus tusks but shoving a few fries up your nose…do it! Play with your food…have fun with it. Life throws us enough crap to take seriously. I say if you wanna play with your food, then do it!
Grace and I are all over the place and having checked in with our road trip in quite some time, but as you can see from this photo…we’re still up to no good. We’re having a blast and yes, we might have been arrested a few times…so if you’re wondering why there’s been no updates…*whistles innocently*…don’t tell her I told you, but it really was all Grace’s idea. *nods & giggles*

play with your food

Grace is wearing:
hair: {Limerence} Adrianna hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Skin – Not Found – Ana
top: [Cynful] For the Crew Top [FaMESHed Go]

Sady is wearing:
hair: MINA – Celeste  [FaMESHed Go]
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy
piercings: –SU!– Piercing Set 06
top: [Cynful] For the Crew Top [FaMESHed Go]

pose: FOXCITY. Fryends Bento Pose **includes fries** (Epiphany Exclusive)
FOXCITY. Tasty AF – Diner RARE (*new* @ Epiphany)

♥ For Grace’s version of the photo, click HERE

Pink

I have never been a huge fan of pink, but for some reason this season I’m just going crazy over it. There’s so many cute little spring and summer dresses with lace…and the fatpacks give you all these extra options. I’ve just gone a little nuts. I think pink is definitely going to be a popular color in my wardrobe for a while, because right now I’m just in love with all the different shades of pink. It’s also one of those colors you can mix with just about any other color and its looks great. So, don’t be surprised if you run into me wearing pink quite a bit this season. There’s also a bonus to wearing pink, it sorta torments my beautiful friend, Nikole. She claims she hates pink, but I think she’s warming up to it. *grins*

pink
Pink it´s my new obsession
Pink it´s not even a question

wearing:
hair: MINA – Lotus (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)
EarthStones Marquessa Diamond Necklace
Maxi Gossamer – Boho Bangles
[Cynful] Zinnia Dress (*new* @ C88)

pose: ::WetCat:: ‘Britny’ Pose Set (*new* @ Pose Fair)
backdrop: uK – Contemporary Hedge Pergola White (*new* @ FaMESHed)
CR Orchids Mixed Arrangement

Boundaries

Setting boundaries is a way of caring for myself. It doesn’t make me mean, selfish, or uncaring (just) because I don’t do things your way. I care about me, too. ― Christine Morgan

Caution

wearing:
hair: MINA – Maria  (*new* @ Blush)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: Glam Affair – Mindy – Catwa Mesh Head Applier – Jamaica (*new* @ Kinky)

SU!– Piercing Set 06 *new*
4. :BAMSE: Personal Choker – Yes Daddy
=Zenith=Leather Belt Gloves
[The Forge] Kiera (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Phedora ~ Clery boots (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: FOXCITY. Steamy Bento Pose Set
[Bad Unicorn] Bao Backstreet Backdrop

Fish Tales

You know when they have a fishing show on TV? They catch the fish and then let it go. They don’t want to eat the fish, they just want to make it late for something. Mitch Hedberg

Yeah, that’s it for today. It’s Friday, go enjoy your weekend. ♥

fish story

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Jennifer
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
Blueberry – Lila – Crop & Knot Tie Top
Blueberry – Lila – Wrap Around Sweater
Blueberry – Lila Jeans *new*

pose: WHATEVER – What Size ?
location: omgaw, I don’t remember…*facepalms*

I Don’t Need Your Attitude

We’ve all seen the shirts and bumper stickers that read, “I don’t need your attitude, I have one of my own.” Such a simple saying, but nothing could more true about me personally. I really had to learn the difference between reacting and responding, because once upon a time I had a terrible temper. For instance, I had such bad road rage that I had three incidents that could have turned out terribly wrong.
One time, this mini van cut me off and almost hit me, so I cussed, yelled, honked my horn, and followed her home. Turned out to be my best friend’s mom. We ended up laughing about it and smoking a joint, but I know I got lucky.
Another time, this chick cut me off at the intersection to get in the turning lane that I was already in. Same thing, cussing, yelling, honking my horn…she turned and pulled into a gas station and I followed. We jumped out of our cars ready to fight, until we realized we knew each other. We had dated the same sorry ass loser the year before. Again, I got lucky, though to be fair, I honestly believe that one would have been nothing more than a fist fight.
The third time, I mentioned above was the worst. This man cut me off, I had to swerve into oncoming traffic to avoid getting hit. It was so scary and I was so pissed that again….cussing, yelling, honking the horn….and I followed him…all the way to the daycare where he was going to pick up his kid. Naturally, I just drove up to him said something menacing about how’s he lucky he pulled into a daycare. When he saw the metal pipe in my hand (yes, I fully intended to beat him or his car with it), he quickly apologized and explained that he was running late, he was in a custody battle, blah blah blah.  I didn’t give a rat’s ass why he almost killed me, but that day my boyfriend at the time was in the car.
He went on to tell me that I scared him and he was seriously worried about my temper. It was a few years before I learned to walk away when I get that upset. I have to walk away and let myself process what’s happened. More often than not, its something I can just let go and ignore. Other times its something I have to address and you can bet that when I do, I come out guns blazing….only my guns are loaded with words.

don't need your attitude

wearing:
hair: MINALand Of Rainbows Easter Egg hunt hair
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [theSkinnery]  Iris (Catwa Applier) toffee
tattoo: [ATI] Dante.. (*new* @ Darkness Monthly)
LYBRA . HONEY (*new* @ Blush)
SU!- Bento Piercing Set 03
::SG:: RingQueen Mesh Nails

pose: [ATI] Beth set (*new* @ Elite)

Annie May? Ani Me? Ana Who?

We say, “Oh what a small world” when we run into a friend of a friend, but I think its a great  big world and a there’s a whole lot that I don’t know anything about…like anime. I think its cute. I can appreciate the artistic nature…a genre? I get the appeal, but it has never really kept my attention. That does not mean I can resist the appeal to play dress up! Just so happens, LootBox has quite a few items that are Asian themed this round. So, if you love the stuff, this round was made for you. If you’re like me and just like to play dress up, well….get your butt over there. Have fun!
I just decided to have a little fun of my own in a nifty little Asian market I discovered right outside of chill little club lost in a time warp. Of course, the slurl will be down in the credits.

ana who

wearing:
hair:  MINA – Jennifer (*new* @ The Clique)
hair base: Just Magnetized – Special Hairbase set 05 for CATWA (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
head: CATWA HEAD Lona
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: [Avenge] Heather skin applier for Catwa – Ivory (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
~Shiny Stuffs~ Hella Good Lashes CATWA Appliers  (*new* @ SKIN FAIR)
SU!– Oksana Eyeshadow +CATWA APPLIER+

Dahlia – Claire – Headpiece (*new* @ The Clique)
Dahlia – Claire – Earrings  (*new* @ The Clique)

{le fil casse} Haruna Kimono Top Open Maitreya RARE (*new* @ LootBox)
{le fil casse} Haruna Tie Skirt Maitreya RARE (*new* @ LootBox)

JIAN Nimble Nekomata 16. White Outfit Floater (*new* @ LootBox)

pose: GingerFish Poses – You Can’t Sit With Us set (*new* @ The Clique)

location: Groove One

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