Kindred Kitsunes

So, Jian has released these super cute little critters called Kitsunes. Now, to be clear, I know absolutely nothing about anime. I’ve seen a few shows, but for the most part, its just not my thing. I have nothing against it. I can definitely see the appeal, but for me…*shrugs*…I dunno…I just don’t understand it. However, I do get that its a genre of art and entertainment. So, if you’re into anime and love kitsunes, then head over to Loot Box for Jian’s Kindred Kitsune Gacha.
As for the top I’m wearing in the photo, that actually comes with a full skirt option. So, not only is it versatile, but its sexy either way. I can’t help but recommend the fatpack on this one, because of the endless options. Happy Shopping!♥


hair: Tableau Vivant \\ Seelie and Unseelie hair – Nat I RARE
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ  “Merrylu” Mixedtype
UC_Jackie_outfit (*new* @ Kustom9)
JIAN Kindred Kitsunes Water Kitsune RARE (*new* @ LootBox)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Voltage Set – (*new* @ Posevent)



There’s a lot of mystery and subscription boxes out there, but my new favorite has got to be Bound Box. Afterall, look at these shoes!!! They came with a crazy amount of colors that allow you to customize them more ways than I can count. For more information on this month’s box click this link-> (Dec Bound Box)


hair:  :::Phoenix::: Jillian Hair (*new* in mainstore)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Merrylu” Nordic (*new* @ Uber)
(Yummy) Stella Rings (*new* @ C88)
{le fil casse} Marlena Collection Ruffle Top Maitreya RARE (*new* @ Arcade)
{le fil casse} Noelle Skirt (*new* @ Tannenbaum)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Hot Stepper (*new* @ eBento)
.gypsy heart. – Festive Backdrops – Present Tower (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
Astralia – Unicorns Christmas (Red gift boxes) (*new* @ Arcade)

Heart of Glass

Tiger Lion – Heart Of Glass (cold cover)

Once I had a love and it was a gas
Soon turned out had a heart of glass
Seemed like the real thing, only to find
Mucho mistrust, love’s gone behind
Once I had a love and it was divine
Soon found out I was losing my mind
It seemed like the real thing but I was so blind
Mucho mistrust, love’s gone behind
In between
What I find is pleasing and I’m feeling fine
Love is so confusing there’s no peace of mind
If I fear I’m losing you it’s just no good
You teasing like you do
Once I had a love and it was a gas
Soon turned out had a heart of glass
Seemed like the real thing, only to find
Mucho mistrust, love’s gone behind
Lost inside
Adorable illusion and I cannot hide
I’m the one you’re using, please don’t push me aside
We coulda made it cruising, yeah
Yeah, riding high on love’s true bluish light
In between
What I find is pleasing and I’m feeling fine
Love is so confusing there’s no peace of mind
If I fear I’m losing you it’s just no good
You teasing like you do

frozen heart

hair:  MINA – Alexa  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
crown: The Annex  – Moon Child Crown (*new* @ Tannenbaum)
head: CATWA HEAD Lilly
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTaleZ *Appliers* CATWA Head “Merrylu” Nordic (*new* @ Uber)
tattoo: [White~Widow] Caravage – White
Amala – The Kylie Choker – Thick
CURELESS [+] The Twelfth Night / Alpine Fur / PURE
LYBRA . Ara Babyblue  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
**RE** Luxy Rings Set
glass heart custom made

pose: GingerFish Poses – Yuletide (*new* @ Darkness Monthly)

scene created with:
Enchanted Woods V2 from Studio Skye
T-Spot Winter Tree w/ Lights – White
JIAN :: Arctic Fox Collection
Botanical – Complete Decorative Light Set
{anc} cracked glass (cloud)

Serial Killers and Me

The other day I posted a blog asking my readers for topics for me to write about. I presented them the opportunity to challenge me with questions or random topics. I got a few responses and as promised, I’m going to use the topics and/or answer the questions, one way or another. So, one of my absolute best friends, Troy Nelson, posed the question, “Why are you so interested in serial killers?”

I’m not exactly sure why I’m so fascinated with them. The only plausible reason I can come up with is that as a child of the 70s, they were constantly in the news. Serial killers were the boogeyman and I wasn’t afraid of them. I was curious. I’m still curious. What makes them tick. What happened to them as children that they turned out that way. As I studied the most common profiles, I figured out that my father could have just as easily have become a serial killer. Then again, I suppose he still could be one, he’s just not been caught. I swear I wouldn’t be the least bit surprised. I suppose I’ve just always had a morbid curiosity for things that most children my age didn’t. I was far more curious about the devil than I was Jesus and I was far more interested in serial killers that super heroes. To answer Troy’s question….I don’t know, I just am.

What's on your mind

hair:  pr!tty – Jamie (*new* @ SaNaRae)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
tattoo: [White~Widow] Invictus II – Cat (*new* @ Uber)
BUENO-Knot Shirt (*new* @ Uber)
(Yummy) Serena Rings (*new* @ N21)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Doll Face set (*new* @ 4Mesh)
MINIMAL – Anniversary Background

Stay Sweet

I recently had a conversation with someone about terrible people. She wanted so badly to go on Facebook and rant, just blast the entire group of terrible people she was forced to deal with. I reminded her that this was not a good idea. She agreed, but went on to say how she envied the people that did that. She believed they must be happier people after having gotten that all out. I had to disagree. We’ve all heard about how misery loves company and its true. Sure, its your Facebook wall and you can post anything you want, but when you post tons of negativity, hatred, toxicity, and animosity? Well, you’re spreading that around like Nutella on white bread. It might make you feel good while you’re doing it, but afterwards? Well, you’ve just ruined your diet and your reputation, assuming you had one. I personally have a tendency to unfollow people on Facebook when all they do is bitch and moan. That’s why I don’t see all the drama and whining that other people complain about. I just think its better to have a few good friends that you can confide in, vent to, and count on for both the good and bad. There’s no need to publish every little thing that’s going on in your day, your life, your mind and if you do want to do that and think that people actually want to read it…try your hand at blogging like I have! *giggles* It’s very therapeutic and then you can get it all out of your system, while you stay sweet the rest of the time. *winks*

just dessert

hair:  .Entwined. Veronica / Roots
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
{le fil casse} Willa Dress (Whimsical)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Sugar Rush (*new* @ CandyFair)
uK – Tunnel Vision Photo Prop (*new* @ ManCave)
Fancy Decor: Luxe Side Table (November Luxe Box)
Fancy Decor: Luxe Candelabra (November Luxe Box)
Fancy Decor: Luxe Bench (November Luxe Box)


“Whoever is careless with truth in small matters cannot be trusted in important affairs.” ~Albert Einstein

This is a lesson it took far too long for me to learn. Once upon a time I defended the lies on small matters ready with justifications for other people’s lies, not to mention my own. Over the years, I’ve learned that Einstein was all too right. Those little lies are resounding red flags and alarms. I could have saved myself quite a bit of heart ache had I learned that lesson sooner. They say wisdom comes with age, but sometimes I think its really just a matter of taking too damn long to wake the hell up.
I suppose I could expand on that a bit. Whatsoever makes us feel it necessary to tell those little lie is should set off an alarm. We shouldn’t have to lie about ourselves in order to be accepted. We don’t need to puff ourselves up for outside validation. If we feel the need to do that, something is wrong. The same is to be said for accepting lies when we know the truth already. I’m not suggesting confrontation. I’m merely saying that we should take a look inwards and figure out why we would accept or project such lies. Clearly, these lies are indications that something is wrong.

reading corner

hair:  [RA] Sherazade Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
LYBRA . CARLEY (*new* @ TLC)
_CandyDoll_ Zaida Heels  (*new* @ FaMESHed)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Word Lust set (*new* @ Sad November)

L2 STUDIO Jamaica Beach House
dust bunny . papasan chair . white wood . adult
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 3
tres blah– Coffee To Go
LISP – Mesh – Candle Diffuser Tray – With Flame 3li – white

Never Have I Ever #SecondLifeChallenge

Strawberry Singh is away for a family emergency. I hope everything turns out alright for her and her family. She is truly a lovely person. However, I dove into her archives for a challenge and found this one: Never Have I Ever!

Meme instructions: Copy and paste the following statements and answers to your post, delete my answers and input your own. Don’t forget to leave a link to your post in the comments so others can come by and read your answers as well!

  1. Never have I ever had sex, in Second Life. –  Oh yes and still do, judge me if you want, but I like it!
  2. Never have I ever visited a sex sim, in Second Life. – *bursts into giggles* I have visited lots, but not for sex. Once upon a time I was a bit of a troll. Not a griefer, but I would go to sex sims and complain about no one actually having sex, that kinda thing.
  3. Never have I ever been an escort or stripper, in Second Life. – I tried the escort thing for all of 2 weeks. It was my very first avi and escorting was pretty much pressing buttons, but even then it creeped me out and I just couldn’t do it. Stripping? Yeah, did that a few times for the first few years in SL. I don’t think I’ve done it at least 6 years.
  4. Never have I ever been in porn videos in Second Life. – Nope, not that I’m aware of anyway.
  5. Never have I ever done things that may be illegal in the real world, in Second Life. – Oh sure I have…kidnapping, drugs, vandalism…nothing gross though.
  6. Never have I ever created an ALT for secret activities, in Second Life. – Hmmm, not sure how secret they were, but yeah, I did have some alts over the years.
  7. Never have I ever had a one night stand, in Second Life. – Oh, yes, I have…more than one actually, but its been well over a year and while I remember who, I don’t remember the actual act, if that tells you anything.
  8. Never have I ever been part of a roleplay community, in Second Life. –  I’ve tried, but I failed miserably.
  9. Never have I ever discovered a new fetish, because of Second Life. – Hm…I’d have to say I have definitely discovered new turns ons, but I wouldn’t go so far as to say I’ve developed a fetish for anything.
  10. Never have I ever done things in Second Life that I wouldn’t admit to my friends or family. – Maybe not to my family, but my friends? I can’t think of anything I wouldn’t tell my friends about SL. Mind you, my friends are IN SL, so not like they wouldn’t understand. I don’t like people in my RL.


Sweet Dreams

hair:  [DUE] Kenin // Ombre 1
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Babydoll. (*new* @ Kinky)

pose: GingerFish Trouble set (*new* @ eBento)

Oh Deer

When I was putting this scene together, I couldn’t help but get lost as I was thrown down memory lane. Earlier this year, I lost my aunt. I shouldn’t say I lost her, because to be honest, I didn’t really like her. My mom lost her sister. My mom was and still is quite heartbroken. While I didn’t like my aunt very much, there were things I liked about her. I loved visiting her for a few days at a time, because she lived on a mountain in the hills of West Virginia. I know, I know, but seriously, its a beautiful state, especially in the fall when the leaves are so vibrant. I loved being so enveloped in mother nature. There were deer that would come into her yard every night as the sun was going down and you never knew when you’d see a bear lurking about looking for apples. My aunt was especially gullible and I even had her hunting ghost orbs in the Catholic cemetery at the bottom of the mountain once. *laughs* Her home was rustic and so far removed from modern society to include dial up internet as it was all she could get where she lived.
I didn’t agree with her views on life, religion, or politics. I didn’t think she was a very nice person, but there we managed to share some funny moments. Like the time we mouthed words to each other and made my mother think she was going deaf. She fought hard the last few years of her life and finally couldn’t fight anymore. I understood that and I admired her decision to tell her family she was done fighting. To say goodbye and let her go. I know that took a lot of courage for her, considering how close she was to her children and how much she loved her husband. I dedicate this post to her, even though she has never approved of me, my lifestyle, my beliefs, etc. *laughs*

oh deer

hair:  [RA] Rachel Hair (*new* @ FaMESHed)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
Scandalize. Megan (*new* @ Cosmopolitan)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Sour Times (*new* @ Darkness Monthly)

llorisen // simeon lodge (*new* @ FaMESHed)
Trompe Loeil – Keithia Bed Dark  (*new* @ FaMESHed)
+Half-Deer+ Favorite Sweater Clutter – ALL – Draped Over
DRD gg rug brown
*Shabby* Boho Vintage Chest
Scarlet Creative The Arcade Sep 15 – Greenwich Telephone
dust bunny . bunny alarm clock . brown
23- 8f8 – primavera in Toscana Wall Lamp
uK – Simply Said Karma RARE (*new* @ Gacha Gardens)
dust bunny . spotted begonia
BALACLAVA!! Books [horizontal A]
!! Follow US !! Safety dog with pants
Apt B // Hello Billy – Hatboxes
!gO! SteamTeddy +Mad+
[ zerkalo ] Hidden Gems – Dress Form
Kalopsia – Curtaina – Chevron Beige
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 2
Fancy Decor: Hasting Bench (white) (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Open Book (*new* @ Uber)
Fancy Decor: Rain Boots (*new* @ Uber)
Second Spaces – snow day books – messy stack
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 3
[ zerkalo ] Pile of books 1
[Black Bantam] Puppies At Play (*new* @ Chapter Four)
DRD – Series 01 – Floor Lamp – Light2.
*MSS* Garden Party Hanging Wicker Ball Natural

JIAN Fallow Deer Buck & Doe (*new* @ FaMESHed)

For The Love of The Devil

By now you’ve surely heard about the event, For the Love of the Devil. If not, please allow me to enlighten you with the except from the Facebook Page. I have dedicated this post to the event and my gorgeous, loving, inspiring friend, Andrea “Devil” Damone. Please take a look as the event is only a week long and there are some amazing creators that have stepped up. This is the first of three posts I’m dedicating to the event, so have a look below and grab the slurl. ♥

This year, in May and June a friend of many in Secondlife, Andrea Damone (Devil Damone) went in for what should have been a very routine surgery. But things did not go to plan, and Andrea spent many weeks in an induced coma fighting for her life.

We are blessed that she has fought her way back and although her recovery continues, she is home and getting stronger by the week. Unfortunately the cost of keeping Andrea with us has fallen on her greatly. She has many expenses and bills resulting from this ordeal that she has to now face, while continuing to maintain her determination and fighting spirit through physical and emotional therapy.

Andrea had no idea of our plans, but many of her friends have wanted to do something to help. It’s hard in Secondlife to offer support, when often we are so far away from a friendly hug, or a knock on the door with offerings of support. We decided, what we can do is try to help her with the burden of these expenses the only way we can.

For the love of the Devil‘ which we found fitting as her Secondlife name is Devil

For the Love

hair: MINA – Kimmy (For the Love of the Devil)
head: CATWA HEAD Tala
body: Maitreya Mesh Body
skin: DeeTalez
tattoo: -Endless Pain Tattoos- Lucinda (For the Love of the Devil)
[Cynful] Love the Devil Necklace (For the Love of the Devil)
[Cynful] The Oh! Dress – Tangible Blue  (For the Love of the Devil)

pose: GingerFish Poses – Devil I Love (For the Love of the Devil)

anxiety %devil (For the Love of the Devil)
+ Occult + Optimistic Heart (For the Love of the Devil)
+ Occult + Optimistic Generous (For the Love of the Devil)

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