Posted in Catwa, DOUX, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Second Life, Self Reflection, shopping, Uber SL, vinyl


Some days from start to finish are just bad. I suppose I’d prefer all the bad to happen in one day to get it over with, but when the bad is sprinkled throughout all my days and ends up being the icing on a good day? Well, its like someone shitting on the last piece of cake. I swear to god, nothing ruins a good day worse than that one bad thing that just crushes my heart right at the end of the day when you were looking forward to something good!
Like looking forward to spending time with someone all day just so they can leave you hanging to go talk to an ex? Ugh! It’s the worst, right? Of course, its not really the worst, but at the moment it’s happening, it feels like a punch in the gut. Or looking forward to having those leftovers from last night when you get home, only to discover someone threw them out. They didn’t even eat them, they just wasted them by throwing them away! UGH! Your mouth was all set for that…NOW what are you gonna eat? Nothing is going to be as good as what you were craving all day long. Nothing.
So, do we go to bed with the bitterness of the bad day still in our mouths? We shouldn’t, cuz imagine how bad that’s gonna taste when we wake up? That cat better watch out, cuz someone is going to suspect it of shitting in their mouth! So, how do we fix it? How do we freshen our mental breath?
We could act out. We could do something reckless that will feel fully justified at the time, but will fill us with regret later. We could sit and cry about it, but does that really change anything? I mean, sometimes it helps a little, but its not going to change how we feel. The truth is, the only real thing to do is to change our minds. Maybe that crappy thing happened for a reason. We may never even know the reason, but we can change our perception and accept that it has happened for a reason. Maybe its a red flag trying to get our attention. Maybe we needed to make a better choice and this tiny bit of intervention was just the thing we needed to really think about our decision.
If none of that works, then a glass of wine, a shot of whiskey, smoking a bowl/joint/blunt, or even popping a xanax/valium/klonopin can helps us relax enough to chill out. Cuz really, if its a small thing like one of the things I mentioned above? Isn’t that kind of petty when it comes to the big picture?
We just gotta get over our expectations and accept that some times things aren’t going to go exactly as we hoped. It doesn’t mean the world is over….and who knows, we might just get a blessing soon that surpasses that pesky crap that we gave the power to ruin our day. Yeah, bottom line? We give that crap the power it has…take that power away…step outside ourselves to see things with a different perspective and suddenly it doesn’t feel quite so deep.

vinyl dress uber

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara

DOUX – Selena hairstyle
VINYL – Mabel Lace Dress @ Uber

pose: FOXCITY. Carefree Bento Pose Set

Posted in Bueno, Catwa, Events, Exploration, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

This one is for Kess

This is how I show my love
I made it in my mind because
I blame it on my ADD baby
This is how an angel cries
Blame it on my own sick pride
Blame it on my ADD baby
Blame it on my AD
lamb supernatural bueno miss chelsea yummy
I love you, Kessticles!♥

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alexa @ Uber

Lamb. Summer @ Uber
.random.Matter. – Junee Human Ears @ Kustom9
.::Supernatural::. Neiva Necklace
(Yummy) Lepidopterist Ring Set @ Uber
BUENO-Ari Cropped Jacket @ Uber
.miss chelsea. Brin Skirt @ N21

pose: FOXCITY. Back to Baesics Bento Pose Set
location: Baja Tides

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Lybra, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, Uber SL

Just like a flower

Just imagine becoming the way you used to be as a very young child, before you understood the meaning of any word, before opinions took over your mind. The real you is loving, joyful, and free. The real you is just like a flower, just like the wind, just like the ocean, just like the sun. ~Don Miguel Ruiz

lybra belle kunst uber

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Alexa @ Uber

Exile – Nadia @ Hair Fair
*LODE* Head Accessory – Peony Poem Wreath [white]
[ kunst ] – Eden Set (earrings & necklace) @ Uber
(Yummy) Lepidopterist Ring Set @ Uber

:LW: Bento poses – South Of The Border
NOMAD // Classic Peonies

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Cynful, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shoes, shopping, Uber SL

Even if I try

I’m not strong enough to stay away
I can’t run from you
I just run back to you
Like a moth I’m drawn in to your flame
You say my name
But it’s not the same
You look in my eyes
I’m stripped of my pride
And my soul surrenders
And you bring my heart to its knees
And it’s killing me when you’re away
And I wanna leave and I wanna stay
And I’m so confused, so hard to choose
Between the pleasure and the pain
And I know it’s wrong, and I know it’s right
Even if I try to win the fight
My heart would overrule my mind
And I’m not strong enough to stay away

doux cynful chicmoda uphoria

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria

DOUX – Samantha hairstyle
.random.Matter. – Junee Human Ears @ Kustom9
Cynful Diamond – Choker
Cynful Diamond – Bracelets
Cynful Diamond – Anklets
ChicModa // Roxanne Dress @ Uber
**UTOPIA@Design** – “KATYA”

FOXCITY. Stairs (Sitting) Bento Pose Set)
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Lost City

Posted in Catwa, Events, Glam Affair, Maitreya, N21, Second Life, vinyl

You wanna piece of me?

You wanna piece of me? Too bad, I’m not pie! Silly billies! Oh I was feeling mighty fierce the day I took this photo. Isn’t it funny how clothes can completely change our mood? Depending on what I’m wearing, I might feel sexy, cute, fierce, bitchy, professional…okay, scratch that last one. Professional is not one of my looks. *laughs* Y’all know what I mean though. I know you do.

miss chelsea vinyl

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria

Doe: Regina
=Zenith=Buckle Gloves
.miss chelsea. Brin Tee @ N21
VINYL – Fale Booty Shorts @ N21

[ Focus Poses ] Urban 7
location: Drune IV: Aftermath


Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Exploration, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Mina Hair, Second Life

Is anybody out there?

I know it hurts
It’s hard to breathe sometimes
These nights are long
You’ve lost the will to fight
Is anybody out there?
Can you lead me to the light
Is anybody out there?
Tell me it’ll all be alright

mina blueberry iconic

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria

MINA – Karen
*LODE* Head Accessory – Anna [yellow]
Blueberry – Iconic – Off Shoulder Top
Blueberry – Iconic – Shorts & Chain Belt

:LW: Bento poses – Let Me Down Slowly
location: Author’s Point

Posted in Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Second Life

Baby, I’m sick inside

Baby I’m sick inside
I’m definitely out of my mind
I know there’s something not quite right
Disconnect, system override
You’re so brave from your side of the glass
And you, you can’t compute, you can’t do the math
And you’re, you’re playing god with your remote control
But I already know that there’s a flaw in my code and the
The truth is you silently study me
And there are consequences that you cannot see
And you ask yourself how did I unplug
But the simple truth is that I just don’t give a fuck

Forge belle

head: GENUS Project – Baby Face
SU!– Piercing Set 01
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Kleo @ Access
Tattoo “Kali Durga”_by GoK

Sintiklia – Hair Bethy
Kibitz – lacey choker
[The Forge] Kesha @ Belle

pose by Bauhaus Movement
[BH9] – Cyber City 2077 V2

Posted in Catwa, Fashion, Foxcity, Glam Affair, Second Life

Drink water instead

So, you guys know about THAT website that has all those nasty things written by cowards? We’ve all seen what it does to people, right? And what do we always tell our friends that have found themselves on the icky pages of said website? We tell them not to listen, not to read it, that its just hateful, and not true. Right? Then why do we take it so personally when something shows up about us? We’ve got to stop drinking the kool-aid. Stop giving those keyboard bullies a voice and by all means do not give them power over us. The site isn’t going to close down whether we look at it or not. So, its up to us to stop giving it so much power over our lives. It really is just a bunch of nonsense. I don’t really care too much about what people put on there, because even if it’s true…meh…so goes life. I mean, we can’t get rid of pedos just by calling them out, anymore than we can stop the fuckbois for being playa wannabes, or the thirsty ho’s from being thirsty. What we CAN control is how we react. So, to all my beautiful friends out there that are under fire this week or that week or ever…don’t drink the kool-aid! Drink water instead!

addams emilia

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria

TRUTH Euphoria – VIP Gift
R(S)W Water Bottle 2 Plain
Addams // Emilia Sporty Jacket
Addams // Emilia Crop Top
Addams // Emilia Sporty Shorts & Pants

FOXCITY. On Point VOL2 Bento Pose Set

Posted in Catwa, E.A.Studio, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Second Life

Only if you let them

“In my experience, the people you care about let you down, but only if you let them.” ~Veronica Mars

asteroidbox x2

head: Catwa Catya
.:E.A.Studio:.Box Piercing Bare Code
lip piercing: CODE-5 [ Pamerale ]
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria
tattoo: IDTTY – Deep Memories

Wasabi // Venere Mesh Hair @ Hair Fair
Ascendant – Lady Danger Nails @ Fetish Fair
AsteroidBox. Erator Harness @ ROMP
AsteroidBox. Nemesis Pants & Boots @ Equal10

pose made with AnyPose

[BH9] – The Venue

Posted in Bondi, CandyDoll, Catwa, Events, Fashion, Glam Affair, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping


No one likes to be lied to or betrayed. However, there are those that thrive on doing just that to other people. And then there are those that are just careless. The problem isn’t really intent as much as it is actions. We’re all guilty of telling something we shouldn’t have or for accidentally letting something slip. It really sucks when we’re betrayed like that, but so goes life. We can stay mad about it or we can learn from it. Yes, it sucks to realize that you can’t trust someone with a secret anymore, but that’s no reason to throw a friendship away. It just means we need to watch what we say more carefully. Odds are, if it was that big of a secret…we probably shouldn’t have been talking about it in the first place. Afterall, two can keep a secret if one of us is dead.

bondi candydoll

head: Catwa Catya
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: [Glam Affair] Maria

Wasabi // Venere Mesh Hair @ Hair Fair
BONDI . The Autumn Sunglasses @ Whimsical
_CandyDoll_ Darby Lingerie @ Belle

pose made with AnyPose