Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Lybra, Maitreya, RunAway Hair, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

The Outlaw

She knew the moment she saw him walk into the bar that she wanted him. He looked wild and untamed. He was an outlaw, it was written in the rugged lines carved into his tanned skin. His tattoos was old and some of them were clearly done behind bars. This was not love at first sight. No, this was a raw savage lust. She’d never known such a need to feel someone else’s skin pressed to hers before. She knew his type and she knew he’d want something simple like whiskey or whatever beer was on tap. She place both in front of him and smiled, “First round is on the house.”
By the end of the night, he was ready to follow her home and she was ready to let him. That was weeks ago, now they had a routine. He would call her whenever he rolled into town to see if she was busy. If she wasn’t busy, he would drop in for the night. Their passion was raw and unbridled. Their affair only lasted the summer, but the urgency with which they made love would be forever etched into her memory.

waitiing for him
Whenever he called, she anxiously waited on the balcony until she saw him ride up on his bike.

hair:  [RA] Stacy Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
SU!– Osanna Eyes
#ADORED – prizmo shadows – permafrost edition (*new* @ Sultry)
#ADORED – jucci gloss lips – candy princess edition (*new* @ Sultry)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

**RE** Kitty Pearls Set
(Yummy) Bohemia Ring Set
Ascendant  – Moon Dust Nails (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)
LYBRA . CRISTINA (*new* @ Frou Frou)

pose: FOXCITY. Me Time Bento Pose Set
[Schultz Bros.] Alleyway + Garage Skybox (February Builder’s Box)

Posted in Events, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping, unKindness, {what next}

Learning New Things

I recently wrote a post about a thread I had seen on Facebook about Flickr favs titled, “What are you complaining about?” I didn’t remember who had originally posted it when I wrote about it. It turns out that the person that posted it is someone I admire and adore. She got in my box to explain why she had posed the question and then went on to explain why it bothered her. She said that people are using bots to increase favs and traffic on Flickr. That was something I didn’t know. I had heard that people could hire someone to add favs, but I found that to be ridiculous. Turns out my friend said that she prefers to feel as though she deserves those favs and not to have earned them from some bot that can’t even look at the photo. I have to agree with her there. I had no idea people were using alts. This really bothered me, because I feared that people might think I was using a bot since I have some pretty standard compliments with cute emojis. I have to admit I was quite relieved when she explained that no one would think that of me, as I don’t paste those comments on every photo I fav nor do I fav every photo I see. *whew*

I love that she approached me to explain, because I learned something new. I am always open to understanding the other side of things. In fact, I prefer to know why people do the things they do. So a special thank you to her for enlightening me and not being upset about my post. ♥

behind closed doors

uK – Shibari Suspension Group (*new* @ Sultry)
uK – Shibari Rope Bundle 3 (*new* @ Sultry)

Ariskea[Sage] Window [Wood]2
Ariskea[Sage] Window [Wood]3
Ariskea[Sage] Window [Wood]1

Ariskea[ Forsythia ] Paper flower [ Greeny]
Ariskea[RainyDays] Frame Decor
Ariskea[Kuva] Mint table
Ariskea[Sage] Wood Stump Decor
Ariskea[Birdy] Little Bee Vase [Ivoire]
Ariskea[Blush] Magnolia Leaf
Ariskea[Sage] Wood Table & Blanket
Ariskea[Dakota] Paper Flowers [Fall]
Ariskea[Cocoli] Outdoor Seat [rose]
Ariskea[Kuva] Macrame Rug
Ariskea[Amber]Rug [Brown]

{what next} Heart Picture Frame (white gold)

Plethora – Kink Tray (For Her)

[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Zanax RARE
[Commoner] Break-Up Survival Kit / Personal Massager

* SORGO – Pain Killers

Vagabond – Quaint Old Chair (Light)

Fapple– BDSM Tool Box

PILOT – Adult Toy Box [Valentine]

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, GingerFish, Gingerfish Poses, Kustom9, Lamb, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping, United Colors

all that remains

“A heart will swell before it’s hardened
With the flick of the hair, it can make you old
Another hole to dig my soul in
I’ll leave anything bare that keeps me soul
A physical kiss is nothing without it
And you close your eyes to see what it’s done
The body that lies is built up on looking
‘Cause all that remains before it’s begun”

eclipse & uc

hair: Lamb. Gossip
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
SU!– Osanna Eyes
[ Conviction ] Piercing Set 01 (*new* @ Eclipse)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

eyeshadow: Veechi  – Romy Shadow
lipstick: –SU!– Leandra Lipstick 01

SU!– Dagger Earrings (*new* @ Eclipse)
(Yummy) Art Deco Rings
Ascendant – Brighten Stars Nails
UC_Jessy_underwear (*new* @ Kustom9)

pose: GingerFish Pose Lush (*new* @ eBENTO)

Posted in Blueberry, Catwa, Dahlia, Events, Fashion, Home Decor, Second Life, shoes, shopping


“Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery that mediocrity can pay to greatness.”
― Oscar Wilde

There sure are a lot of imitations going around the grid these days. I’m not pointing fingers at anyone in particular, but whether you’re a designer or photographer or blogger….whatever your creative outlet is….know that you cannot stop them from taking your ideas and trying to make them their own. It happens to the best of us. Keep your chins up and keep doing you. Besides, God don’t like ugly and karma is a bitch, between the two…I trust that thieves will suffer their own personal fate.

public bathrooms

head: CATWA HEAD Denice
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

Dahlia – Kori – Earrings (*new* @ A+)
Dahlia – Kori – Necklace (*new* @ A+)

Blueberry – Loli – Hoodie Top
Blueberry – Girls Night – Split Skirt
Blueberry – Fire Boots

pose by Bauhaus Movement

KraftWork Portobello Adult Public Toilet
+Half-Deer+ Spilled Liquid – Small Puddle – Water Set
Stockholm&Lima:Used Condom (Floor)
Stockholm&Lima:Used Condom Wrapper

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, Shiny Shabby, shopping

What are you complaining about?

I saw something rather bizarre on Facebook the other day. It was an entire thread about a few people who have been liking lots of photos on Flickr lately. The thread started with a question, but what followed was what fascinated and confused me. People claiming that they blocked the person for liking so many of their photos. Uhm, correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t we put our photos on Flickr to be seen and hopefully liked enough to make clicking that little star worth someone’s time? There were several other comments that made me chuckle and tilt my head to the side like a confused dog.

One person said that this person had too much time on their hands. Well, the same could be said about those complaining about so many Flickr favs, couldn’t it? I mean, isn’t that just a complete waste of time? Someone else said that the people faving so much were trying to gather favs themselves. That might be true, but it certainly doesn’t mean you must do so.

From there, someone mentioned people that copy/paste the same compliments over and over again. This is one statement that I can understand both sides of, because I am one of those people. Why? Despite the wordiness of my blog, I don’t always have eloquent words or time to explain all the amazing components that I find in a photo on Flickr. I have several words with cute emojis that I use, because different photos warrant a different type of compliment. However, I assure you that I do not copy/paste these compliments all willy nilly. I only paste them if I believe it, just like I don’t invite photos to my Bringing SLexy Back group if I don’t find the photo to be quite sexy.

I think the bigger question should be, “Why are you all complaining about something so many others are genuinely grateful for?” I personally am grateful that anyone takes the time to like or view anything of mine on any platform. Perhaps today, we could all just take a moment and give thanks for some of our blessings.


hair:  #Foxy –  Ari Hair
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
#Besom Lashes~ Sweetheart Lash
SU!– Osanna Eyes
#ADORED – prizmo shadows – permafrost edition (*new* @ Sultry)
#ADORED – jucci gloss lips – candy princess edition (*new* @ Sultry)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

[ILAYA] & [ kunst ] – Addison collar
SU!–  Dagger Earrings (*new* @ Eclipse)
(Yummy) Bohemia Ring Set
Ascendant  – Moon Dust Nails (*new* @ Shiny Shabby)

Posted in Catwa, Events, Fashion, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping


“Baby, I wanna touch you
I wanna breathe into your will
See, I gotta hunt you
I gotta to bring you to my hell
Baby, I wanna fuck you
I wanna feel you in my bones
Boy, I’m gonna love you
I’m gonna tear into your soul
Desire, I’m hungry
I hope you feed me
How do you want me, how do you want me?”


hair:  #Foxy – Tamed Hair (*new* @ Hentai Fair)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
tattoo: -[TWC]- Merek (*new* @ Eclipse)

(Yummy) Art Deco Rings
[ Conviction ] The Claws V.2 – Matte (*new* @ Access)

-SU!- Nipple Piercings #03
ATTIC– Ribbon Wings Black (*new* @ Kustom9)
[CX] Oroan’s Binding (*new* @ Eclipse)
[CX] 9 The Iron Maiden Panty – Silver

pose:  [ Focus Poses ] Naughty Chair 2
backdrop:  SAYO Sin – Manic Reverie – Lucid Dreaming COMMON


Posted in Bondi, Collabor88, Death Row Designs, Events, Fancy Decor, Home Decor, Second Life, shopping

That 70’s Look

This was such a fun scene for me to set up. While I know this will truly date myself, its not like I try to hide my age. One of the reasons this was so much fun was that I was able to dig into my childhood memories. Afterall, I grew up in the 70s and we moved around a lot. Finding pieces to build around a fondue set really took me back, because my mom was so excited when she got her first fondue pot that I think we had it twice a week for a couple of months. I don’t have any deep inspirational words of wisdom or a funny story today, just a smile on my face as I remember some of the happier times from my past.


Fancy Decor: Couperin (at Collabor88 until March 6th)
-Fancy Decor: Couperin Table
-Fancy Decor: Couperin Chairs
-Fancy Decor: Couperin Fondue Set
-Fancy Decor: Couperin Fondue Skewers

DRD gg rug 60s

BONDI . Trunk Bar XL (February Builder’s Box)

:::ChicChica::: TakeAway

floorplan. kitchen phone / black

SAYO – Medusa Mirror – Copper

dust bunny & O.M.E.N . Puppy Basket Bed – Pup
dust bunny . potted cheese plant
dust bunny . hanging plants . ivy planter
dust bunny . hanging plants . spider planter
dust bunny . harvest feast . cranberry punch pitcher
dust bunny . harvest feast . filling
dust bunny . spicy fiesta . chips & guac
dust bunny . spotted begonia
dust bunny . fiddle leaf tree
dust bunny . dreamy outing . essentials bag

hive // macrame hanging plant . stone

[ARIA] Savannah Roman Blinds

.:revival:. rattan pillow basket

Ariskea[Hustler] Gold Lamp
Ariskea[Latte!] Lights & Frame

MudHoney Rosalee Chair

Posted in Catwa, Collabor88, Events, Fashion, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

I Need to Love Myself

“No matter how hard I try or what I do
I just can never fuckin’ impress you
So why am I letting what you say get me down?
I spent my whole life thinking I was wrong
And nobody likes me and it’s all my fault
But I’m done with that shit, I finally figured out
I don’t need to be the same as everyone else
I just need to motherfuckin’ love myself”
~ Olivia O’Brien – Love Myself


hair:  Tableau Vivant // Rhya hair  (*new* @ K9)
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia
tattoo: IDTTY Body Shop – Feline Gaze
.:villena:. – Half Tee – Sheer
[Aleutia] Audrey Lingerie (*new* @ Equal10)

pose: FOXCITY. Melancholy Bento Pose Set
FOXCITY. Photo Booth – Flutter (*new* @ C88)

Posted in Catwa, Chic Moda, Cynful, Dahlia, Maitreya, Second Life

Why Do Men….

Why do men want women’s panties? I understand this topic has nothing to do with this super sweet outfit, but I’m seriously confused about this topic. We see it in movies all the time, men sniffing panties. If I didn’t know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there are vending machines for used panties in some countries, I might just think that it was just one of those silly exaggerated Hollywood things, like how there’s always one survivor in a horror movie, unless its one of Rob Zombie’s. (God, I love him!) Why would anyone want to sniff underwear? I’d love to have someone explain that to me. I understand wanting something that smells like someone you love. I’ve slipped boyfriend’s shirts over pillows, but panties? GROSS! You don’t see women running around wanting to sniff men’s drawers. You know why? Cuz ball sweat…*shudders*

Hmm, this could be the beginning of a whole new series of blog posts…*grins*

hair:  Navy+Copper – Espresso
head: CATWA HEAD Denice
SU!– Osanna Eyes (new @ LEVEL)
SU!– Piercing Set 07 Septum & Nose Studs
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
skin: #PUMEC – Sophia

lashes: #Besom Lashes~ BB Lash
eyeshadow: Veechi  – Romy Shadow
lipstick: -SU!- Leandra Lipstick 01

shanghai – Suri Jewelry Necklace Rose (*new* @ Unik)
Dahlia  – Gamma – Necklace (*new* @ Access)

[Cynful] Snuggle Cardigan
ChicModa // Anastasia Dress (*new* @ Belle)

pose by Del May
location: Missing Melody

Posted in Events, Fashion, Foxcity, Kustom9, Maitreya, Second Life, shopping

Born To Die

“Lost but now I am found
I can see but once I was blind
I was so confused as a little child
Tried to take what I could get
Scared that I couldn’t find
All the answers, honey
Don’t make me sad, don’t make me cry
Sometimes love is not enough and the road gets tough, I don’t know why
Keep making me laugh
Let’s go get high
The road is long, we carry on
Try to have fun in the meantime
Come take a walk on the wild side
Come kiss me hard in the pouring rain
You like your girls insane
So, choose your last words, this is the last time
‘Cause you and I, we were born to die
We were born to die
We were born to die”

Born to Die

hair:  #Foxy – Darling Hair (*new* @ K9)
body: Maitreya Mesh Body – Lara
tattoo: IDTTY Body Shop – Feline Gaze
//MONUMENT// Viper Dress (*new* @ Eclipse Event)

pose: FOXCITY. Lucid Bento Pose Set
SAYO Sin – Manic Reverie – Born to Die COMMON